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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I received a text saying Iva had too many meets in the last couple of days. Baring in mind the one play date I have had didn't verify me back, I'm spoke that someone could be that judgemental. And he wasn't the first. Since Wednesday I've had 3 socials, one play date, and verified one guy from a meet we had before we got on fab. So one sexual meet is too many o.O

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Littered with spelling mistakes, sorry guys!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Littered with spelling mistakes, sorry guys! "

Its up to you how many meets you have, tell them to mind there own busness

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Who are they to say it's too many meets? Sounds like envy and sour grapes to me. Just block and ignore them.

There are some people in life which I call psychic vampires in which they enjoy putting people down or hearing other peoples bad news or being uninterested in someone elses good news or just putting a downer on everything. Sort of feeding on negativity. Not nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell them to do on. What you do is your business.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing to do with anyone else hun what you do or who you do it with I say , they dont have to bother if they dont want and why moralis we all adults block em I say this should be fun not have to listen to them wingeing on .......

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks guys, it just kind of annoyed me. That someone woul be that judgemental when I haven't even had a particularly sexually active week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even if u had a diffrent partner every day of the week its no one elses buisness but yours hun sod em and have fun I say ....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Even if u had a diffrent partner every day of the week its no one elses buisness but yours hun sod em and have fun I say ...."

That's so true. I'm probably being over sensitive

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By *r mrs pCouple
over a year ago

taunton


"I received a text saying Iva had too many meets in the last couple of days. Baring in mind the one play date I have had didn't verify me back, I'm spoke that someone could be that judgemental. And he wasn't the first. Since Wednesday I've had 3 socials, one play date, and verified one guy from a meet we had before we got on fab. So one sexual meet is too many o.O"

They are just jealous.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"I received a text saying Iva had too many meets in the last couple of days. Baring in mind the one play date I have had didn't verify me back, I'm spoke that someone could be that judgemental. And he wasn't the first. Since Wednesday I've had 3 socials, one play date, and verified one guy from a meet we had before we got on fab. So one sexual meet is too many o.O"

they are probably looking for a reaction, the best thing you can do is ignore them and do your thing with people who will do their thing with you.

if they become abusive, report.

reaction only feeds them.

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

It's none of their business hon. You are here for you and nobody else. Block them and carry on having fun

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

When somebody tells you that you have had too many meets, I think it means that it's either because you have not met them and have chosen others over them or they just want you to meet them and no one else.

You can meet as many or as little as you feel comfortable with. Don't explain yourself by saying that they were just socials. As hard as you may find it, don't respond and just keep on enjoying yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I say good on you. I havent had many meets since being on here but thats down to my personal circumstance would meet more if i could. use the site how you want and if they are that offended by how many you have met. block them and they wont be able to look anymore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I received a text saying Iva had too many meets in the last couple of days. Baring in mind the one play date I have had didn't verify me back, I'm spoke that someone could be that judgemental. And he wasn't the first. Since Wednesday I've had 3 socials, one play date, and verified one guy from a meet we had before we got on fab. So one sexual meet is too many o.O"

Also once recieved a message basically on the same lines.... I too was quite annoyed for a while, how damn rude, perhaps if theyd have taken the time to actually read our verifications, they would have noticed most are from socialising, and not been so presumptuous having said that didn't stay in my mind for long....

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I received a text saying Iva had too many meets in the last couple of days. Baring in mind the one play date I have had didn't verify me back, I'm spoke that someone could be that judgemental. And he wasn't the first. Since Wednesday I've had 3 socials, one play date, and verified one guy from a meet we had before we got on fab. So one sexual meet is too many o.O"

Don't know why you're taking any notice to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think they are just jealous,

Whats your secret?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Off topic but I LOVE your tattoo x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Off topic but I LOVE your tattoo x"

Thank you.

On topic, I've let it go. At the end of the day it's their loss not mine. Plenty more fabbers on the net.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Off topic but I LOVE your tattoo x

Thank you.

On topic, I've let it go. At the end of the day it's their loss not mine. Plenty more fabbers on the net."
good for you have fun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Off topic but I LOVE your tattoo x

Thank you.

On topic, I've let it go. At the end of the day it's their loss not mine. Plenty more fabbers on the net. good for you have fun x"

love the pants!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like the green eyed monster to me

You do as you like when you like. That's the joys of fab. Enjoy

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh


"Off topic but I LOVE your tattoo x

Thank you.

On topic, I've let it go. At the end of the day it's their loss not mine. Plenty more fabbers on the net."

Good for you.....

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

When i get messages telling me i have had too many meets/ display too many verifications, my response has always been the same:

"Mind your own!"

Followed by a block. Do what's best for you and have your own fun. enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just don't answer and delete the message, you just know that it's either an excuse to not meet you or they are needy or wanting a reaction.

Block the number from your phone if you can and block the profile on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a few thoughts on this.

1) In the OP's position, I wouldn't even respond to the text, let alone put up a forum post about it.

2) I'm not convinced you can make the case that 'it's nobody's business' if you take a conscious decision to make your sexual activity a matter of public record.

3) The person who sent the message is entitled to his opinion; the OP is entitled to ignore it. The sender of the message is well within his rights to eliminate people from his shortlist for whatever reason he chooses, even if you find those criteria unreasonable.

4) Jealous? Possibly. But it's only one of a host of possible reasons the only the sender of the message can answer with any accuracy.

5) If similar messages have been received from several different people (as the OP claims), then it's time for the OP to reassess her selection process.

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