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By *0NSEAL OP   Man
over a year ago

where ever I lay my Hat

You message a number of profiles you really like the look of, wink at a few (I thought a wink was supposed to get some ones attention so they read your profile). Am I so off the mark with what I want and what i am looking for, Is my profile so bad???.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"You message a number of profiles you really like the look of, wink at a few (I thought a wink was supposed to get some ones attention so they read your profile). Am I so off the mark with what I want and what i am looking for, Is my profile so bad???. "

Honestly? I would feel that I couldn't live up to your expectations, I as the female part of this couple feel that you would be looking me over to see if I came up to your standards. I know you probably don't mean it to come across like that but to me it does.

Your standard of living isn't what would attract us either so you might be putting people off by emphasising your social status.

I would recommend toning that side of your profile down a bit and wish you good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you have to assume that most of the time you won't be what people are looking for.... Sometimes you can be sure that you are, but your message gets no reply. I would just look at it as the way of the site. I don't do lots of messages because it can be demoralizing, but I would expect less then half to get a reply, and most of those to be the end of the conversation. Of those that I do manage to engage in conversation, a small percentage will lead to a meet. C'est la vie!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont think that posting in another thread that you need help getting aroused and have a low sex drive has helped your cause much

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By *0NSEAL OP   Man
over a year ago

where ever I lay my Hat

thats a quote from the original post......tongue in Cheek (pussy) reply. Would you be kind enough to remove your post reply please?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"thats a quote from the original post......tongue in Cheek (pussy) reply. Would you be kind enough to remove your post reply please?"

Me ?

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

You can't remove your own posts only mods/admin can do that (after the first 5 minutes anyway).

It may be wise to censor what you post if you don't want it coming back and biting you on the arse.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"thats a quote from the original post......tongue in Cheek (pussy) reply. Would you be kind enough to remove your post reply please?"

She doesn't need to remove her post because we can look at the little green arrow by your name and see where you posted and you did indeed quote someone else, so don't worry that people will think it was you. It wasn't.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"You message a number of profiles you really like the look of, wink at a few (I thought a wink was supposed to get some ones attention so they read your profile). Am I so off the mark with what I want and what i am looking for, Is my profile so bad???. "

If you describe yourself as an 'executive' and have spelling and grammar mistakes in your profile, then people might, rightly or wrongly, make assumptions. Those assumptions might put them off contacting you.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

One of the first things you say in your profile is about your VGSOL. That would be a turn off to me. I don't care tuppence about someone's standard of life and wouldn't really want to meet someone who did. It's the person I want to meet, not count the number of bedrooms in their house or have a competition with over exotic holidays.

Another thing is your lack of pics. A midriff and a cock is ok, but cold be expanded on. No face pics are always a weakness, as not everyone likes blind dates and with 94,000,000 single guys on here, not many would bother taking it further.

Your prose is pretty decent, I liked the bit about no squished nose, it made me smile. Build upon that in your profile - write it in a similar vein.

Just a few thoughts,

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By *ohnjones3210Man
over a year ago

Chester

Hahahaha!

You're looking for 'stable' women? We both know they don't exist!

Your profile was very straight and i think it lacks a bit of funness.. thats my personal opinion. It's not very welcoming!

However, it is a numbers game to an extent although message quality does matter a lot!

;)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree that the emphasis on status is not a clever move. The prose in itself, however, is pretty good - certainly compared to the enormous drivel that's also widely available here. Spelling mistakes - I'm a comma Nazi myself, but only if it really matters. I'd expect an executive to have a secretary to iron things out for him

If His Lordship hadn't chosen to live at the other side of this perfide country, I'd have sent a message. His loss.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Some of us pay no attention to winks at all and clearly state that in their profiles. If you are interested, send a message.

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By *RYBBWCouple
over a year ago

Leeds.

Not all women are motivated by money and peni.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Not all women are motivated by money and peni."

Well, not money anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not all women are motivated by money and peni."

Theres hope for me yet then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

one of the things that put me off is you don't have an avatar and your only pic is a cock pic. and may be too much info on how you travel here there and every where, i'm not thick but it all got a bit confusing.

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land

Fortunately im too young & not exclusive enough

That & i too read the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aside from the age and the fact that Im not exceptional, I doubt I'd contact you because I'd have to ask WTF VGSOL means...even google doesn't seem to know? My first thought was you had Vagisil, although if I have itching there I wouldn't be looking for relief on here?!

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Its just not a great profile lacking in pics and sort comes of a little arrogant

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