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Need advice on exploring my bi side!!!

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By *irtyDee33 OP   Woman
over a year ago

South Yorkshire

Been thinking how to put this in a way I won't get slated lol

I find myself thinking more and more about being with a woman, I explored it a bit in my early 20's with a friend and my then Boyf! And a couple of other times as a 3sum, now I have always wanted men and always will but I don't want to play with a couple or have an mff, if I was to explore this more I would want it to be just me and the woman!

I just don't know where to start and I'm not sure I want to unblock single women!

Any advice would be great x

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By *irtydanMan
over a year ago

Blackpool

give it a go theres nothing to lose if you dont like it walk away

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By *irtyDee33 OP   Woman
over a year ago

South Yorkshire

Don't know how to start! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to a club, make a friend, get d*unk, snog!

Good luck, we're all counting on you

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By *irtyDee33 OP   Woman
over a year ago

South Yorkshire


"Go to a club, make a friend, get d*unk, snog!

Good luck, we're all counting on you "

Lol hoping for some constructive advice! Now u can see why it took me so long to actually post it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go to a club, make a friend, get d*unk, snog!

Good luck, we're all counting on you

Lol hoping for some constructive advice! Now u can see why it took me so long to actually post it "

LOL come on, you know I can't give you advice on women, they fucking hate me as it is

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By *irtyDee33 OP   Woman
over a year ago

South Yorkshire


"Go to a club, make a friend, get d*unk, snog!

Good luck, we're all counting on you

Lol hoping for some constructive advice! Now u can see why it took me so long to actually post it

LOL come on, you know I can't give you advice on women, they fucking hate me as it is "

Why's that? Lol

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By *bovethekneeCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire / Herefordshire

Why not try a couple but with the agreement that you can spend some time alone with the woman. He can stay downstairs and watch telly or read.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go to a club, make a friend, get d*unk, snog!

Good luck, we're all counting on you

Lol hoping for some constructive advice! Now u can see why it took me so long to actually post it

LOL come on, you know I can't give you advice on women, they fucking hate me as it is

Why's that? Lol"

I don't know lol could be that I don't filter myself, could be that I don't trust half of them, could be that I'm the shape of a frog, hairy, pale and scouse

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By *irtyDee33 OP   Woman
over a year ago

South Yorkshire


"Why not try a couple but with the agreement that you can spend some time alone with the woman. He can stay downstairs and watch telly or read."

Thank u finally something sensible lol I suppose I'd like to meet a lady who knows what she's doing!

Sounds daft I know lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok .... its entirely up to you how you go about it

There are plenty of bi women on here ( single ones) who meet so arrange a social and take it from there

Don't rush into anything - I would advise against meeting couples .. and thats no offence to couples but there is added pressure there especially if you are unsure

Social is the way to go to start

Good luck

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By *irtyDee33 OP   Woman
over a year ago

South Yorkshire


"Ok .... its entirely up to you how you go about it

There are plenty of bi women on here ( single ones) who meet so arrange a social and take it from there

Don't rush into anything - I would advise against meeting couples .. and thats no offence to couples but there is added pressure there especially if you are unsure

Social is the way to go to start

Good luck"

Thank u, I shall think about that x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why not try a couple but with the agreement that you can spend some time alone with the woman. He can stay downstairs and watch telly or read."

I guarantee he will NOT do that!

He will make sounds on the stairs to fool you into thinking he has gone down stairs all the while he will be perving through your keyhole!

But don't let that freak ya out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok .... its entirely up to you how you go about it

There are plenty of bi women on here ( single ones) who meet so arrange a social and take it from there

Don't rush into anything - I would advise against meeting couples .. and thats no offence to couples but there is added pressure there especially if you are unsure

Social is the way to go to start

Good luck"

I'd say find a bi female that you can be mates with. Someone you feel comfortable with and who you're attracted to. Let her know about your curiosity.

If something happens, great. Maybe even if it's just a kiss and you can see if you like it or not.

Good luck x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok .... its entirely up to you how you go about it

There are plenty of bi women on here ( single ones) who meet so arrange a social and take it from there

Don't rush into anything - I would advise against meeting couples .. and thats no offence to couples but there is added pressure there especially if you are unsure

Social is the way to go to start

Good luck

I'd say find a bi female that you can be mates with. Someone you feel comfortable with and who you're attracted to. Let her know about your curiosity.

If something happens, great. Maybe even if it's just a kiss and you can see if you like it or not.

Good luck x"

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

good luck .. go for it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are plenty of lady's on here who just want to meet girls just ask x

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By *irtyDee33 OP   Woman
over a year ago

South Yorkshire


"There are plenty of lady's on here who just want to meet girls just ask x"

Don't want to just go with anyone lol I don't even do that with guys!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am afraid I can't really help.. I would only interact with a woman with my play partner.. as I have no interest as a one on one.

I think you need to just find someone you like and treat it the same you would a guy.

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By *plfromfifeCouple
over a year ago

levenmouth

If you have made any female or cpl friends on here try there as a start. If not I'm sure some of your male companions must have other female friends they could introduce you to. Start with a social meet with no pressure and then take it from there. Good luck xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you could do with finding a nice patient girl that understands that you may have some reservations and may need to stop if you don't like what is happening, most people on here are pretty cool so shouldn't be a problem.

Good luck hope all goes well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

May I ask why you block single fems ? Do you get grief off them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"May I ask why you block single fems ? Do you get grief off them "

I was wondering the same thing?

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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago

Nr Chester

It may be an idea fathoming out exactly what you like the idea doing? Being seduced sub or being more active dom or switch both sub and dom. The whole monty inc kissing appeal ?

Mrs FJ enjoys the sub side with a dom but of course gives her all and in noway bi selfish. Give it some thought, you could always touch on fantasies looking to fulfill whilst in your learning curve. Some girls are ok to the idea of helping experiment. But many aren't. Enjoy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been thinking how to put this in a way I won't get slated lol

I find myself thinking more and more about being with a woman, I explored it a bit in my early 20's with a friend and my then Boyf! And a couple of other times as a 3sum, now I have always wanted men and always will but I don't want to play with a couple or have an mff, if I was to explore this more I would want it to be just me and the woman!

I just don't know where to start and I'm not sure I want to unblock single women!

Any advice would be great x"

I've just recently decided I'd love a female fwb but it's unknown territory. So good luck to you.

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By *IBBWUKWoman
over a year ago

swindon

I prefer to meet a fem on her own. One to one meets. First time I was cacking myself but something I really wanted to do so chatted on line to a women for a while, then met for coffee then met for fun when we was comfortable

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Meet for a social first and see if you are comfortable with them and then follow your heart. If you don't feel right, then you don't need to take it any further. If you let the other party know how things stand, then you won't feel as though you have let them down and vice-versa

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"May I ask why you block single fems ? Do you get grief off them

I was wondering the same thing?"

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