FabSwingers.com forum: Advice from the ladies.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I was wondering if a cock pic on a profile is an absolute no no?

Do all women hate it or is it only a few?

I’d like to hear your opinions as I don’t have any on my profile and was wondering if I should add some…

Thank you…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally not that keen on them like to see body pics snd yours are very nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not keen tbh - love the torso, cheeky arse pic, open neck shirts - that sort of thing x

I know you men all think that your cock is the most beautiful thing in the world but............! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was wondering if a cock pic on a profile is an absolute no no?

Do all women hate it or is it only a few?

I’d like to hear your opinions as I don’t have any on my profile and was wondering if I should add some…

Thank you…

On the other side, I do not like to see pussy photos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i like looking at them, it would be a lot more boring on this site if there werent any.

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By *isa 59Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle

Personally I hate them as main profile pics but see nothing wrong with including them in your other folders...unless of course that's all you've got pics of and then I'd give you a wide berth! lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you Just Minnie :D

Haha yea they aren’t the prettiest things in the world, but I thought maybe some women would wanna see what’s on offer?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few are ok

35 is too much - I've seen this amount - especially as they are all from the same angle x

& soft lollipy one are yuk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally I hate them as main profile pics but see nothing wrong with including them in your other folders...unless of course that's all you've got pics of and then I'd give you a wide berth! lol"

This

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land

I have never asked for a cock shot

I wouldn't walk up to someone in a swingers club and pull his towel to one side or pull a ladies skirt up

for a look.

If there is one on display then I will glance over it, as well there is no choice but I wouldn't click on it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I like to have the choice ... So one is good as long as there are more other body shots to perv at... And the dick pic is not of you giving anal sex to your last playmate

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hmm so it seems that some like them and some don’t.

I think what most of you are saying is that you want a selection of body pics and maybe 1 cock pic just to glance over, but not as the main attraction.

Am I right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hmm so it seems that some like them and some don’t.

I think what most of you are saying is that you want a selection of body pics and maybe 1 cock pic just to glance over, but not as the main attraction.

Am I right?

Yes totally right or a tease of one

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I would not reply to someone who sent me a cock shot as they have obviously not read my profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Oh no I never send a cock pic in a message, I mean having a cock pic on a profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally I would not reply to someone who sent me a cock shot as they have obviously not read my profile.

You not heard they always read profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh no I never send a cock pic in a message, I mean having a cock pic on a profile."

If you insist on putting one on your profile I wouldn't object

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"Thank you Just Minnie :D

Haha yea they aren’t the prettiest things in the world, but I thought maybe some women would wanna see what’s on offer?

I think one is enough, like you say its good to know what's on offer. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

hmmmm ok ill test it out with one wiily pic...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"hmmmm ok ill test it out with one wiily pic..."

Waits impatiently

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

"I was wondering if a cock pic on a profile is an absolute no no?

Do all women hate it or is it only a few?

I’d like to hear your opinions as I don’t have any on my profile and was wondering if I should add some…

Thank you…

The bi-guys ( including the straight bi guys,,

,,!!) will probably like them as well, awaits views opinion,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was wondering if a cock pic on a profile is an absolute no no?

Do all women hate it or is it only a few?

I’d like to hear your opinions as I don’t have any on my profile and was wondering if I should add some…

Thank you…

The bi-guys ( including the straight bi guys,,

,,!!) will probably like them as well, awaits views opinion,,

Hehehe

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice pic

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By *uicybum62Woman
over a year ago

leeds

not for me hi would sooner have face pic or body

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An advertisement is to entice, so suggestion always works better,

It takes about 10 seconds to view a profile, and you need something to attract attention.

Lust is the initial hook, for some a cock or fanny is the hook, for some a nice pair of eyes,

So if you are looking for meets, why not cover all bases? no one has to look or examine any pictures they don't like looking at.

Most women will say a cock pic isn't needed, but don't kid yourself, most women want shagging, so of course a cock pic is important, if you expect a shag

Would anyone select a pair of shoes without the initial attraction,?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"not for me hi would sooner have face pic or body "

I don’t really feel comfortable having a face pic on my profile, but I always add a few in a message.

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By *uicybum62Woman
over a year ago

leeds

"not for me hi would sooner have face pic or body

I don’t really feel comfortable having a face pic on my profile, but I always add a few in a message."

hi think face pics important if your going to meet you need to see face

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"not for me hi would sooner have face pic or body

I don’t really feel comfortable having a face pic on my profile, but I always add a few in a message.

hi think face pics important if your going to meet you need to see face"

Yup I completely agree with you

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By *uicybum62Woman
over a year ago

leeds

"not for me hi would sooner have face pic or body

I don’t really feel comfortable having a face pic on my profile, but I always add a few in a message.

hi think face pics important if your going to meet you need to see face

Yup I completely agree with you

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

One or two is ok. Now get that bloody vest OFF!!! PLEASE x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"One or two is ok. Now get that bloody vest OFF!!! PLEASE x

Haha I can do, but I haven’t got the rock hard abs that some of the guys on fab do.

Ill add one more, but I don’t really like it so I’m not sure if I’ll leave it on there…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends what mood I'm in and how creative the cock picture is.

Ones with the loo insight yes yummy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love cock and I love cock pics. A profile without one is a little disappointing I must admit after reading an attractive profile...

I know some people think they are generally ugly things, but I think they're gorgeous and love to look at them and imagine myself sucking them and licking them.

However, 10 pics of a cock that are all the same is boring. And 'measuring' against cans, remotes, blah blah blah is pretty dull, but a good filter for knowing to leave well alone! :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It depends what mood I'm in and how creative the cock picture is.

Ones with the loo insight yes yummy

Oh god, I hate loo pics, whether it's a cock shot or not. Especially when the lid's up!! Do they not think about how bleurgh that looks!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just wanna say thank you to everyone for their input.

I really appreciate it

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I was wondering if a cock pic on a profile is an absolute no no?

Do all women hate it or is it only a few?

I’d like to hear your opinions as I don’t have any on my profile and was wondering if I should add some…

Thank you…

Your mistake will be to try and be all things to all (wo)men. You can't: don't try. Add pictures you like that reflect you. That way you'll attract like minded people.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I was wondering if a cock pic on a profile is an absolute no no?

Do all women hate it or is it only a few?

I’d like to hear your opinions as I don’t have any on my profile and was wondering if I should add some…

Thank you…

The bi-guys ( including the straight bi guys,,

,,!!) will probably like them as well, awaits views opinion,,

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By *RYBBWCouple
over a year ago

Leeds.

Do men have no other selling points ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only the one willy pic on mine. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah do what you feel comfortable doing ....

But if you get no meets you can always post another thread asking what your doing wrong

My advice essentially is... If you want a shag... Competition is fierce ... Be all things to all women that you may get one!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do men have no other selling points ?"

Backs, bottoms!!! Smiles... Of course they do they just fail to be creative and only show cock pictures because that's all they can think about, their cock!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was wondering if a cock pic on a profile is an absolute no no?

Do all women hate it or is it only a few?

I’d like to hear your opinions as I don’t have any on my profile and was wondering if I should add some…

Thank you…

There is nothing wrong with them but you will find a profile full of them is a no no. Variety is best then there is something for everyone. In the end its your profile though so don't be dictated to what you can and can't have from anyone other than admin.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yeah do what you feel comfortable doing ....

But if you get no meets you can always post another thread asking what your doing wrong

My advice essentially is... If you want a shag... Competition is fierce ... Be all things to all women that you may get one!!!"

Yes you’re right, competition is very fierce and all I can do is build a nice looking profile and send polite, imaginative messages and hope to get a reply. I either get a meet/reply or I don’t, it’s not the end of the world. Of course it is a little disappointing not receiving a response from a message, but it’s not worth whining about because it’s just a sexual encounter…. It’s nothing personal if she just doesn’t wanna sleep with you

haha I mean come on, it’s not like I’m on here looking for someone to spend the rest of my life with!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have an issue with cock pics. I'm not a fan of ones next to sky remotes,lynx cans, gilette cans or packets of cigarettes. And I don't like looking at one that's flaccid.

But a hard cock pic is something I do quite looking at!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think your pics look fab x Im not a lover of a cock pic attached to a message or loads of cock pics on profile and I CANT STAND sex pics - especially with a munter and road kill pussy. Yours is a nice balance xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i like looking at them, it would be a lot more boring on this site if there werent any."

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think your pics look fab x Im not a lover of a cock pic attached to a message or loads of cock pics on profile and I CANT STAND sex pics - especially with a munter and road kill pussy. Yours is a nice balance xx "

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't actually mind as long as there isn't a dozen taken at all angles, what is more annoying is attaching pictures to a first message that are on public view to everyone and then when you question why, you get asked 'well don't you like my picture then?'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the odd cock shot but a profile with just cock shots bore me...especially shots when it's limp, I just don't see the point! If you're doing a cock shot make sure it's standing to attention, it looks much more attractive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't actually mind as long as there isn't a dozen taken at all angles, what is more annoying is attaching pictures to a first message that are on public view to everyone and then when you question why, you get asked 'well don't you like my picture then?'

this has got to be my biggest pet peeve lol

I never can understand why a guy attaches cock pics that are already available for view on their profile...even worse when it is also their avatar. I mean you know just in case you didn't see it at the top of the message there it is again.

I think most women would agree a few cock pics coupled with a few body pics is good. face is best but can wait until private messages are sent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all about context...if it's a full body shot fine...if it's a close up of the one eyed snake leering out at me ...no no no lol

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