FabSwingers.com forum: single fems verification ?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

hi im not sure wether i am being a cynical old man here , but personallly when i see a single girls profile and its not been verified it puts me off , purely because im suspicious and really dont want to be messed about . i was thinking if im out of order thinking like that and also what experiences you have had with girls or profiles who have not been verified ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

that goes for single guys to, suppose it depends how long they have been on the site, im just chatting to someone who said he had loads of meets, but not 1 single verif ?? hmmmmm bull i say lol .

i guess there are odd balls out there who say they are single fems wen its a guy?? i dunno, lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i guess there are odd balls out there who say they are single fems wen its a guy?? i dunno, lol"

Funny, because I'm actually a single fem really, but it works for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well it cud just be that they havent met anyone who is verified themsleves yet .

being a sinlge fem an not havin a veri dont mean she waste owe space same as single lads aint all a waste either .

try giving some of them the benefit of the doubt an hey after all ur one of the single lads on here that managed to meet a verified person not all so lucky when they join xx

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By *teve_SoleilCouple
over a year ago

Malaysia

is it photo-verified or people verified?....if people verified if everybody runs away...then who's gonna verify her???:D

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

people verified mainly , to be honest anything that helps to show they are genuine , and yes i agree totally with what is being said about giving them a chance and also not running away , i admit i have been very very lucky , thats why im thinking im maybe a wee touch out of order afterall i was given a chance .

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

I would be suspicious of any profile that has been on the site a long time with a really long friends list and no verifications

How can someone have hundreds of friends on here and yet not one of them has thought to verify them be it phone,cam or meet

I don't think you're being cynical just using your intuition thats all..and thats a good thing to do...if we feel uncomfortable about anything regardless of how verified they are we don't go there

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By *teve_SoleilCouple
over a year ago

Malaysia

Yup...that is a valid argument....but some people here are just adding other people without chatting with them first...or verifying them....we have had many couples/singles who add us without any prior contact...and they are verified usually...though I'll have to say that there's a possibility that the profile is not genuine...but if you have the time...why not...:D...if you don't...then might as well stay away...:D...

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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Verifications are a great starting point, be it PV or verified by other users, especially if you are looking for females and couples.

But mostly it is your gut instinct you should be going for.

Will they chat on the phone? cam to show they are actually who they say they are? If we were looking for fems and couples, and they wouldn't do that to verify themselves, we wouldnt take it any further.

There is nothing wrong with being wary, there are timewasters about who pretend to be women or couples, so I woul say it is wise to be wary.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmm No verifications on a single fem has usually went like this for us lol:

Initial contact(with face pic)=no reply or straight deletion without being read.

Tells a story all of it's own & it ain't the ugly one lol;)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a single,unvarified woman was on here for quite a while with a long friends list,we'd always wonder if it was a guy.

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

Well, it can be difficult meeting someone verified - I haven't even "sourced" a meet yet (ie, contacted someone on Fabs and eventually met) but the people I know have been from other sites or chance meeting, and I've been on here well over 18 months. Does that count?

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By *im53Man
over a year ago

Boldon

on the other side

i have seen females that have been on the site one day with loads of verifications most by meeting and long list of friends wtf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"on the other side

i have seen females that have been on the site one day with loads of verifications most by meeting and long list of friends wtf"

well that happened to me as i took a break and obviously lost all the verifications so ppl sed hi n verified me as they knew i was genuine xxxx

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By *1dKingColeMan
over a year ago

east london

"on the other side

i have seen females that have been on the site one day with loads of verifications most by meeting and long list of friends wtf

well that happened to me as i took a break and obviously lost all the verifications so ppl sed hi n verified me as they knew i was genuine xxxx"

Easily done, and there’s the people moving from other sites as well (the word is getting out! LOL)

I verified a couple the other day when they had only been here a few hours as I knew them from elsewhere.

It’s easy to get cynical here but you have to accept the ‘free’ aspect of this site does in courage those whan-a-bes that would not pay out else where. Although as Ahabs has said, you can be on a number of sites just and may just not have any rec’s on this site.

I was here for a while without as well, but I like Ahabs, have rec’s on other sites.

It can cut both ways.

I in the end we all know the score – buyer beware etc, it’s an unregulated environment and none of you would want it to be!

Live with it or quit, they won’t change.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"snip....that goes for single guys to, ....snip"

Does it matter if single guys are not verified?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

everyone has to get there 1st verif from somewere, ive met a few single guys without them being verified, now they are, and can say , none of them were bad meets x

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By *DSRMan
over a year ago

leicester

"hi im not sure wether i am being a cynical old man here , but personallly when i see a single girls profile and its not been verified it puts me off , purely because im suspicious and really dont want to be messed about . i was thinking if im out of order thinking like that and also what experiences you have had with girls or profiles who have not been verified ?"

Hello again everyone...

I am just curious to know this since we are on the topic of genuine/fair use, does this site have many problems regarding scams? My previous (Un-named) site had a huge amount of cam girls on it... However mostly they were just site models looking for site id's (Long story but I think most people will have encountered this phenomenon before)

So far I have to admit, in my short time on here That I have not found anything to look remotely out of place in terms of geniusity.

But i guess people are allowed their freedom of choice on how they chose to us a site (regardless of having a little fun at their expence on occassions lol) since after all... They are real people to and therefore they are only doing what is right for themselves.. Even if it does make people who are looking for real situations lives more difficult.

But the question still remains... Does this site suffer from a seriously high ratio of fake cam models? (Remember the fake part in that sentence lol)

Thank you to anyone that replies... I will try to write some more interesting things in days to come (But I think a log of and out is in order before I sit here all day and go a little crazy lol)

Peace everyone... Thank you for reading.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive not heard of many cam girls on here, think they know they will be reported pretty sharply and booted.

Admin are great when it comes to getting shot of profiles that are fake or abusive...so big gold star to admin for keping the site jolly good fun

god Im in a good mood today....dont worry normal bolshy service will resume shortly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to agree with another IRS not mearly woman that should be verify the boys should too yes having large friends list means nothing x not having pix upon pro is annoying mind u I don't I'd rather send as getting numptys willy milky hitting my inbox grrr x tgc you all play safe Namaste x mwah

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