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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've always been sensible about meets and met some nice guys and good friend through fab. Tonight has to be my worst. Hate myself for being stupid and falling for lies

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

oh dear you ok?

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By *uby In StockingsTV/TS
over a year ago

Cheadle

Poor darling, none of us are infallible, pick yourself up and dust yourself off and write it down to experience, hope you're ok hunny, xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's not good to hear, hope your ok x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've always been sensible about meets and met some nice guys and good friend through fab. Tonight has to be my worst. Hate myself for being stupid and falling for lies"

Big hugs lady xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh no so good just hope it doesn't put you off meeting others again

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By *entgardenerMan
over a year ago

Tunbridge wells


"Poor darling, none of us are infallible, pick yourself up and dust yourself off and write it down to experience, hope you're ok hunny, xxx "

Were not all heartless tw**$ an lies through there teeth just to get fun some of us enjoy kaugh an chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've always been sensible about meets and met some nice guys and good friend through fab. Tonight has to be my worst. Hate myself for being stupid and falling for lies"

Sorry to hear that. Hugs xx

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

hope you're ok x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I hope your ok .. Its never nice to hear someone has had a bad experience x big hugs Hx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bad Times dont beat yourself up xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope your ok.and try not to let them put.you off good luck.on future meets xx

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire


"I've always been sensible about meets and met some nice guys and good friend through fab. Tonight has to be my worst. Hate myself for being stupid and falling for lies"

we have all fell for lies

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks all much appreciated xx

Those who mentioned future meets,to be honest yeah prob has put me off meeting new men. Maybe only for while but certainly will be even more cautious than I am. That's twice in a week I've trusted someone and been proved wrong. Will be letting others decide for me in future

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Thanks all much appreciated xx

Those who mentioned future meets,to be honest yeah prob has put me off meeting new men. Maybe only for while but certainly will be even more cautious than I am. That's twice in a week I've trusted someone and been proved wrong. Will be letting others decide for me in future

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So sorry to hear, lying is so damaging, it really slashes us inside.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a couple of bad experiences, including one who went round slagging me off. Take a short break then come back fighting, I've since met men who restored my faith.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've always been sensible about meets and met some nice guys and good friend through fab. Tonight has to be my worst. Hate myself for being stupid and falling for lies"
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It has happened to all of us at some point do not let the idiots ruin your fun sugar, chin up xx

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire


"Thanks all much appreciated xx

Those who mentioned future meets,to be honest yeah prob has put me off meeting new men. Maybe only for while but certainly will be even more cautious than I am. That's twice in a week I've trusted someone and been proved wrong. Will be letting others decide for me in future

So sorry to hear, lying is so damaging, it really slashes us inside."

very true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks all much appreciated xx

Those who mentioned future meets,to be honest yeah prob has put me off meeting new men. Maybe only for while but certainly will be even more cautious than I am. That's twice in a week I've trusted someone and been proved wrong. Will be letting others decide for me in future

Many of us have been there EVEN guys. It happens! All you can do is lick your wounds and when ready try again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear that. Hope you're ok x

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"Thanks all much appreciated xx

Those who mentioned future meets,to be honest yeah prob has put me off meeting new men. Maybe only for while but certainly will be even more cautious than I am. That's twice in a week I've trusted someone and been proved wrong. Will be letting others decide for me in future

"

Sorry to hear that, but maybe look at whether the 2 instances had anything in common and if you can tweak your selection process...why would you let someone else decide for you in future? That sounds like a recipe for disaster to me. Best of luck

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By *irtyDee33Woman
over a year ago

South Yorkshire

So sorry Hun, it's happened to me before too, a couple of times!

Like others have said, take a break, spend time away from here- gain your strength and come back when you're ready xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single guy I seriously mean it and apologise on behalf of the guys on fab giving other guys bad name. It takes a while getting used to but you only learn how to filter out the genuine ones after having a bad meet or experience, as even I as a single guy on fab has found out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so sorry to hear

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By *bbwlizWoman
over a year ago

oldham

Sorry to hear you had a bad meet. I've had a few bad ones myself, and I found myself put off for a while too.

It may help you to feel better, by letting a friend know who your meeting, and have them call you, to see where and how you are. You could have a secret code word to use if you felt uneasy and want to go. I would even tell the guy, before meeting, that you always tell a friend the profile name of your meet, as for your safety. Any genuine person, wouldn't be bothered by that, but hopefully anyone dodgy would be put off.

Take your time, as you will need to feel back on form to go out and meet again. There isn't any rush.

Big hugs going out to you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for concern everyone. I've calmed about it and decided take a break from new meets. Have hidden my profile(I think) will still be online as I like forums and have friends chat to on here so will still be on.

All messages much appreciated xx

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


" Have hidden my profile(I think) "

Nope

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" Have hidden my profile(I think)

Nope "

Thanks. Now? X

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you wanna chat hun send a message and ill give you my number xx

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Thanks all much appreciated xx

Those who mentioned future meets,to be honest yeah prob has put me off meeting new men. Maybe only for while but certainly will be even more cautious than I am. That's twice in a week I've trusted someone and been proved wrong. Will be letting others decide for me in future

Sorry to hear that, but maybe look at whether the 2 instances had anything in common and if you can tweak your selection process...why would you let someone else decide for you in future? That sounds like a recipe for disaster to me. Best of luck "

Agree 100%, especially about letting someone else decide in future.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thanks all much appreciated xx

Those who mentioned future meets,to be honest yeah prob has put me off meeting new men. Maybe only for while but certainly will be even more cautious than I am. That's twice in a week I've trusted someone and been proved wrong. Will be letting others decide for me in future

Sorry to hear that, but maybe look at whether the 2 instances had anything in common and if you can tweak your selection process...why would you let someone else decide for you in future? That sounds like a recipe for disaster to me. Best of luck

Agree 100%, especially about letting someone else decide in future."

I've made bad choices and my judgements not good where as friend on fab is always spot on. He said from start not to meet guy other night but I decided to go for it and all went wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks all much appreciated xx

Those who mentioned future meets,to be honest yeah prob has put me off meeting new men. Maybe only for while but certainly will be even more cautious than I am. That's twice in a week I've trusted someone and been proved wrong. Will be letting others decide for me in future

Sorry to hear that, but maybe look at whether the 2 instances had anything in common and if you can tweak your selection process...why would you let someone else decide for you in future? That sounds like a recipe for disaster to me. Best of luck

Agree 100%, especially about letting someone else decide in future.

I've made bad choices and my judgements not good where as friend on fab is always spot on. He said from start not to meet guy other night but I decided to go for it and all went wrong "

Hug x

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


" Have hidden my profile(I think)

Nope

Thanks. Now? X"

Yep

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