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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If YOU have been to a fetish club.....what did you wear the first time???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me the picture on the profile was taken before a fet club. These days I tend to wear a kilt and boots.

crystal tends to wear a corset.

But dress codes vary from club to club and any decent organiser will happily answer questions of what's acceptable

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks! Just don't want to stick out like Brad and Janet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Which one are you going to?

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By *.nottsbloke..Man
over a year ago

the vale

a lot of guys where smart clothes trousers and shirt often dark but usually anything apart from trainers and track suit is fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"a lot of guys where smart clothes trousers and shirt often dark but usually anything apart from trainers and track suit is fine"

Really, Which clubs are they? Some, but far from all accept formal wear but "anything apart from trainers and tracksuits" is a world away from any club I know.

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By *.nottsbloke..Man
over a year ago

the vale

the ones I attend tend to be fetish nights at swingers clubs but organised another website at there venue its closed to there regulars

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"a lot of guys where smart clothes trousers and shirt often dark but usually anything apart from trainers and track suit is fine

Really, Which clubs are they? Some, but far from all accept formal wear but "anything apart from trainers and tracksuits" is a world away from any club I know."

I would say the same ...generally smart, and black for men - women can be a little more creative of course

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

I've never been to a fetish club but have been to a fetish party at a dedicated venue (it's an adapted cottage so can't really call it a club lol).

I wore a corset, a tutu and stockings and suspenders.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Which one are you going to?"

Maybe torture garden.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Which one are you going to?

Maybe torture garden."

You need to really make an effort at TG. Probably more so than at any other club.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I was thinking the same thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plus if you are going to TG viewing it as a fet event then you may be disappointed. It is a club night with a fet element but we hear mixed reviews and it appears to be a bit like marmite. And not everyone gets or even respects the fet element.

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over a year ago

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

Torture garden is full of posers and beautiful people, all competing for the best costume. Apart from a couple of acts, displays and possibly depending on which one you attend a dungeon, it is pretty much a club night.

I saw and got involved in a lot more play at the Brighton events I've attended then the London ones, the Brighton event is also a lot more friendly.

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By *extoysareusCouple
over a year ago

kinky heaven


"Which one are you going to?

Maybe torture garden."

We've been to th twice first time we just wore rubber, 2nd wore leatherette trousers and PVC dress. Check out harmony ships or online.

Some just wear knickers,some nude,

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By *tirling DarkCouple
over a year ago

Stirling


"a lot of guys where smart clothes trousers and shirt often dark but usually anything apart from trainers and track suit is fine"

Bugger, no shell suit then?

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By *orsetandheelsWoman
over a year ago

Wimbledon


"If YOU have been to a fetish club.....what did you wear the first time???"

Wear whatever you are comfortable in within the dress code for the first time you go. There's no point spending £££ on outfits if you don't know if you'll go again.

TG has great galleries for past events on their website so check those out for inspiration.

Have a great time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have been to a specialized fetish club in Birmingham a few times and wore shirt and trousers

And as mentioned above, dark or black seems to be the preferred colour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We got a nice fetish club on the Cap - Clair Obscure. Very friendly, will even demo (on both of u) plus lend u equipment! In addition to that, food as well!

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By *.nottsbloke..Man
over a year ago

the vale

am going resarection in derby on Sunday wave if u see me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us there were 2 clubs in Bristol (run by the same lady). Rubber T shirt and leather side laced trousers (bargain from bristol market) for him and rubber mini dress for her - for both clubs. Don't be mean with the talc though or you will suffer lol!!

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By *itzWoman
over a year ago

south wales


"a lot of guys where smart clothes trousers and shirt often dark but usually anything apart from trainers and track suit is fine"

Personally I find this attitude lazy. The door bitch shouldn't allow men dressed in what amounts to normal clothing in the club in the first place, as these people are showing they are not true fetishists just a man off the street, have no imagination and probably just want to gawp at people and follow them around. You don't need lots of money, just imagination and insight. Why should the women make all the effort!

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By *avid glaasgowMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

any clubs in glasgow?

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By *ngelbiTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Dyserth, North Wales

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By *irtyAndCh33kyCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

If you're not sure what the dress code is then maybe ask the club?

If you're just asking for ideas on what to wear then you can generally be as wild as you like....we've seen everything from just wearing a collar and lead to full gimp suits

Basically with the right fetish club you can pretty much indulge in your particular clothing fetish (if you have one)....we do

Mrs Dirty

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By *eepsouthCouple
over a year ago

Bournemouth


"Which one are you going to?

Maybe torture garden."

Hi and don't mean to be rude but if this is your first time at a fetish club I would not go for TG anything from the entry to the people and very load music packed no where to sit, you would not even be noticed as it's a pose and it's a very hard core fetish club. If your not prudish to see babies and guys with a metal pieces in there mouth to keep it wide open all night then go its a good night out but very different to other more social fetish clubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Which one are you going to?

Maybe torture garden.

Hi and don't mean to be rude but if this is your first time at a fetish club I would not go for TG anything from the entry to the people and very load music packed no where to sit, you would not even be noticed as it's a pose and it's a very hard core fetish club. If your not prudish to see babies and guys with a metal pieces in there mouth to keep it wide open all night then go its a good night out but very different to other more social fetish clubs. "

TG is many things but is far from a "very hardcore fetish club"...

I don't understand the bit about babies or guys with metal in their mouths but it is far tamer than most London clubs from a play point of view.

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By *ncutgemMan
over a year ago

Bath ish

How long is a piece of string depends on you and your attitude and the club I took a Woman to a club dressed only in a karada and a crochet bra i made wasnt long before she was wearing a very different kind of rope bra and boy did here purple brests get noticed

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend


"Which one are you going to?

Maybe torture garden.

Hi and don't mean to be rude but if this is your first time at a fetish club I would not go for TG anything from the entry to the people and very load music packed no where to sit, you would not even be noticed as it's a pose and it's a very hard core fetish club. If your not prudish to see babies and guys with a metal pieces in there mouth to keep it wide open all night then go its a good night out but very different to other more social fetish clubs.

TG is many things but is far from a "very hardcore fetish club"...

I don't understand the bit about babies or guys with metal in their mouths but it is far tamer than most London clubs from a play point of view."

The first TG ball I attended there was a couple of adult babies, a couple of men and women on leashes with horse bits in their mouths, but very little play. Even the dungeon was hardly used. I spoke to the door bitch on the couples room door and he said it was quiet in there too.

I love TG parties but if you go expecting hardcore play every where, you are going to be sorely disappointed.

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By *eepsouthCouple
over a year ago

Bournemouth


"Which one are you going to?

Maybe torture garden.

Hi and don't mean to be rude but if this is your first time at a fetish club I would not go for TG anything from the entry to the people and very load music packed no where to sit, you would not even be noticed as it's a pose and it's a very hard core fetish club. If your not prudish to see babies and guys with a metal pieces in there mouth to keep it wide open all night then go its a good night out but very different to other more social fetish clubs.

TG is many things but is far from a "very hardcore fetish club"...

I don't understand the bit about babies or guys with metal in their mouths but it is far tamer than most London clubs from a play point of view."

Well we went and we been in the scene for 10 years and seen quite a bit. There was people dressed up as babies in nappies and with dummies also guys with metal that kept their mouth open for other guys to spunk in it. It was a hardcore night the only time we been .( Salisburycouple can't wait for the 14th x)

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over a year ago

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By *ubkentguyMan
over a year ago

TUNBRIDGE WELLS


"If YOU have been to a fetish club.....what did you wear the first time???"

My thing was being a dog for a girl . Knew she had pins an studs in most of her face

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

I have only been to one fet event so far. As a women it's easy. Just a corset worked for me. PVC.

Guys dressed in suits. Lots in kilts etc

I plan to go again this month. Should be fun x

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By *ubkentguyMan
over a year ago

TUNBRIDGE WELLS

I want to go wrapped in newspaper just for the hell of it something different

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I want to go wrapped in newspaper just for the hell of it something different "

well at least if you get bored you'll have something to do....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went to one recently for the first time. I was so nervous. I wore all black and had a leather jacket on too.

...i don't really have any fetish wear and i'm not one to wear alternative wear. I just like to wear things that make me feel and look good.

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By *ubkentguyMan
over a year ago

TUNBRIDGE WELLS


"I want to go wrapped in newspaper just for the hell of it something different

well at least if you get bored you'll have something to do.... "

But there's only one newspaper Sunday sport

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

i get annoyed when guys turn up with just black shirt and trousers ..sort it out guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wore a bondage dress which was basically just strategically placed straps with the breasts exposed and my face was painted like Marie Antoinette.

My OH wore a black kilt and a black jacket and a sporran which contained my lipstick

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