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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i have been on here a while and I dont seem to have much luck on here. could a profile update be in order.

profile update to be done later this evening and feedback would be appreciated.

thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i have been on here a while and I dont seem to have much luck on here. could a profile update be in order.

profile update to be done later this evening and feedback would be appreciated.

thank you."

Looks good to me, if you were not so far away I would have messaged you

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

13 meets in 4 months? I don't see it as not having any luck!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

seems fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"13 meets in 4 months? I don't see it as not having any luck! "

Oppps Missed that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"13 meets in 4 months? I don't see it as not having any luck! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

luck with what?

almost any woman can get a meet, having a fanny is usually the start...so I cant personally see you being hard up lol

unless you mean not having luck finding a boyfriend...........

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"13 meets in 4 months? I don't see it as not having any luck! "

only 4 are play meets others are socials

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"luck with what?

almost any woman can get a meet, having a fanny is usually the start...so I cant personally see you being hard up lol

unless you mean not having luck finding a boyfriend..........."

no i dont want a bf

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"13 meets in 4 months? I don't see it as not having any luck!

only 4 are play meets others are socials"

It still means 13 people were interested in meeting you! If it didn't go further than that, then it's obviously not down to your profile!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"13 meets in 4 months? I don't see it as not having any luck!

only 4 are play meets others are socials

It still means 13 people were interested in meeting you! If it didn't go further than that, then it's obviously not down to your profile! "

there just from parties not from meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i can see your problem.

you cant meet on a monday or a tuesday.

thats gonna wipe out pretty much everyone. lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i can see your problem.

you cant meet on a monday or a tuesday.

thats gonna wipe out pretty much everyone. lol"

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"13 meets in 4 months? I don't see it as not having any luck!

only 4 are play meets others are socials

It still means 13 people were interested in meeting you! If it didn't go further than that, then it's obviously not down to your profile!

there just from parties not from meeting "

So they were people you met at parties and no contact with them since?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i have been on here a while and I dont seem to have much luck on here. could a profile update be in order.

profile update to be done later this evening and feedback would be appreciated.

thank you."

I would delete the 1st photo on the 2nd row.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Like the others have said you obviously aren't doing bad. Even if only 4 were play meets that's still one a month x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Like the others have said you obviously aren't doing bad. Even if only 4 were play meets that's still one a month x"

maybe. never saw it like that

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"i have been on here a while and I dont seem to have much luck on here. could a profile update be in order.

profile update to be done later this evening and feedback would be appreciated.

thank you."

I agree with many of the comments made above so I wont repeat them. As you're asking about your profile, I suggest avoiding the Don't, try and turn that into positives. For example when you write:

“No outdoor or car meets as i do not like them no amount of trying to convince me will change that. So please stop asking. “ If this is something close to your heart and is important to list on your profile, why not say “I have tried outdoor car and as much a thrill as it was, I found that this was not for me/something I enjoy/that turns me on.” or something along those lines. As a rule of thumbs, nobody wants to read negatives so maybe try to turn your dislikes into positives. Hopefully they will have read your profile and wont suggest any of the things you do not enjoy and if they do...there is always the block button.

Telling guys you do not want something usually attracts them. Other than that (and because I am passionate about languages), try and correct some of your spelling. Only trying to help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i have been on here a while and I dont seem to have much luck on here. could a profile update be in order.

profile update to be done later this evening and feedback would be appreciated.

thank you.

I agree with many of the comments made above so I wont repeat them. As you're asking about your profile, I suggest avoiding the Don't, try and turn that into positives. For example when you write:

“No outdoor or car meets as i do not like them no amount of trying to convince me will change that. So please stop asking. “ If this is something close to your heart and is important to list on your profile, why not say “I have tried outdoor car and as much a thrill as it was, I found that this was not for me/something I enjoy/that turns me on.” or something along those lines. As a rule of thumbs, nobody wants to read negatives so maybe try to turn your dislikes into positives. Hopefully they will have read your profile and wont suggest any of the things you do not enjoy and if they do...there is always the block button.

Telling guys you do not want something usually attracts them. Other than that (and because I am passionate about languages), try and correct some of your spelling. Only trying to help. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i have been on here a while and I dont seem to have much luck on here. could a profile update be in order.

profile update to be done later this evening and feedback would be appreciated.

thank you.

I agree with many of the comments made above so I wont repeat them. As you're asking about your profile, I suggest avoiding the Don't, try and turn that into positives. For example when you write:

“No outdoor or car meets as i do not like them no amount of trying to convince me will change that. So please stop asking. “ If this is something close to your heart and is important to list on your profile, why not say “I have tried outdoor car and as much a thrill as it was, I found that this was not for me/something I enjoy/that turns me on.” or something along those lines. As a rule of thumbs, nobody wants to read negatives so maybe try to turn your dislikes into positives. Hopefully they will have read your profile and wont suggest any of the things you do not enjoy and if they do...there is always the block button.

Telling guys you do not want something usually attracts them. Other than that (and because I am passionate about languages), try and correct some of your spelling. Only trying to help. "

thank you may try something like this later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Uv had loads meets nd u say ur unlucky lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Uv had loads meets nd u say ur unlucky lol "

had 4

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sweetie I didnt like the last pic of you on the bed - bit dark around bottom - not sure if staining or shadow ( sorry babe but genuinely trying to help ) sometimes its not about your profile as such - but the way messages go x I gets loads and engage in chat - but find sometimes guys just cant ' close the deal' and ask to meet so it drifts away x others are really good at asking to meet xx hope this helps ? Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sweetie I didnt like the last pic of you on the bed - bit dark around bottom - not sure if staining or shadow ( sorry babe but genuinely trying to help ) sometimes its not about your profile as such - but the way messages go x I gets loads and engage in chat - but find sometimes guys just cant ' close the deal' and ask to meet so it drifts away x others are really good at asking to meet xx hope this helps ? Xx "

its shadowing thank god lol. but thank you for bringing that to my attention

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