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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Has booked a hotel for us this weekend. Now, I haven't been a virgin for 30 odd years but I know he is nervous. I'm hoping he doesn't back out. I would male views on how I should approach this as I don't want to put him off sex for life. He's shy, not kissed a woman ever or seen one naked in the flesh. I'm worried I will be too much for him. Should I take control or leave everything up to him ?

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Ooh crikey you're a better person than me! I wouldn't want to be responsible to that!!

Hope it all goes well tho. Not sure best tactic to adopt to be honest. Just go with it and lead him a bit if he's hesitant I reckon x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ooh crikey you're a better person than me! I wouldn't want to be responsible to that!!

Hope it all goes well tho. Not sure best tactic to adopt to be honest. Just go with it and lead him a bit if he's hesitant I reckon x "

Thank you. I don't know what I was thinking but he's been asking for 4 years and I caved tonight. He isn't confident or worldly wise

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

A friend of my old boss was still a virgin in his late 30's. Till we all pitched in for a lovely lady in Ibiza to pop his cherry!! Haha!! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take control in a slow, gentle way. Ease him into it.

Don't be nervous, be confident.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

did not lose my until i was 22, and then it was a disastrous d*unken mess. We never talked again but she was a virgin too, so we knew nothing, lol.

take it slow, make him feel good about himself, and hope it all goes well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ooh crikey you're a better person than me! I wouldn't want to be responsible to that!!

Hope it all goes well tho. Not sure best tactic to adopt to be honest. Just go with it and lead him a bit if he's hesitant I reckon x

Thank you. I don't know what I was thinking but he's been asking for 4 years and I caved tonight. He isn't confident or worldly wise "

Actually, are you sure you want to? Caved in doesn't sound like your thrilled by the idea

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By *orny69pussyCouple
over a year ago

Tonbridge

I'd say give him a bj and let him shoot his load coz that won't take long.

Then do the gentle stroking etc all over, let him play with you and he'll get back up again and totally able to last longer Have fun and make sure he does too

xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ooh crikey you're a better person than me! I wouldn't want to be responsible to that!!

Hope it all goes well tho. Not sure best tactic to adopt to be honest. Just go with it and lead him a bit if he's hesitant I reckon x

Thank you. I don't know what I was thinking but he's been asking for 4 years and I caved tonight. He isn't confident or worldly wise

Actually, are you sure you want to? Caved in doesn't sound like your thrilled by the idea"

oh I like him, he's a lovely man but at first he lied a lot. I understand why but I felt he only wanted me through lack of options. Then I found out who he really was and why he lied. I just don't want his first experience to be nothing like he expects

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Take control in a slow, gentle way. Ease him into it.

Don't be nervous, be confident. "

I'm usually very confident but because I know he's badly nervous I feel sick. I want him to gain confidence and be more sure of himself

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A friend of my old boss was still a virgin in his late 30's. Till we all pitched in for a lovely lady in Ibiza to pop his cherry!! Haha!! X"

lol he said he doesn't want to be a 30 yr old virgin. I would hate for him to go to a prostitute

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

tell him how much you like him, have the lights off or dimmed or light a candle, ask him just to stroke your body, when he does stroke you say something positive, then you stroke his body and i think things will just naturally progress.

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

wouldnt be something i would get involved with as i would fear this could break a friendship if it goes wrong

but best of luck to you both

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"tell him how much you like him, have the lights off or dimmed or light a candle, ask him just to stroke your body, when he does stroke you say something positive, then you stroke his body and i think things will just naturally progress. "

Yes but make sure his pants are off first, else they will be ruined

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"tell him how much you like him, have the lights off or dimmed or light a candle, ask him just to stroke your body, when he does stroke you say something positive, then you stroke his body and i think things will just naturally progress. "

We kind of agreed on that same thing. I just hope he doesn't get the shakes or hyperventilate

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"tell him how much you like him, have the lights off or dimmed or light a candle, ask him just to stroke your body, when he does stroke you say something positive, then you stroke his body and i think things will just naturally progress.

Yes but make sure his pants are off first, else they will be ruined "

want a pool on how long he lasts?? Ohh that was so wrong of me!!!

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Merton

my first time was an odd experience i literally try to eat the pussy, poor girl she hates me now.

blunt honest answer just let him or guide him to stick his cock in your warm pussy and he will be speechless

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"my first time was an odd experience i literally try to eat the pussy, poor girl she hates me now.

blunt honest answer just let him or guide him to stick his cock in your warm pussy and he will be speechless "

I already told him he doesn't have to give me oral or anything he doesn't want to do. He isn't too well endowed and he's stressing about it. I told him its ok, which it is. He might turn out to be a natural. He doesn't watch lots of porn, thankfully

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"tell him how much you like him, have the lights off or dimmed or light a candle, ask him just to stroke your body, when he does stroke you say something positive, then you stroke his body and i think things will just naturally progress.

Yes but make sure his pants are off first, else they will be ruined

want a pool on how long he lasts?? Ohh that was so wrong of me!!! "

Silly me assumed he'd have his kit off! Don't worry if he comes too quick just say 'BOOM'!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

give him my profile details if you turn him gay

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"my first time was an odd experience i literally try to eat the pussy, poor girl she hates me now.

blunt honest answer just let him or guide him to stick his cock in your warm pussy and he will be speechless

I already told him he doesn't have to give me oral or anything he doesn't want to do. He isn't too well endowed and he's stressing about it. I told him its ok, which it is. He might turn out to be a natural. He doesn't watch lots of porn, thankfully "

You're doing the right thing - reassure and praise, confidence building etc.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"tell him how much you like him, have the lights off or dimmed or light a candle, ask him just to stroke your body, when he does stroke you say something positive, then you stroke his body and i think things will just naturally progress.

Yes but make sure his pants are off first, else they will be ruined

want a pool on how long he lasts?? Ohh that was so wrong of me!!! "

Why don't we line up and have a race

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"tell him how much you like him, have the lights off or dimmed or light a candle, ask him just to stroke your body, when he does stroke you say something positive, then you stroke his body and i think things will just naturally progress.

Yes but make sure his pants are off first, else they will be ruined

want a pool on how long he lasts?? Ohh that was so wrong of me!!!

Why don't we line up and have a race "

lol winner gets what??

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"tell him how much you like him, have the lights off or dimmed or light a candle, ask him just to stroke your body, when he does stroke you say something positive, then you stroke his body and i think things will just naturally progress.

Yes but make sure his pants are off first, else they will be ruined

want a pool on how long he lasts?? Ohh that was so wrong of me!!!

Why don't we line up and have a race

lol winner gets what??"

Messy pretty quick lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just bend over and count to ten

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"tell him how much you like him, have the lights off or dimmed or light a candle, ask him just to stroke your body, when he does stroke you say something positive, then you stroke his body and i think things will just naturally progress.

Yes but make sure his pants are off first, else they will be ruined

want a pool on how long he lasts?? Ohh that was so wrong of me!!!

Why don't we line up and have a race

lol winner gets what??

Messy pretty quick lol"

ohhh that kind of race

That could be fun. Who should we ask??

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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know

What day you meeting him OP?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What day you meeting him OP?"

Sunday afternoon

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London

In all seriousness this may not be a good idea. There is a massive chance that he doesn't quite understand the difference between love/sex and NSA sex. Being a virgin to be quite honest massive might be an understatement.

Most of us get this problem in our teens and get over it,but at his age,it may seriously mess him up.

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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know


"What day you meeting him OP?

Sunday afternoon "

Are you sure he's shy? I mean you were both able to discuss what was going to take place without no embarrassment.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In all seriousness this may not be a good idea. There is a massive chance that he doesn't quite understand the difference between love/sex and NSA sex. Being a virgin to be quite honest massive might be an understatement.

Most of us get this problem in our teens and get over it,but at his age,it may seriously mess him up.

"

I've known him 4 years. He knows I'm not available for anything other than this. His culture means his parents have a big influence in his life. In a few years when he has finished his exams they will expect him to get married and settle down which he will do. It's just sex, he's never shown any signs of anything other than that. He just wants to have sex with me

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London

What men say and what men think are two different things,

However, trust your judgement and hope he enjoys it,

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What men say and what men think are two different things,

However, trust your judgement and hope he enjoys it, "

thank you . I hope he does too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell him to knock one out before he arrives . My dad always told me never to go on a date with a loaded gun .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A friend of my old boss was still a virgin in his late 30's. Till we all pitched in for a lovely lady in Ibiza to pop his cherry!! Haha!! X

lol he said he doesn't want to be a 30 yr old virgin. I would hate for him to go to a prostitute "

Everything in that paragraph is so wrong.

Hope you enjoy. Let us know how it went. I wouldn't back you. You're stunning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has booked a hotel for us this weekend. Now, I haven't been a virgin for 30 odd years but I know he is nervous. I'm hoping he doesn't back out. I would male views on how I should approach this as I don't want to put him off sex for life. He's shy, not kissed a woman ever or seen one naked in the flesh. I'm worried I will be too much for him. Should I take control or leave everything up to him ?"

If he's nervous you'll probably need to lead him slowly

I'd suggest let him undress you and touch you whilst you slowly do the same to him

Respond to his touches and give him the confidence that what he's doing is right - if he's not quite touching the right place gently move him

It feels like you need to make the evening sensous - low lights, a glass of chilled wine - seduce him & make him feel special

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take control but be gentle and ease him into it. Slow and steady would be best. He is going to be nervous so be patient.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

He wants to be seduced. I'm just thinking the reality of it will be too much for him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As others have said dont be nervy, take control and be gentle haha. I took my sons dads v and he was 21, think 2nd or third time was better as we got a rhythm on the go but first time just go slowly haha xx goodluck!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It may be emotional for him ! But as long as you are ready for that you will be fine x good luck and please come back and tell us how it went xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I lost mine I took 90minutes to climax, managed to shave 30 minutes off since.

BJ, now that takes even longer.

My advice, take it very slow, let him explore while you explore him. Hands, tongue, mouth, ... No rushing, expect to take time.

If he does cum quickly allow recovery time and start again.

Do not wank him hard thinking its going to get him cumming quickly, its likely to do nothing.

For me its always been the more turned on the woman is, the more turned on am I. I should think that is likely the case, the more you want him the more he will give.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It may be emotional for him ! But as long as you are ready for that you will be fine x good luck and please come back and tell us how it went xx "

thank you. If he doesn't back out I will let you know how it went x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It may be emotional for him ! But as long as you are ready for that you will be fine x good luck and please come back and tell us how it went xx

thank you. If he doesn't back out I will let you know how it went x"

He's lucky too as you have lowered your age limit a "lot" for a him. Good luck though. I know another victim you can have. That's if you enjoy it the first time around, lol

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By *entfootloverMan
over a year ago

Sevenoaks

Be prepared for the likely eventuality that he won't be able to get an erection out of the excitement. Sometimes it happens.

Let him play with your breasts (if you're OK with that) if he still can't get an erection this time and then perhaps agree to meet another time to attempt again.

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

just take control he will love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just take control he will love it"

Speaks from experience

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire


"just take control he will love it

Speaks from experience "

you know me so well!!! lol or were you the virgin who loved it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just take control he will love it

Speaks from experience

you know me so well!!! lol or were you the virgin who loved it?"

Sadly I wasn't. Think I would have remembered a lady with a great figure taking control of me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Be prepared for the likely eventuality that he won't be able to get an erection out of the excitement. Sometimes it happens.

Let him play with your breasts (if you're OK with that) if he still can't get an erection this time and then perhaps agree to meet another time to attempt again."

I didn't think of that. He has full use of my whole body if he wants it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didnt lose mine until I was 24. If there's anything I remember about that, it was that I was allowed to take control from the get go, but that was because I was always a gentleman until that little devil got out.

Gauge whether he's the type to respond well if you were to tell him to help himself, or if he'd like you to lead. After all, some late bloomers are late because they're nervous, and some arrive literally sex-starved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It may be emotional for him ! But as long as you are ready for that you will be fine x good luck and please come back and tell us how it went xx

thank you. If he doesn't back out I will let you know how it went x"

I'd email you but I'm blocked. I've been there twice now...you have to consider why he's a virgin at 28?

Don't expect much and give him time to relax. It's about him, not you as a person or you as a pair, just about him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It may be emotional for him ! But as long as you are ready for that you will be fine x good luck and please come back and tell us how it went xx

thank you. If he doesn't back out I will let you know how it went x

I'd email you but I'm blocked. I've been there twice now...you have to consider why he's a virgin at 28?

Don't expect much and give him time to relax. It's about him, not you as a person or you as a pair, just about him."

One of my friends' brothers is in exactly the same situation, but he's such a nice guy. I keep pointing out that this will change to a degree once he's got his nuts.

I wonder if he's thought about that before, since older virgins have the liberty of observing the sexual attitudes of others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd say give him a bj and let him shoot his load coz that won't take long.

Then do the gentle stroking etc all over, let him play with you and he'll get back up again and totally able to last longer Have fun and make sure he does too

xxx"

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By *oo hot to handle 75Woman
over a year ago

SALISBURY

hi id say just go slow be pationt i had the same with my partner and now hes well away just keep asking and reasureing him with whatever you do good luck to the both of you

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By *aughtySexualArousalMan
over a year ago

SPALDING


"Has booked a hotel for us this weekend. Now, I haven't been a virgin for 30 odd years but I know he is nervous. I'm hoping he doesn't back out. I would male views on how I should approach this as I don't want to put him off sex for life. He's shy, not kissed a woman ever or seen one naked in the flesh. I'm worried I will be too much for him. Should I take control or leave everything up to him ?"

Im a virgin too.....can I please have some help too lol

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By *ohnjones3210Man
over a year ago

Chester

Hey, naughty in Essex...

I want to message you but can't.. due to age filters.

I may have something valuable to add but need to ask you something.

Message me and ill explain.

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a minefield and has an outcome that will be either a wonderful experience for him or an utter train wreck.

Now, i was in the exact same situation as your friend.

Hes going to be terrified and you said hes stressing about his size too which aint going to help him.

Firstly, talk to him, sit him on the bed and talk to him, find out what his expectations are, he will have some but you may have to work to get them out of him.

Just wear normal clothes for him, he might be intimidated if you come out of the bathroom with the teddie and negligee etc, wear underwear that can be seen through but not blatant.

Let him set the pace, but you will have to initiate because he wont get the signal.

Pull him in close for a hug and let him breathe in your scent, dont grab for him or rub him thru his trousers yet, see if he responds first, soft gentle kisses and stroke him gently, encourage him to do the same.

Smile and unbutton his top and let him do the same to you.

If you can avoid wearing a bra then do so or undo it for him, cos he wont be able to work it. Let him admire your breasts, place his hands on them and let him get used to touching them. That is your crucial point, if he relaxes at that point, your golden, if hes hesitant then more work is required on your part.

Key points that he is going to be at maximum stress.

When you are fully naked infront of him, let him admire your form and dont approach for a few seconds, ask him if he likes what he sees and be playful and twirl, let him see all of you.

When the underpants come off and hes exposed. Hopefully your already naked but be very appreciative of his cock, compliment him on it, ask him if he minds if you touch it.

Hes going to want to experience a blow job, this is the golden shot so to speak and its unlikely he can contain himself for more than a few seconds but if your willing to let him climax in this manner, you've won.

After that, show him how you like to be touched and caressed and licked. Guide him whilst he does it and the rest is up to you.

I hope this helps somewhat, my own experience was vastly diff and was a trainwreck, put me off sex for 12 years

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By *.nottsbloke..Man
over a year ago

the vale

Maybe not let him see a giant strap on and lube in your bag hand cuff blindfolds ball gags and floggers probs also out the 1st time. X

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Sounds a hell of a lot of hard work for a shag to me: fuck that (or not) for a game of soldiers!

Sympathy shags, deflowering virgins, stressed to the point you feel sick and need to ask advice: what's that all about? If his mummy let's him out to play can't see this as a Mills & Boon moment, and op I honestly can't see what's in it for you.

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By *nfieldishCouple
over a year ago

Enfield

My advice.....

Sell tickets....

David

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sounds a hell of a lot of hard work for a shag to me: fuck that (or not) for a game of soldiers!

Sympathy shags, deflowering virgins, stressed to the point you feel sick and need to ask advice: what's that all about? If his mummy let's him out to play can't see this as a Mills & Boon moment, and op I honestly can't see what's in it for you."

his mummy doesn't know. I get to spend a night with a lovely friend,even if nothing happens. I always give everything when I'm with a man, never been afraid of hard work

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By *ohjaneCouple
over a year ago

south staffs


"Sounds a hell of a lot of hard work for a shag to me: fuck that (or not) for a game of soldiers!

Sympathy shags, deflowering virgins, stressed to the point you feel sick and need to ask advice: what's that all about? If his mummy let's him out to play can't see this as a Mills & Boon moment, and op I honestly can't see what's in it for you.

his mummy doesn't know. I get to spend a night with a lovely friend,even if nothing happens. I always give everything when I'm with a man, never been afraid of hard work"

I think I prefer your attitude, Naughty !!

Jane x

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By *aughtyinguMan
over a year ago

swindon

Tell him your there to be with him, to have a nice time, if he has a soft moment just cuddle n kiss etc, maybe bring a toy he can use on you, so he doesn't feel its all on him to pleasure you.

Just try to enjoy it and have him enjoy it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Tell him your there to be with him, to have a nice time, if he has a soft moment just cuddle n kiss etc, maybe bring a toy he can use on you, so he doesn't feel its all on him to pleasure you.

Just try to enjoy it and have him enjoy it"

thank you. Toy is a good idea, will do that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sounds a hell of a lot of hard work for a shag to me: fuck that (or not) for a game of soldiers!

Sympathy shags, deflowering virgins, stressed to the point you feel sick and need to ask advice: what's that all about? If his mummy let's him out to play can't see this as a Mills & Boon moment, and op I honestly can't see what's in it for you.

his mummy doesn't know. I get to spend a night with a lovely friend,even if nothing happens. I always give everything when I'm with a man, never been afraid of hard work

I think I prefer your attitude, Naughty !!

Jane x"

I am naughty, that's why he wants me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

would take it at his pace to start with, otherwise he may well run to the hills.

once the action starts maybe do what takes your fancy, by all means, cuz obviously he knows what you are about and wants the experience, but try not to overload his senses with too much too soon.

jesus, if i had tried everything i had done over the years the first time i did anything i would have spent the next few months trying to figure shit out lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"would take it at his pace to start with, otherwise he may well run to the hills.

once the action starts maybe do what takes your fancy, by all means, cuz obviously he knows what you are about and wants the experience, but try not to overload his senses with too much too soon.

jesus, if i had tried everything i had done over the years the first time i did anything i would have spent the next few months trying to figure shit out lol"

I think I'm just going to lay flat on the bed and not move for a while lol fully dressed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"would take it at his pace to start with, otherwise he may well run to the hills.

once the action starts maybe do what takes your fancy, by all means, cuz obviously he knows what you are about and wants the experience, but try not to overload his senses with too much too soon.

jesus, if i had tried everything i had done over the years the first time i did anything i would have spent the next few months trying to figure shit out lol

I think I'm just going to lay flat on the bed and not move for a while lol fully dressed "

sounds a bit like me wife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has booked a hotel for us this weekend. Now, I haven't been a virgin for 30 odd years but I know he is nervous. I'm hoping he doesn't back out. I would male views on how I should approach this as I don't want to put him off sex for life. He's shy, not kissed a woman ever or seen one naked in the flesh. I'm worried I will be too much for him. Should I take control or leave everything up to him ?"

You can always take control but at a relaxed pace with him to be fair he not seen naked woman before so maybe something negligee type attire before full on nude lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"would take it at his pace to start with, otherwise he may well run to the hills.

once the action starts maybe do what takes your fancy, by all means, cuz obviously he knows what you are about and wants the experience, but try not to overload his senses with too much too soon.

jesus, if i had tried everything i had done over the years the first time i did anything i would have spent the next few months trying to figure shit out lol

I think I'm just going to lay flat on the bed and not move for a while lol fully dressed "

lol, i think maybe somewhere in between that, and ripping his clothes off, would be good lol

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By *uckyinlustMan
over a year ago

manchester

You MUST take complete control from start to finish.......................

This guy hasn't got a clue and needs a masterful teacher whether he likes it or not ......................

Right from the start you must tell him this , tell him you are taking complete control for the night ..........and that he has to do whatever you tell him ..............and tell him he is gonna have the best night of his life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a bit of dessert or something first...engage in light unrelated conversation...gently and ever so subtly get closer, brush a hand against his thigh or something..tease...seduce

Of course he'll be nervous, that's what makes it exciting... I suggest lots of kisses, a light shoulder and back massage to relax both of you...maybe he can reciprocate...tell him you like kisses on your neck and shoulders.. Your gentle moaning and heavy breathing will enhance his confidence particularly if theyre natural and genuine.. Gently rein him in if rushes anything... Play with yourself for him, he'll probably do the same.. Take his hand and show him how you like to be touched... Most importantly try to enjoy yourself too... Good luck!! X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"would take it at his pace to start with, otherwise he may well run to the hills.

once the action starts maybe do what takes your fancy, by all means, cuz obviously he knows what you are about and wants the experience, but try not to overload his senses with too much too soon.

jesus, if i had tried everything i had done over the years the first time i did anything i would have spent the next few months trying to figure shit out lol

I think I'm just going to lay flat on the bed and not move for a while lol fully dressed

lol, i think maybe somewhere in between that, and ripping his clothes off, would be good lol"

he might surprise me and greet me naked, rip my clothes off and throw me on the bed!! Oh I hope he does

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"would take it at his pace to start with, otherwise he may well run to the hills.

once the action starts maybe do what takes your fancy, by all means, cuz obviously he knows what you are about and wants the experience, but try not to overload his senses with too much too soon.

jesus, if i had tried everything i had done over the years the first time i did anything i would have spent the next few months trying to figure shit out lol

I think I'm just going to lay flat on the bed and not move for a while lol fully dressed

lol, i think maybe somewhere in between that, and ripping his clothes off, would be good lol

he might surprise me and greet me naked, rip my clothes off and throw me on the bed!! Oh I hope he does "

Haha well you never know !!!! But its very unlikely !! Have you talked to him since you arranged it? Have you talked about what he is expecting? Or how he feels?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"would take it at his pace to start with, otherwise he may well run to the hills.

once the action starts maybe do what takes your fancy, by all means, cuz obviously he knows what you are about and wants the experience, but try not to overload his senses with too much too soon.

jesus, if i had tried everything i had done over the years the first time i did anything i would have spent the next few months trying to figure shit out lol

I think I'm just going to lay flat on the bed and not move for a while lol fully dressed

lol, i think maybe somewhere in between that, and ripping his clothes off, would be good lol

he might surprise me and greet me naked, rip my clothes off and throw me on the bed!! Oh I hope he does

Haha well you never know !!!! But its very unlikely !! Have you talked to him since you arranged it? Have you talked about what he is expecting? Or how he feels? "

he's working today, I will chat to him later. He changed the subject last night to bread baking lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"would take it at his pace to start with, otherwise he may well run to the hills.

once the action starts maybe do what takes your fancy, by all means, cuz obviously he knows what you are about and wants the experience, but try not to overload his senses with too much too soon.

jesus, if i had tried everything i had done over the years the first time i did anything i would have spent the next few months trying to figure shit out lol

I think I'm just going to lay flat on the bed and not move for a while lol fully dressed

lol, i think maybe somewhere in between that, and ripping his clothes off, would be good lol

he might surprise me and greet me naked, rip my clothes off and throw me on the bed!! Oh I hope he does "

oh yes.

i can see it now..

walk in, he grabs you in his arms.

unfastens your dress and lets it drop to the floor

removes your bra and panties, stands back with a look of lust in his eyes.

throws you back on the bed

you look at him, and say provocativley 'now what are you going to do, big boy?'

and he replies 'dunno, thought you would suggest summat now'

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"would take it at his pace to start with, otherwise he may well run to the hills.

once the action starts maybe do what takes your fancy, by all means, cuz obviously he knows what you are about and wants the experience, but try not to overload his senses with too much too soon.

jesus, if i had tried everything i had done over the years the first time i did anything i would have spent the next few months trying to figure shit out lol

I think I'm just going to lay flat on the bed and not move for a while lol fully dressed

lol, i think maybe somewhere in between that, and ripping his clothes off, would be good lol

he might surprise me and greet me naked, rip my clothes off and throw me on the bed!! Oh I hope he does

Haha well you never know !!!! But its very unlikely !! Have you talked to him since you arranged it? Have you talked about what he is expecting? Or how he feels?

he's working today, I will chat to him later. He changed the subject last night to bread baking lol "

he is on the right tracks.

still all about getting summat to rise lol

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By *uckyinlustMan
over a year ago

manchester

Must admit he sounds like a bullshitter to me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Must admit he sounds like a bullshitter to me. "

He very well could be. So could I or you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"would take it at his pace to start with, otherwise he may well run to the hills.

once the action starts maybe do what takes your fancy, by all means, cuz obviously he knows what you are about and wants the experience, but try not to overload his senses with too much too soon.

jesus, if i had tried everything i had done over the years the first time i did anything i would have spent the next few months trying to figure shit out lol

I think I'm just going to lay flat on the bed and not move for a while lol fully dressed

lol, i think maybe somewhere in between that, and ripping his clothes off, would be good lol

he might surprise me and greet me naked, rip my clothes off and throw me on the bed!! Oh I hope he does

oh yes.

i can see it now..

walk in, he grabs you in his arms.

unfastens your dress and lets it drop to the floor

removes your bra and panties, stands back with a look of lust in his eyes.

throws you back on the bed

you look at him, and say provocativley 'now what are you going to do, big boy?'

and he replies 'dunno, thought you would suggest summat now'

lol"

I'll be impressed if he can throw me on the bed, he's shorter than me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"would take it at his pace to start with, otherwise he may well run to the hills.

once the action starts maybe do what takes your fancy, by all means, cuz obviously he knows what you are about and wants the experience, but try not to overload his senses with too much too soon.

jesus, if i had tried everything i had done over the years the first time i did anything i would have spent the next few months trying to figure shit out lol

I think I'm just going to lay flat on the bed and not move for a while lol fully dressed

lol, i think maybe somewhere in between that, and ripping his clothes off, would be good lol

he might surprise me and greet me naked, rip my clothes off and throw me on the bed!! Oh I hope he does

oh yes.

i can see it now..

walk in, he grabs you in his arms.

unfastens your dress and lets it drop to the floor

removes your bra and panties, stands back with a look of lust in his eyes.

throws you back on the bed

you look at him, and say provocativley 'now what are you going to do, big boy?'

and he replies 'dunno, thought you would suggest summat now'

lol

I'll be impressed if he can throw me on the bed, he's shorter than me lol "

never watched karate kid?

dont have to be big, you just have to be off guard and off balance lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"would take it at his pace to start with, otherwise he may well run to the hills.

once the action starts maybe do what takes your fancy, by all means, cuz obviously he knows what you are about and wants the experience, but try not to overload his senses with too much too soon.

jesus, if i had tried everything i had done over the years the first time i did anything i would have spent the next few months trying to figure shit out lol

I think I'm just going to lay flat on the bed and not move for a while lol fully dressed

lol, i think maybe somewhere in between that, and ripping his clothes off, would be good lol

he might surprise me and greet me naked, rip my clothes off and throw me on the bed!! Oh I hope he does

oh yes.

i can see it now..

walk in, he grabs you in his arms.

unfastens your dress and lets it drop to the floor

removes your bra and panties, stands back with a look of lust in his eyes.

throws you back on the bed

you look at him, and say provocativley 'now what are you going to do, big boy?'

and he replies 'dunno, thought you would suggest summat now'

lol

I'll be impressed if he can throw me on the bed, he's shorter than me lol

never watched karate kid?

dont have to be big, you just have to be off guard and off balance lol"

lol he's Chinese,probably a master in Origami

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

What time are you pinching his cherry?

We are all waiting in anticipation.

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By *uckyinlustMan
over a year ago

manchester


"What time are you pinching his cherry?

We are all waiting in anticipation. "

Yeah ........we can't wait for the details

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What time are you pinching his cherry?

We are all waiting in anticipation. "

3pm. I've decide, after 4+ years of him trying to seduce me I'm going to give him everything he has asked for. If he can't handle me then tough shit. He shouldn't have called it on. I take my sexual encounters very serious, I don't have time to piss about. If he wants an older sexy woman, he's getting one!!!

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Ah ffs I thought it was tonight ! Back to the colouring in then

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ah ffs I thought it was tonight ! Back to the colouring in then "

tomorrow. If he chickens out do you fancy a roasting??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ah ffs I thought it was tonight ! Back to the colouring in then

tomorrow. If he chickens out do you fancy a roasting?? "

2 lucky guys here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ah ffs I thought it was tonight ! Back to the colouring in then

tomorrow. If he chickens out do you fancy a roasting??

2 lucky guys here "

you're welcome to join in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ah ffs I thought it was tonight ! Back to the colouring in then

tomorrow. If he chickens out do you fancy a roasting??

2 lucky guys here

you're welcome to join in "

If he backs out. Come to me instead or hopefully you will enjoy it a bit. So you can have the "sameish" experience again. Only better I hope

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ah ffs I thought it was tonight ! Back to the colouring in then

tomorrow. If he chickens out do you fancy a roasting??

2 lucky guys here

you're welcome to join in

If he backs out. Come to me instead or hopefully you will enjoy it a bit. So you can have the "sameish" experience again. Only better I hope "

I don't even know where Carmarthenshire is lol he's really nervous. I think he's going to back out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ah ffs I thought it was tonight ! Back to the colouring in then

tomorrow. If he chickens out do you fancy a roasting??

2 lucky guys here

you're welcome to join in

If he backs out. Come to me instead or hopefully you will enjoy it a bit. So you can have the "sameish" experience again. Only better I hope

I don't even know where Carmarthenshire is lol he's really nervous. I think he's going to back out "

Dead on 200 miles . But as i said if he backs out you can come to me. I am the sort that no matter how bad I get. I always stand my ground and turn up, etc.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"Ah ffs I thought it was tonight ! Back to the colouring in then

tomorrow. If he chickens out do you fancy a roasting?? "

As long as I'm not the spit

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By *istress v in yorksCouple
over a year ago

south Yorkshire

I had a gay friend decide he wanted to try ladies, he was sooo sweet, very cute But he was scared to death. The one thing I said made it a better experience for him, I said 'whatever hapens in here is between me and you'. So apart from saying what I did just now, no one knows any more about itExcept he's now ummm...straight curious?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a gay friend decide he wanted to try ladies, he was sooo sweet, very cute But he was scared to death. The one thing I said made it a better experience for him, I said 'whatever hapens in here is between me and you'. So apart from saying what I did just now, no one knows any more about itExcept he's now ummm...straight curious?"

Sound like my kind of woman

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ah ffs I thought it was tonight ! Back to the colouring in then

tomorrow. If he chickens out do you fancy a roasting??

As long as I'm not the spit "

just me and you baby What lube do you prefer??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I had a gay friend decide he wanted to try ladies, he was sooo sweet, very cute But he was scared to death. The one thing I said made it a better experience for him, I said 'whatever hapens in here is between me and you'. So apart from saying what I did just now, no one knows any more about itExcept he's now ummm...straight curious?"

one of my gay male friends used to say, in his Floridian drawl, If I were to do a woman I'd definitely do you. But he moved back to America so he never did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a gay friend decide he wanted to try ladies, he was sooo sweet, very cute But he was scared to death. The one thing I said made it a better experience for him, I said 'whatever hapens in here is between me and you'. So apart from saying what I did just now, no one knows any more about itExcept he's now ummm...straight curious?

one of my gay male friends used to say, in his Floridian drawl, If I were to do a woman I'd definitely do you. But he moved back to America so he never did "

That's one of the saddest, regretful stories I have ever heard.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I had a gay friend decide he wanted to try ladies, he was sooo sweet, very cute But he was scared to death. The one thing I said made it a better experience for him, I said 'whatever hapens in here is between me and you'. So apart from saying what I did just now, no one knows any more about itExcept he's now ummm...straight curious?

one of my gay male friends used to say, in his Floridian drawl, If I were to do a woman I'd definitely do you. But he moved back to America so he never did

That's one of the saddest, regretful stories I have ever heard. "

he would lean his head on my boobs while his partner was looking, had a fixation for my boobs. Then he went home

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By *az1312Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere near Coventry


"Has booked a hotel for us this weekend. Now, I haven't been a virgin for 30 odd years but I know he is nervous. I'm hoping he doesn't back out. I would male views on how I should approach this as I don't want to put him off sex for life. He's shy, not kissed a woman ever or seen one naked in the flesh. I'm worried I will be too much for him. Should I take control or leave everything up to him ?"

Just caught up with this thread. Can't wait to see if your friend keeps his nerve and loses his cherry.

Have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a gay friend decide he wanted to try ladies, he was sooo sweet, very cute But he was scared to death. The one thing I said made it a better experience for him, I said 'whatever hapens in here is between me and you'. So apart from saying what I did just now, no one knows any more about itExcept he's now ummm...straight curious?

one of my gay male friends used to say, in his Floridian drawl, If I were to do a woman I'd definitely do you. But he moved back to America so he never did

That's one of the saddest, regretful stories I have ever heard.

he would lean his head on my boobs while his partner was looking, had a fixation for my boobs. Then he went home "

Why your boobs though? Your figure is amazing all over. Also take your age filters off, lol x

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"Ah ffs I thought it was tonight ! Back to the colouring in then

tomorrow. If he chickens out do you fancy a roasting??

As long as I'm not the spit

just me and you baby What lube do you prefer?? "

Hmmm there's a new burger sauce variety on the market. It's multi purpose.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ah ffs I thought it was tonight ! Back to the colouring in then

tomorrow. If he chickens out do you fancy a roasting??

As long as I'm not the spit

just me and you baby What lube do you prefer??

Hmmm there's a new burger sauce variety on the market. It's multi purpose. "

does it have chopped gherkin in it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"give him my profile details if you turn him gay "

lol just noticed this post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"give him my profile details if you turn him gay

lol just noticed this post"

Alcohol does have that affect on people

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"give him my profile details if you turn him gay

lol just noticed this post

Alcohol does have that affect on people "

I am a bit pissed. Alcohol makes me horny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"give him my profile details if you turn him gay

lol just noticed this post

Alcohol does have that affect on people

I am a bit pissed. Alcohol makes me horny "

Again turn off your filters and see of we can do something about that

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"Ah ffs I thought it was tonight ! Back to the colouring in then

tomorrow. If he chickens out do you fancy a roasting??

As long as I'm not the spit

just me and you baby What lube do you prefer??

Hmmm there's a new burger sauce variety on the market. It's multi purpose.

does it have chopped gherkin in it? "

Bloody hope so lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"give him my profile details if you turn him gay

lol just noticed this post

Alcohol does have that affect on people

I am a bit pissed. Alcohol makes me horny

Again turn off your filters and see of we can do something about that "

ok but my fuck bud coming over at 10.30 to get a good cock sucking

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ah ffs I thought it was tonight ! Back to the colouring in then

tomorrow. If he chickens out do you fancy a roasting??

As long as I'm not the spit

just me and you baby What lube do you prefer??

Hmmm there's a new burger sauce variety on the market. It's multi purpose.

does it have chopped gherkin in it?

Bloody hope so lol"

ah fuck the lube, what's wrong with good old spit???

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Filters off, now what??

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"Filters off, now what?? "

You now get the chance to officially change your name to Cherry Popper

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Filters off, now what??

You now get the chance to officially change your name to Cherry Popper "

funny you should say that, I love cherry lube not popped it yet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Filters off, now what??

You now get the chance to officially change your name to Cherry Popper "

what was your first time like? Mine wasn't great but I was young

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has booked a hotel for us this weekend. Now, I haven't been a virgin for 30 odd years but I know he is nervous. I'm hoping he doesn't back out. I would male views on how I should approach this as I don't want to put him off sex for life. He's shy, not kissed a woman ever or seen one naked in the flesh. I'm worried I will be too much for him. Should I take control or leave everything up to him ?"

Assuming he's telling truth about being virgin lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Has booked a hotel for us this weekend. Now, I haven't been a virgin for 30 odd years but I know he is nervous. I'm hoping he doesn't back out. I would male views on how I should approach this as I don't want to put him off sex for life. He's shy, not kissed a woman ever or seen one naked in the flesh. I'm worried I will be too much for him. Should I take control or leave everything up to him ?

Assuming he's telling truth about being virgin lol"

sadly, he is lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

But not after tomorrow!!

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"Filters off, now what??

You now get the chance to officially change your name to Cherry Popper

what was your first time like? Mine wasn't great but I was young "

Pretty shit to be honest, but same as you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Filters off, now what??

You now get the chance to officially change your name to Cherry Popper

what was your first time like? Mine wasn't great but I was young

Pretty shit to be honest, but same as you. "

I married my first fuck, didn't get any better. You??

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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know

I don't mean to be a perv OP but will you be filming it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

FFS I looked at your 3 public images and he's going to have the time of his life. It not all about sex for some people, he might of just been busy with other things, don't underestimate him

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"Filters off, now what??

You now get the chance to officially change your name to Cherry Popper

what was your first time like? Mine wasn't great but I was young

Pretty shit to be honest, but same as you.

I married my first fuck, didn't get any better. You??"

I've never had him.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Filters off, now what??

You now get the chance to officially change your name to Cherry Popper

what was your first time like? Mine wasn't great but I was young

Pretty shit to be honest, but same as you.

I married my first fuck, didn't get any better. You??

I've never had him. "

he's not very good. You had a lucky escape

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By *az1312Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere near Coventry


"Filters off, now what??

You now get the chance to officially change your name to Cherry Popper

what was your first time like? Mine wasn't great but I was young

Pretty shit to be honest, but same as you.

I married my first fuck, didn't get any better. You??"

I married my first fuck too. Loved him for years until he fucked up big style elsewhere

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By *aughtyinguMan
over a year ago

swindon

He will be very nervous, because its important to him and your important to him too, send him txt, saying you looking forward to seeing him and he just needs to turn up, and be himself.

And that he just needs to be strong for a short time and it'll be fine.

Hug him right away too, that takes away nerves

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Spoke to him this morning, he seems quite chipper

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is he on here ? Has he read this thread ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is he on here ? Has he read this thread ? "

No he isn't. If he was I wouldn't have posted on here. He is anonymous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and still we dont know how it went lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"and still we dont know how it went lol"

it hasn't happened yet lol this afternoon. I will report back, no gory details though

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"and still we dont know how it went lol"

It's not till this afternoon if memory serves x

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By *eryBigGirlWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire


"Filters off, now what??

You now get the chance to officially change your name to Cherry Popper

what was your first time like? Mine wasn't great but I was young

Pretty shit to be honest, but same as you.

I married my first fuck, didn't get any better. You??"

Glad it weren't just me. I only realised how bad it was till I came on here and discovered great sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope all goes as well as it can. Looking to forward to hearing how it goes. Not full details but if it happens or not x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hope all goes as well as it can. Looking to forward to hearing how it goes. Not full details but if it happens or not x"

Thank you, had some good advice. I keep thinking he will lose his nerve and back out x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The things people have said have been interesting to read pick out the bits you think you will need and just tell him to relax as much as he can. At least you know each other xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"and still we dont know how it went lol

it hasn't happened yet lol this afternoon. I will report back, no gory details though "

lol, oops

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tell him your there to be with him, to have a nice time, if he has a soft moment just cuddle n kiss etc, maybe bring a toy he can use on you, so he doesn't feel its all on him to pleasure you.

Just try to enjoy it and have him enjoy it

thank you. Toy is a good idea, will do that "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The things people have said have been interesting to read pick out the bits you think you will need and just tell him to relax as much as he can. At least you know each other xx"

I've known him a long time, he knows we don't have to have full sex if he can't the first time. Whatever happens we will still be friends x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So is there one less virgin the world??

How did it go??

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

I looked up to the stars earlier. I'm sure I saw a shooting cherry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So is there one less virgin the world??

How did it go??"

Yeah how did it go?!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Waiting on news

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

fair play for his first time, if he is still going lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

There is one less virgin in the world and it went very well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Details

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Hurrahhhhh

Next virgin, please step forward

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is one less virgin in the world and it went very well "

I dunno he's been mailing me on gaydar now...saying he's had it with chicks...

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"There is one less virgin in the world and it went very well

I dunno he's been mailing me on gaydar now...saying he's had it with chicks... "

You are so mean!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is one less virgin in the world and it went very well

I dunno he's been mailing me on gaydar now...saying he's had it with chicks...

You are so mean! "

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas


"Details"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There is one less virgin in the world and it went very well

I dunno he's been mailing me on gaydar now...saying he's had it with chicks... "

piss off

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hurrahhhhh

Next virgin, please step forward "

You can have the next one. I've done my bit for mankind. Next man I get I'm ruining

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"Hurrahhhhh

Next virgin, please step forward

You can have the next one. I've done my bit for mankind. Next man I get I'm ruining "

I've never actually come across a female virgin on here lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hurrahhhhh

Next virgin, please step forward

You can have the next one. I've done my bit for mankind. Next man I get I'm ruining

I've never actually come across a female virgin on here lol"

jesus, i nearly posted something then, and before i pressed enter i could feel the cold breath of admin pressing that time out button lol.

step away form the keyboard....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is one less virgin in the world and it went very well

I dunno he's been mailing me on gaydar now...saying he's had it with chicks...

piss off "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hurrahhhhh

Next virgin, please step forward

You can have the next one. I've done my bit for mankind. Next man I get I'm ruining

I've never actually come across a female virgin on here lol"

I meant male and I didn't meet him on here. Lube up,I'm putting a apb for one just for you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hurrahhhhh

Next virgin, please step forward

You can have the next one. I've done my bit for mankind. Next man I get I'm ruining

I've never actually come across a female virgin on here lol

jesus, i nearly posted something then, and before i pressed enter i could feel the cold breath of admin pressing that time out button lol.

step away form the keyboard...."

lol I want to know what was on the tip of your fingertips

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"Hurrahhhhh

Next virgin, please step forward

You can have the next one. I've done my bit for mankind. Next man I get I'm ruining

I've never actually come across a female virgin on here lol

I meant male and I didn't meet him on here. Lube up,I'm putting a apb for one just for you "

Sod that. My arse is sacred

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hurrahhhhh

Next virgin, please step forward

You can have the next one. I've done my bit for mankind. Next man I get I'm ruining

I've never actually come across a female virgin on here lol

I meant male and I didn't meet him on here. Lube up,I'm putting a apb for one just for you

Sod that. My arse is sacred"

don't worry, it will be worshipped

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hurrahhhhh

Next virgin, please step forward

You can have the next one. I've done my bit for mankind. Next man I get I'm ruining

I've never actually come across a female virgin on here lol

jesus, i nearly posted something then, and before i pressed enter i could feel the cold breath of admin pressing that time out button lol.

step away form the keyboard....

lol I want to know what was on the tip of your fingertips"

pampers.... thats all im saying

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Merton


"Hurrahhhhh

Next virgin, please step forward

You can have the next one. I've done my bit for mankind. Next man I get I'm ruining "

next victim, needs ruining & tame lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So how did it all go?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has booked a hotel for us this weekend. Now, I haven't been a virgin for 30 odd years but I know he is nervous. I'm hoping he doesn't back out. I would male views on how I should approach this as I don't want to put him off sex for life. He's shy, not kissed a woman ever or seen one naked in the flesh. I'm worried I will be too much for him. Should I take control or leave everything up to him ?"

We all started somewhere and god bless you for letting his first time be with you.

Id say take things slow, drinks at the bar, laugh and joke bit of touching, hands hugs, giggles and take him upstairs?

Why not shower together with lots of kissing?,

Maybe followed by a massage for one another?,

Im sure you will both have a good night x good luck x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has booked a hotel for us this weekend. Now, I haven't been a virgin for 30 odd years but I know he is nervous. I'm hoping he doesn't back out. I would male views on how I should approach this as I don't want to put him off sex for life. He's shy, not kissed a woman ever or seen one naked in the flesh. I'm worried I will be too much for him. Should I take control or leave everything up to him ?

We all started somewhere and god bless you for letting his first time be with you.

Id say take things slow, drinks at the bar, laugh and joke bit of touching, hands hugs, giggles and take him upstairs?

Why not shower together with lots of kissing?,

Maybe followed by a massage for one another?,

Im sure you will both have a good night x good luck x "

She sounds wise as well as she is sexy.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Either the poster, or his friend, the virgin etc, is either satisfied or lost it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My thoughts exactly!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

they were both very happy with the outcome of the meet, as she told me.

shame she has gone offline, she was a lovely poster.

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