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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ive Never Had A Threesome Cause Ive Always Been Scared But A Couple Wrote To Me And They Were Seriously Gawjus Both Of Them And Im Thinking About Going Ahead With It Any Advice Would Be Great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what do you want to hear?

only you know what floats your boat, and if you make your safety a priority, ie you actually speak to both the make and female, you should love it and be safe.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I Dunno Guess Just Some Tips To Make It As Enjoyable As Possible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 glasses of wine, candle light and an alarm call

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why have you put a capital letter at the start of every word?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why have you put a capital letter at the start of every word? "

Thats A Very Strange Thing To Do, I Wonder Why She Has

The Lotus program had an Icon where it did that for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why have you put a capital letter at the start of every word?

Thats A Very Strange Thing To Do, I Wonder Why She Has

The Lotus program had an Icon where it did that for you "

I just find it hard to read lol and type like that. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why have you put a capital letter at the start of every word?

Thats A Very Strange Thing To Do, I Wonder Why She Has

The Lotus program had an Icon where it did that for you

I just find it hard to read lol and type like that. x"

I know what you mean or those who type in UPPER CASE ALL THE TIME

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"I Dunno Guess Just Some Tips To Make It As Enjoyable As Possible "

Speak to the other two, discuss what you would all like and take it from there.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Two things really -

you say you've not had one before because you've been scared. Have your fears been addressed? If not, then you'd be wise to do so, so that you all get the most from it, or you don't chicken out at last minute etc.

As to what you all do - we all do and love different things, one on one, or in groups to each other. As this couple has caught your interest, then I'd follow from there - what is it you like about them, is there some bi element that's mentioned/desired etc? As it's something new, you could either make it almost like a one on one play, except there's another there, or step out of your comfort zone and really go for it!

The main thing, as with any meet, is that you're all right for each other, as are your interests for play. Open discussion will allow them to tell your theirs, and you could either be drawn to some of that, or else introduce some of your own ideas.

Whatever you do, don't facilitate getting fears, as that could restrict you, as well as them of course. Perhaps meet socially as much as you like first, so that you're all as comfortable as possible.

Anyway, take care and have fun!

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By *umpleteazerWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Make sure they know how nervous you are. If they are worth your time they will do their best to help you overcome any fears and relax you. Make sure you chat on the phone, and as suggested above, meet socially, as that will also help put you at ease. Make sure you are all aware of any boundaries before play begins so that you are not worried about anyone doing anything that you know you will not like

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By *heriff and his mistressCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"Make sure they know how nervous you are. If they are worth your time they will do their best to help you overcome any fears and relax you. Make sure you chat on the phone, and as suggested above, meet socially, as that will also help put you at ease. Make sure you are all aware of any boundaries before play begins so that you are not worried about anyone doing anything that you know you will not like "
i totally agree with this always have to feel comfortable x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks Everyone Means A Lot To Me Ill Keep Everything In Mind

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Just go and have fun. If they can't please you contact me

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