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By *sagent81 OP   Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Me and a female friend from this site are looking to meet a bi female to join us for a threesome. It's proving a little difficult. Any tips? Would a couples profile get us more response?

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land

Spend a few minutes searching through the forums for the multiple posts from couples and singles, then you'll know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are around, patience, don't try too hard....

Good luck in your search x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Me and a female friend from this site are looking to meet a bi female to join us for a threesome. It's proving a little difficult. Any tips? Would a couples profile get us more response? "

I would try the lottery instead lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We found a cpl on POF

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land

I always find them, well ok they find me.

But then I go to clubs and talk to people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe change the way you look for them....

They are out there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe change the way you look for them....

They are out there "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that in the interest of openness you should have a couple profile. I think a lot of people will be wary of an approach from a single man claiming to be a couple.

That said it will still be difficult for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah we're having the same problem really. I've been the politest little lady you could think of to be nice whilst messaging other and still nothing ???? we close to giving up.

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

If you stop looking for something, it is bound to find you! Thats what my great Gran mother said to me some years ago and I never forgot it.

Bi women are not hard to find but they may not want to play with couples. From my personal experience, I have been extremely lucky to have met and played with 2 wonderful couples but it took more than one encounter in a club before we played.

When as a single woman I approach a single man/lady who then says "I have a partner who would love to join us" I automatically stop all communication and block. If you want to meet as a couple..have a couples profile and use your single's profiles to meet as singles without trying to bring a third person into the equasion.

Sorry...very long winded! Good luck to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we are looking for the same, but then V gets very suspicious of any single woman that messages or replies.

you just really cant win sometimes lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's really not as hard as it seems!

But trying to find a bi fem to play with a couple from a single guys account is going to be tough going

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol I must be too polite to some because they just delete us with out getting to know us. Or there must be something on our profile that bores the life out of others. I'm confused lol maybe I should message every one and say I want shove my tongue in your fruu lol lol only kidding that's on the 5th message talk ?? haha. Nah we are genuine happy cheeky couple that just want to get to know some lady's we have been truthful all the way through and I only message girls who are looking for that I even take the time to read all their profile too lol ??????

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

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"Lol I must be too polite to some because they just delete us with out getting to know us. Or there must be something on our profile that bores the life out of others. I'm confused lol maybe I should message every one and say I want shove my tongue in your fruu lol lol only kidding that's on the 5th message talk ?? haha. Nah we are genuine happy cheeky couple that just want to get to know some lady's we have been truthful all the way through and I only message girls who are looking for that I even take the time to read all their profile too lol ??????"

I like your profile but I would be very suspicious because you only have pics of the F...nothing showing the M part. If you are a couple...show both of you. No point in having them in private if you are trying the attract a single lady. Just a little friendly feedback...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol I must be too polite to some because they just delete us with out getting to know us. Or there must be something on our profile that bores the life out of others. I'm confused lol maybe I should message every one and say I want shove my tongue in your fruu lol lol only kidding that's on the 5th message talk ?? haha. Nah we are genuine happy cheeky couple that just want to get to know some lady's we have been truthful all the way through and I only message girls who are looking for that I even take the time to read all their profile too lol ??????"

Maybe consider some pictures of the male otherwise it just looks like a single female's profile

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land

I know people dont want to hear this but I'm one of those that wont message couples on here. I do come across as very anti couple but in clubs it is very different.

It is impossible to tell in text format,

1 who you are actually talking too (m/f)

2 how secure their relationship is

3 if they both are really interested

4 how comfortable they are together

5 what they both look like (I know not all couples profiles have just female pics but a lot do)

and a whole list of other things.

Many of my friends say they wont go to a couples house alone, for obvious safety concerns, and sadly, as is usually the case, the few spoil it for the masses. Most people have seen domestics and what not. This is not aimed at anyone/ any couple is just general.

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

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"I know people dont want to hear this but I'm one of those that wont message couples on here. I do come across as very anti couple but in clubs it is very different.

It is impossible to tell in text format,

1 who you are actually talking too (m/f)

2 how secure their relationship is

3 if they both are really interested

4 how comfortable they are together

5 what they both look like (I know not all couples profiles have just female pics but a lot do)

and a whole list of other things.

Many of my friends say they wont go to a couples house alone, for obvious safety concerns, and sadly, as is usually the case, the few spoil it for the masses. Most people have seen domestics and what not. This is not aimed at anyone/ any couple is just general. "

Exactly why I block couples and will only meet them in clubs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are in the private photos hun and for every girl we message we either tag 2 pics on or offer them to see the pics. He just likes the pic of my bum lol. But yeah on a serious note maybe I should put a pic of both of our bums lol due to our jobs we are unable to use face shots etc. xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've just posted on another message board about this...I'm a single bi female with plenty of veris.....and was stood up by a couple for a social a few weeks ago...was left sitting there like a complete saddo in the pub....and they wonder why I'm a bit wary.....!! x

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

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"They are in the private photos hun and for every girl we message we either tag 2 pics on or offer them to see the pics. He just likes the pic of my bum lol. But yeah on a serious note maybe I should put a pic of both of our bums lol due to our jobs we are unable to use face shots etc. xxx"

Your profile is your 'window display' (sorry if thats not the right expression). If I go shopping I will be attracted to the display and if that appeals to me I will walk into the shop and look further. May be I will find what I am looking for or may be not...but I am in the shop so the display worked...A poor analogy maybe but thats the best I have. Hiding the goods does not make me want to walk into the shop. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol I must be too polite to some because they just delete us with out getting to know us. Or there must be something on our profile that bores the life out of others. I'm confused lol maybe I should message every one and say I want shove my tongue in your fruu lol lol only kidding that's on the 5th message talk ?? haha. Nah we are genuine happy cheeky couple that just want to get to know some lady's we have been truthful all the way through and I only message girls who are looking for that I even take the time to read all their profile too lol ??????

I like your profile but I would be very suspicious because you only have pics of the F...nothing showing the M part. If you are a couple...show both of you. No point in having them in private if you are trying the attract a single lady. Just a little friendly feedback... "

Thank you Hun and yes I see what you mean. Hey more fun for me I get to tie him up and take some pics before he chases me around the room with the rope lol( that's not meaning he's gonna kill me it's just an extra opportunity to have some fun) And I completely agree about the whole safety issue thank you for the great info guys and gals lots of love the fem xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They are in the private photos hun and for every girl we message we either tag 2 pics on or offer them to see the pics. He just likes the pic of my bum lol. But yeah on a serious note maybe I should put a pic of both of our bums lol due to our jobs we are unable to use face shots etc. xxx

Your profile is your 'window display' (sorry if thats not the right expression). If I go shopping I will be attracted to the display and if that appeals to me I will walk into the shop and look further. May be I will find what I am looking for or may be not...but I am in the shop so the display worked...A poor analogy maybe but thats the best I have. Hiding the goods does not make me want to walk into the shop. xx"

Hmmmmm I see well gimme 5 and I can change some of the inside shop previews it will have to wait for the ones together as he's working away this weekend xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There we are there's a bit of both of us now. Is that any better xxxx

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By *sagent81 OP   Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Thankyou for the replys. Shall have to see about the couples profile then, but my friends profile is on here too so anyone that was interested would be welcome to view and get in contact. Not sure about the clubs just yet.

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