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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

meeting a guy who wants me to talk dirty.now this is gonna be really hard for me,cos i am not sure i have it in me to say things.

what DO i say???????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love a nice bit of dirty talk all part of the foreplay x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Love a nice bit of dirty talk all part of the foreplay x "

but i just dont know what to say

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By *orny69pussyCouple
over a year ago

Tonbridge


"Love a nice bit of dirty talk all part of the foreplay x

but i just dont know what to say "

I get ya.. I can talk dirty as hell on here, but in real life I kinda feels silly

Best I've done is saying 'fuck me' while he already is lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you try and force it you won't be comfortable. Best bet is being honest. Say it doesn't come naturally and say you'll give it a shot.

Good luck x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just ease yourself in slowly and use descriptions words like That feels so good, Your so deep etc. Once you get more comfortable then you can get dirtier? I speak filthy to women but its always in the right way x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be honest and say no if it does not float your boat!

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

Don't try and force it or that will be more off putting. If you aren't comfy with dirty talk just say so.. and distract him with some of your favourite techniques

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Talk about your bin days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I very rarely talk dirty before a new meet - prefer to do it once I've met and understand their personality and level of depravity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it takes time to be comfortable saying "filthy" words. When I first wrote erotica I couldn't write tits, cunt and arse. Now I've accepted coarse words are horny in the right context. In fact I like nothing better than telling a guy to fuck ny arse hard (whilst he does lol).

Ease yourself into it gradually .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ii do like dirty talk...it can be such a turn on especially during rough sex...

i find that depending how horny you are the words just flow....say things like...harder you dirty boy...fuck.me faster....you dirty fucktoy do it to me now...

change your tone in yr voice....you can say it quiet into his ear as ges seducing you gently and then as rough sex kicks in get louder and more aggressive tone etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to stare them in the eye and say " do you like fucking a dirty old whore?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to stare them in the eye and say " do you like fucking a dirty old whore?" "

Gulps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it does depend on who you are meeting though. If you really can't do it then tell him. It doesn't come natural to everyone. I have a potty mouth in bed, I can't help myself sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to stare them in the eye and say " do you like fucking a dirty old whore?"

Gulps "

I don't always put a strangle hold on them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to stare them in the eye and say " do you like fucking a dirty old whore?"

Gulps

I don't always put a strangle hold on them "

Double gulps

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By *.nottsbloke..Man
over a year ago

the vale

watch the extras episode when the Scottish lass tries to talk dirty that's funny

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

luton

Tell him you have laryngitis lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you try and force it you won't be comfortable. Best bet is being honest. Say it doesn't come naturally and say you'll give it a shot.

Good luck x"

thankyou

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"Talk about your bin days "

What ever floats your boat.....

*says in a husky voice *

My bin day is Peach Saturday. This week it is both my recycling and household collection.

Getting you excited yet?

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

I rather like someone talking dirty to me but I am generally no good at it.

Even now and now in the heat of the moment something will pop out but that's when I'm not thinking about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it may take a while if you say your nervous about it, but if you relax ti may happen..

try describing how ur feeling how turned on, if your wet etc..

them maybe what u want him to do to you or other way round, even telling him how good it feels while hes playing with you x

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

[Removed by poster at 22/10/13 14:36:10]

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

Try it alone too ( make sure the neighbours can't hear), try while having some fun time alone too.... When you practise like that you can get a little confidence until eventually you feel right about it and it should become easier and more natural for you to use whenever you like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just watch a few tacky porn films on xtube or hamster, and learn.

Mind you after saying that, I would never do anything outside my comfort zone

Lowering myself to someone elses very low standards, woyld be a turn off for me, to me sex is about emotions, and compatability.

If you don't usually talk dirty, why on earth are you interested in meeting him?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to stare them in the eye and say " do you like fucking a dirty old whore?" "

PMSL - knowing my luck they'd say eeeekkk no! And run

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