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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi forum. I just wondered if you would give me a bit of help With my profile. I'm truly genuine. But seem to be getting tret like sh*t. I got called a time waster the other day because I said I wanted to meet but refused because I wouldn't meet without a face picture. I'm not even that superficial just think that some things need to be put out there. It's not like I'm just here to get my rocks off. The swinging community interests me. A social meet would be great, I just want to be able to have a conversation about well you know. Not a vanilla one basically. And not get frowned upon.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

There's not a hope in hell I would meet without a face pic!

What was this person thinking? Blind Date? Lucky escape springs to mind!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just had a look and it seems ok to me you have everything on there that needed to be said and as for your meet saying you was a time waster cos they wouldn't send you a face pic is so wrong as I'll not meet anyone without a face pic and like you I don't care what they look like its just nice to look out for them if you are meeting as your not going to sit there waiting and not know what they look like are you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There's not a hope in hell I would meet without a face pic!

What was this person thinking? Blind Date? Lucky escape springs to mind! "
too right. The shame is out of the 20 or so people I've talked to they were really great to chat with. I got showered and trimmed and was practically out of the door. Before they refused a pic. But apparently I'm the time waster

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's not a hope in hell I would meet without a face pic!

What was this person thinking? Blind Date? Lucky escape springs to mind! "

I'm thinking the same here too haha

And why do you have to be 390miles away hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's not a hope in hell I would meet without a face pic!

What was this person thinking? Blind Date? Lucky escape springs to mind! "

You seen mine though

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I sent them a face pic too. Then they said let's meet. They drove over to my area. I was going to be the host. They blocked me after I said no pic no meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's not a hope in hell I would meet without a face pic!

What was this person thinking? Blind Date? Lucky escape springs to mind! too right. The shame is out of the 20 or so people I've talked to they were really great to chat with. I got showered and trimmed and was practically out of the door. Before they refused a pic. But apparently I'm the time waster "

You were getting ready for a meet without ever having seen a photo??? How come you got to that stage when you didn't even know who you were talking to? xx

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"There's not a hope in hell I would meet without a face pic!

What was this person thinking? Blind Date? Lucky escape springs to mind!

You seen mine though "

And very nice to! But you didn't ask for mine

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"There's not a hope in hell I would meet without a face pic!

What was this person thinking? Blind Date? Lucky escape springs to mind! too right. The shame is out of the 20 or so people I've talked to they were really great to chat with. I got showered and trimmed and was practically out of the door. Before they refused a pic. But apparently I'm the time waster

You were getting ready for a meet without ever having seen a photo??? How come you got to that stage when you didn't even know who you were talking to? xx "

I think women are more sensible when it come to this stuff lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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You were getting ready for a meet without ever having seen a photo??? How come you got to that stage when you didn't even know who you were talking to? xx "

Because the conversation was great. Same interests and views. And I sent them one. And they said let's meet now. I thought the picture would follow. But they just refused. I don't understand why because they wanted to meet me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

plenty more fish in the sea, just keep a harpoon handy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Feels a bit like I'm getting an ear bashing for arranging a meet without a pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's not a hope in hell I would meet without a face pic!

What was this person thinking? Blind Date? Lucky escape springs to mind! too right. The shame is out of the 20 or so people I've talked to they were really great to chat with. I got showered and trimmed and was practically out of the door. Before they refused a pic. But apparently I'm the time waster

You were getting ready for a meet without ever having seen a photo??? How come you got to that stage when you didn't even know who you were talking to? xx

I think women are more sensible when it come to this stuff lol "

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Feels a bit like I'm getting an ear bashing for arranging a meet without a pic"

Hardly! It's just something a woman would never do, unless she was less than lovely herself

If you were meeting in a pub, how the hell do you introduce yourself? Go round every guy who is on his own and say, Hi' I'm _oxy_minx, pleased to meet you, I think I would get quite a few odd looks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Feels a bit like I'm getting an ear bashing for arranging a meet without a pic"

It's a learning curve for you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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It's a learning curve for you."
learning the hard way. I'm sure my time will come

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

You were getting ready for a meet without ever having seen a photo??? How come you got to that stage when you didn't even know who you were talking to? xx

Because the conversation was great. Same interests and views. And I sent them one. And they said let's meet now. I thought the picture would follow. But they just refused. I don't understand why because they wanted to meet me "

Not an ear bashing hun, just maybe a suggestion that you exchange photos at an earlier time in the conversation so that this doesn't happen again. If they refuse to send a photo from the get-go then you can cut and run without having put yourself through all of this

x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wow I genuinely feel inexperienced. I thought I was a man of the world.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Wow I genuinely feel inexperienced. I thought I was a man of the world. "

We've all learnt from one experience or another!

The trick is to learn from them rather than continue to do the wrong thing, we've probably all been duped at some point or another, so chin up and have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our General rule is if we message we send a face pic with first message, if they message we expect a face pic off them first, that way both parties can decide whether to continue messaging early and save a game of message ping pong, if by the 3rd message they haven't or won't send a face pic then sorry but its end of conversation and blocked, if we get random pics of cock and fanny its instant block, its worked for us

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just worked out that webcam is the best way to sort meets out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just worked out that webcam is the best way to sort meets out"

Not really as many do not use them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Best way to find out they are real though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Best way to find out they are real though"

Problem there is so few really use the cams, a photo and mob number is all thats needed, has worked great for me with all my meets

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Have you considered attending a social?

You'll meet lots of people in a chilled out atmosphere and get veris too.

There's one coming up on the 2nd of Nov in Sheffield, check out the Meet Requests and Parties forum.

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