FabSwingers.com forum: Advice on housemate!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I live with a mate, his brother and his new girlfriend who has just moved in. My mate really likes her and thinks shes real clean cut lady type, thing is, i met her out prob about a year ago and had a one night stand with her, she was filthy but then hounded me after so i lost interest. Well, When my mate 'introduced' me to her it was well awkward, when we were alone briefly she asked me not to tell him about that night or how she got after and i said ok. But now i hear them fucking every night and hear her moaning and she texts me saying it was me she was thinking of....do i tell him and risk losing a mate and the room i rent off him, or keep my mouth shut?

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By *ucy and CarlCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

What's your gut feeling telling you?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Keep it zipped and ask her, no tell her to stop involving you by texting you. She's messing with you and it won't end well if she carries on.

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London

Bad karma whichever way you choose to go.

My advice, ignore everything, just blank it...

In the end, truth will out,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mate your on a swingers site! Your gonna get the obvious!!! Threesome!! Everyone wins and you can share the bad shit crazy girl?

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Block her number on your phone so you won't get her texts (can get apps that do this).

Get some earplugs.

She will soon get bored of trying to get a reaction out of you.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Also if you're replying to her texts stop.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmmmm she went all crazy on you an you lost interest but yet somehow she still has your number or got it again?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd look for somewhere new to live. At some point it is going to get messy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Also if you're replying to her texts stop."

I dont reply to her, i tell her to her face to stop.

She's bat shit crazy, i just hope my housemate realises it before i get bought into it, for now i think ill keep schtum. Thanks guys n gals

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Also if you're replying to her texts stop.

I dont reply to her, i tell her to her face to stop.

She's bat shit crazy, i just hope my housemate realises it before i get bought into it, for now i think ill keep schtum. Thanks guys n gals"

Ok well I hope it turns out ok for all three of you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no matter what you do, you are onto a loser.

keep it shut, and keep the other thing in your pants.

she may well just be out to cause you trouble and get you out of the way, in case you tell your mate she is bad news.

IF it all comes out that she knows you, just say you didnt recognise her as it was a log time ago and a one night thing.

but you will probably have to find somewhere else to live soon enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You should have perhaps told him shortly after he had introduced you that you had met her before (or even at the same time.) but it's easy to see the right path after the horse has bolted. Were you living at your mates when you first met her?

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

"I'd look for somewhere new to live. At some point it is going to get messy"

This

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

How good a mate is he?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You should have perhaps told him shortly after he had introduced you that you had met her before (or even at the same time.) but it's easy to see the right path after the horse has bolted. Were you living at your mates when you first met her?"

It was hard though as i knew he was really liking her before he introduced us, and it was on the first night he did bring her round that she asked me not to say anything. I didnt think at that point she'd be moving in with us and causing this hassle. I said to her today if she doesnt stop im moving out and she said 'noooo, dont do that. Ill stop i promise' so will see how it goes and will keep u informed. Ive not heard them tonight

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Mate your on a swingers site! Your gonna get the obvious!!! Threesome!! Everyone wins and you can share the bad shit crazy girl? "

Being a swinger doesnt mean having no morals dude! I know he likes her and dont wanna potentionally ruin it for him. She says shes happy with him and does like him and doesnt want to lose him either, so i doubt she'd tell him....but i know how crazy she is, or used to be, she may have changed so hopefully she leaves me be and they make it work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

don't stay coz she's asking you to stay , that's just more of the crazy. you're giving her what she wants then aren't you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

" don't stay coz she's asking you to stay , that's just more of the crazy. you're giving her what she wants then aren't you?"

as long as she stops involving me i dont care....i love where i live, i dont want to move. My housemate knows i sleep with quite a few girls so epuld believe me if i said i genuinely font remember her....but if shes kept the texts shes sent me then he'd go mad!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Block her number on your phone so you won't get her texts (can get apps that do this).

Get some earplugs.

She will soon get bored of trying to get a reaction out of you. "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Move to Brazil.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

She's playing mind games for sure, she knows if you suddenly moved out questions would be asked. Gah I really get fed up with this type of person as long as they get attention they don't give a damn whose feelings they involve. She isn't bat shit crazy, she's a needy, tease who delights in your discomfort and gets off on thinking she has two guys on a string.

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