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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

been emailing a couple, but put off by conversation over the phone.. is it timewasting backing out?

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"been emailing a couple, but put off by conversation over the phone.. is it timewasting backing out? "

They may consider it so, but we all have to be allowed to change our mind in all good faith. Apologise politely and you can do no more.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"been emailing a couple, but put off by conversation over the phone.. is it timewasting backing out? "

No. I've been put off meeting by what people have messaged. Just don't stand them up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. If there's no attraction you won't enjoy yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"been emailing a couple, but put off by conversation over the phone.. is it timewasting backing out? "

No...just be honest and polite, they should be cool with that...if they're not then you had a lucky escape!

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Not at all. Everyone has to be happy and if you are not , walk away.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks for the replies.. just checking

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

Not at all mate, if it's not working for you with a phone chat, it'll be even less when you meet in person, and then you will feel more guilty about turning someone down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats like saying that you had chatted online a decided not to meet them, Timewasting is planning a meet then not showing up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"been emailing a couple, but put off by conversation over the phone.. is it timewasting backing out? "

Frankly, it would be time wasting if you *didn't* back out.

Let them know first though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's why going to swinging clubs is better as there ain't no BS crap like off here , got messed around by a couple tonight , spoke on here for a few weeks ,exchanged no., emailed to confirm tonight around 20 hours ago ,plus txt message confirm ...an hour before meet , some BS story about I never confirmed by txt ...made other plans blah blah and then blocked me ....utter crap like that I despise and hate ...anyway I guess it happens to the best of us ....lol

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By *RYBBWCouple
over a year ago

Leeds.


"been emailing a couple, but put off by conversation over the phone.. is it timewasting backing out? "

Not at all. Only if you had arranged a meet and left them waiting in a pub/standing in the cold would you be a timewaster.

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By *atelotmanMan
over a year ago

Chatham


"been emailing a couple, but put off by conversation over the phone.. is it timewasting backing out?

Not at all. Only if you had arranged a meet and left them waiting in a pub/standing in the cold would you be a timewaster."

Ive had that happen a couple of times but not given up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been out off my phone calls too - no buzz no and no connection - what's the point of meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"been emailing a couple, but put off by conversation over the phone.. is it timewasting backing out? "

I talk on the phones heaps at work but speaking to someone from here I find really difficult x but if the vibe isn't there just tell em x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"been emailing a couple, but put off by conversation over the phone.. is it timewasting backing out? "

Not at all, you are only getting to know the other party.... Whatever you do do not set a date and not turn up, that will win you no friends x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all. It's less time wasting lol. I have exchanged messages before and then had phone call and been drastically put off. I spoke with one woman and it was imimpossible to get her to speak. Literally grunted at me on phone. But hilariously after 'chat' she mailed me to say I wasn't chatty enough!!! Not that I'm still bitter grrrrr.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"been emailing a couple, but put off by conversation over the phone.. is it timewasting backing out? "

No definitely not we all are at liberty to change our minds anytime. It is all part of the selection process. Timewasters are people who arrange to meet and then don't turn up without letting you know of their change of mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all, until you chat nothing is real

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"That's why going to swinging clubs is better as there ain't no BS crap like off here , got messed around by a couple tonight , spoke on here for a few weeks ,exchanged no., emailed to confirm tonight around 20 hours ago ,plus txt message confirm ...an hour before meet , some BS story about I never confirmed by txt ...made other plans blah blah and then blocked me ....utter crap like that I despise and hate ...anyway I guess it happens to the best of us ....lol "

Xanderson - someone cancelled on you. Whatever is the world coming too!

Promise I would never do that. Leave you at the club for a better offer. Maybe (only joking btw)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"been emailing a couple, but put off by conversation over the phone.. is it timewasting backing out? "

I thought the point of talking on the phone is to see if you get on?

if you didn't don't meets

I have backed out after I've agreed and arranged a meet, if someone says or does something to make you feel uncomfortable you have the rights to back out at any point, being genuine does not mean you'll fuck anyone

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

OP. It's not one rule for single men and another for everyone else.

You can back out at any stage.

A time waster to me is someone who arranged to meet but did not turn up.

Even if you meet them but don't want to play, that is not time wasting.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"OP. It's not one rule for single men and another for everyone else.

You can back out at any stage.

A time waster to me is someone who arranged to meet but did not turn up.

Even if you meet them but don't want to play, that is not time wasting.

"

Agreed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's why going to swinging clubs is better as there ain't no BS crap like off here , got messed around by a couple tonight , spoke on here for a few weeks ,exchanged no., emailed to confirm tonight around 20 hours ago ,plus txt message confirm ...an hour before meet , some BS story about I never confirmed by txt ...made other plans blah blah and then blocked me ....utter crap like that I despise and hate ...anyway I guess it happens to the best of us ....lol

Xanderson - someone cancelled on you. Whatever is the world coming too!

Promise I would never do that. Leave you at the club for a better offer. Maybe (only joking btw) "

Hahaha .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's time wasting is when you chat to (name removed as although it's ok to waste our time were not allowed to warn others!) And you exchange lots of texts and arrange to meet. You sit waiting at arranged meet at the arranged time, you give him plenty of time to get there. You text him make sure he is not lost.... No reply...hmmm. And yet he has one positive feed back on his profile. Still not heard from him as to why he never showed..... Now that's time wasting!

It's about time site showed how many negative feed back members get... And not make it optional.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Talking to someone on here doesnt mean you have to meet them. Its about finding out if you would want to meet them.

so no its not timewasting, its how the site works

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