FabSwingers.com forum: to many meets??

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have had a women local to me and tell me that i need to calm down, that women (her) wont meet men that i have met, and that i meet far to many men and have a name on fab. Being as i have been on fab for over 3 yrs now and only have 30 verifs on display, is it really to much compared to profiles with verifs in the 400s? my opinion is that it is only my business, if she doesnt meet men i have thats down to her but is there any need to tell me? and is it her business who i see, and i dont know if im missing something but i thought this was a swinging site?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to there own, just ignore her and carry enjoying fab the way you see fit.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

why do you react to what others say....

do your thing with people who will do their thing with you....

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Do what you like and meet who you like; why should anyone judge what you do ?

Ignore her, in fact I would block her, and if someone refuses to meet you because you have met other people; then that's up to them.

Use fab as you wish, not as others think you should.

Most of my 'meet' verifications are from socials I have attended and not 'sex'; but that's what I choose to do.

No one else's business; just enjoy fab in your way !!

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By *rmstrong7Couple
over a year ago

newcastle

It's your life and your old enough to know what your doing,

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

30 veris / 3 years = not even a meet a month.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm happy with the men i meet and the fun i have, even if i saw a profile i thought may have to many meets which i would as its not my place to judge them i certainly wouldn't message to tell them so.

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

meet who you like I got told to calm down too a while back actual words were I would fuck any man with a pulse! who cares not me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She is right about you havin a name on fab tho...........

Its lollypopple

Ignore her and enjoy ya life

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"meet who you like I got told to calm down too a while back actual words were I would fuck any man with a pulse! who cares not me"

ha ha not just a pulse, fit young body, great cock and no hassle. works for me. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life is as they say "a box of chocolates" in this situation you have picked up a few and put them back in the box and she's does not like the ones you have handled..... Plenty more for you!!!!!

Enjoy yourself and and remember its all about your pleasure and no one else's

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

"meet who you like I got told to calm down too a while back actual words were I would fuck any man with a pulse! who cares not me

ha ha not just a pulse, fit young body, great cock and no hassle. works for me. lol

yeah they shouldn't all be so fit its not our fault!! lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"meet who you like I got told to calm down too a while back actual words were I would fuck any man with a pulse! who cares not me

ha ha not just a pulse, fit young body, great cock and no hassle. works for me. lol

yeah they shouldn't all be so fit its not our fault!! lol"

I know and if they are yummy seems very rude to say no..lol

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meet who u want.. people got to remember no one has any right to tell others how to live their lifes.. as long as ur happy why gave a fck about how others with the syndrome of narrowmindness thinks.. only one person in this world can judge me and that is me..xxxx

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

people in monogonous relationships who don't want to share shouldn't be on here .... meet away

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"I have had a women local to me and tell me that i need to calm down, that women (her) wont meet men that i have met, and that i meet far to many men and have a name on fab. Being as i have been on fab for over 3 yrs now and only have 30 verifs on display, is it really to much compared to profiles with verifs in the 400s? my opinion is that it is only my business, if she doesnt meet men i have thats down to her but is there any need to tell me? and is it her business who i see, and i dont know if im missing something but i thought this was a swinging site?

no offence.. i'd just tell them where they can stick it!!!... and thats the non "48hrs on the naughty step" version....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

on my single profile, I have 57 veri's showing and 63 meets. Way too many for some, but if they read them, they'd see that 90% of them are social meets.

Block her and continue to meet and use fab as you wish.

Miss P xx

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By *oulou45Woman
over a year ago

Bucks

How many meets are to many? . Maybe she's a tad jealous of you. Either way don't let it worry you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm just gonna carry on having my fun my way.

I'm enjoying myself and so are the men i meet that's enough for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was told by a man not to meet any men a certain woman had met (should have taken his advice and not met him as he has probably said the same about me) my theory is that some gossip about others to try and win brownie points with the opposite sex.

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

bedford

You only live once so feck enjoys it while you can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I wouldn't meet a man of here if he been with the fab bike. Someone who has lots of veris

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope people don't talk bout me way that woman treated u. 8 meets in 5 months though mine mostly mmf so adds up faster.

Think as long as ur happy with who and how many meet who cares about one narrow minded person thinks. Particularly as u say lot ur meets are socials so hardly like its bad thing.

As others say 30 in 3 years is not even 1 a month. Is she saying she's not met 10 new people in a year? I think not

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have seen profiles with hundreds more verifs than mine, and thats fine as they are enjoying what they do, and no one has the right to judge them. There is no room for small minded jealous people on fab. I'm going to carry on enjoying my time on fab for however long that may be.

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

"Personally I wouldn't meet a man of here if he been with the fab bike. Someone who has lots of veris "

i don't have that many veris lol some men are as bad too

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Personally I wouldn't meet a man of here if he been with the fab bike. Someone who has lots of veris

i don't have that many veris lol some men are as bad too"

how many is alot? who is anyone to say how many is to many?

some of mine are verifs when someone has returned with new profile so verif me i do the same in return, but still, its no one elses business.

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

"Personally I wouldn't meet a man of here if he been with the fab bike. Someone who has lots of veris

i don't have that many veris lol some men are as bad too

how many is alot? who is anyone to say how many is to many?

some of mine are verifs when someone has returned with new profile so verif me i do the same in return, but still, its no one elses business."

im more a tricycle lol

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"Personally I wouldn't meet a man of here if he been with the fab bike. Someone who has lots of veris "

How many veris do you need to become a 'fab bike'?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally I wouldn't meet a man of here if he been with the fab bike. Someone who has lots of veris

How many veris do you need to become a 'fab bike'?

dont know.. but I will tell you when I get there.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"Personally I wouldn't meet a man of here if he been with the fab bike. Someone who has lots of veris

How many veris do you need to become a 'fab bike'?

dont know.. but I will tell you when I get there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally I wouldn't meet a man of here if he been with the fab bike. Someone who has lots of veris

How many veris do you need to become a 'fab bike'?

dont know.. but I will tell you when I get there.

You cant beat a fab bike it rides for miles

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

There are quite a few ladies who wouldnt meet men who are veried on other ladies profiles. They will say dont show the veri or you wont get other meets.. lol..;)

I think each to their own..the fact people have 30 displayed doesnt mean they dont have 100 private ones.

You are here to meet so carry on its no one else's business. There will always be a cross over of guys if you live in a similar area.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally I wouldn't meet a man of here if he been with the fab bike. Someone who has lots of veris "

What a very narrow minded thing to say. It amazes me how many people forget we are on a NSA sex site to have sex. I don't give a flying fook about veris either way because I allow people to get on a do what they want without the need to judge them by what someone else has said about them or in fact what loads and loads and loads of other people have said about them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if I see a lot of veri's I look at the people who have written them, it can be very off putting, I prefer discretion, and would never verify or expect a verification,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

to be honest we are all here for one thing. if you are Looking to be that Special one person for Someone then unless they want that too,this is not the place for you. sure i wont meet people who have met certain Others but thats for Other reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm just gonna carry on having my fun my way.

I'm enjoying myself and so are the men i meet that's enough for me.

Good for you!

Ignore the idiot and don't let her get on your nerves!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1.Some people say things just to get a reaction.

2. Some people need to remember we are on Fabswingers not frigging Facebook!

3. Last but no means least. Why anyone would need to justify themselves to anyone on here amazes me!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people Do like to judge on numbers,,find it pityful that someone wouldnt meet a man i have met,im a single woman WHO enjoys Sex,without the relationship/emotional attachment,im not ashamed to Show my summary,i Show abt ten of Most recent verifications as too many to read otherwise,

if u did read u would see sum are play most are Party organisers and Social at clubs or partys,and alot people dont bother verifying so would have loads more if i went round asking for them,which i don't x i

I best get cycling of this thread lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"meet who you like I got told to calm down too a while back actual words were I would fuck any man with a pulse! who cares not me"
love it

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

"meet who you like I got told to calm down too a while back actual words were I would fuck any man with a pulse! who cares not me love it "

wanna know my reply? not everyone ..wouldn't fuck you ever again!!!!! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only time I might be put off is if the veris went into graphic details

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The only time I might be put off is if the veris went into graphic details "
Oh oh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"if I see a lot of veri's I look at the people who have written them, it can be very off putting, I prefer discretion, and would never verify or expect a verification,"

As is your preference.

Others _iew it as useful info!

* or lack of!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally I wouldn't meet a man of here if he been with the fab bike. Someone who has lots of veris "

So how many is lots...?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So you have been here 3 yrs, 30 verifications which is 10 meets per year and she thinks that's too many

perhaps in reality she is jealous as you are getting meets and she isn't or wants to meet someone you have but they won't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"if I see a lot of veri's I look at the people who have written them, it can be very off putting, I prefer discretion, and would never verify or expect a verification,

As is your preference.

Others _iew it as useful info!

* or lack of!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there are a lot of people on here who fantasise about meeting but when the offer's there haven't got the bottle.

So they come up with an excuse why they won't.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think there are a lot of people on here who fantasise about meeting but when the offer's there haven't got the bottle.

So they come up with an excuse why they won't."

doesn't justify them giving other people hassle when they actually do want to meet though..lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a few of my meets tell me people have said they won't meet them because I've verified them.

It's sad but it happens.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've had a few of my meets tell me people have said they won't meet them because I've verified them.

It's sad but it happens. "

It's pathetic really, kinda goes against what the site is about. I'm not bothered to be fair, its not gonna stop me having fun this weekend and putting verif up when i do.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Seems to me that there's a fair bit of jealousy and cattiness going on here. It's her problem, not yours.

Very strange behaviour on what is, basically, a sex site. Also, seems like she cannot actually handle the promiscuous nature of this way of life and so feels the need to draw comparisons with others and put them down to build herself up.

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By *sa fun bradfordMan
over a year ago

bradford/leeds

my Mother would of said one meet is too many! I say live and live were all over 18 and can think for are self's "well some of us" so one meet or a thousand who cares as long as your having fun! that's what were all here for Right!!

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"on my single profile, I have 57 veri's showing and 63 meets. Way too many for some, but if they read them, they'd see that 90% of them are social meets.

Block her and continue to meet and use fab as you wish.

Miss P xx"

I have quite a few - and only one is a social meet!

Anyone got anything to say about it can pucker up whilst I bend over.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

you just keep meeting who you like and dont take any notice .. i ll have to wear a cock ring to keep up with you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would never refuse to meet someone just because they have had loads of meets. We love swinging and love meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"on my single profile, I have 57 veri's showing and 63 meets. Way too many for some, but if they read them, they'd see that 90% of them are social meets.

Block her and continue to meet and use fab as you wish.

Miss P xx

I have quite a few - and only one is a social meet!

Anyone got anything to say about it can pucker up whilst I bend over."

You're already bent over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm always amazed at complete strangers so concerned about other peoples personal lives that they feel the need to voice their opinion. my mom taught me that you never tell anyone what to do with their life unless you are specifically asked for your opinion. I hope you didn't waste your time with a reply.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

people feel the need to justify their choices all the time on here...

and many ask others to do so....

I will do neither.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a bit of a non- event TBH. It's a swinging / meet for sex site and people are getting arsey about other strangers meeting people they don't know?

Can't we build a bridge...and get over it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See now I'm a stubborn awkward bitch and would probably make a point of looking at her veri's and friends and setting a mini mission to meet any fitties just to wind her up...childish I know but simple things amuse me!

I'm almost jealous that I haven't had such a message...must try harder to try to get to bike status. Some people really need to get a grip and focus on their own fun instead of worrying about how other people enjoy themselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Over a period of a few years you are bound to build up verifications if you are using the site probably by meeting people etc

What do people expect - your profile to self explode and disappear upon reaching a critical number of veris

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's none of anyones' business how many meets you have. And besides how can get a reputation on a swingers site...lmfao!!

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London

Some people really are just fecking weirdos. That is all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I second that lol

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Just do what YOU want, you're a grown up, it's site for adults wanting sex, not the fab bible study group.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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perhaps someone told her she wasn't as good as you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had a few of my meets tell me people have said they won't meet them because I've verified them.

It's sad but it happens. "

I've even been told that girls have told my meets that unless they stop seeing me they will block them- hence remove their veri

Some seriously warped people on here

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"I've had a few of my meets tell me people have said they won't meet them because I've verified them.

It's sad but it happens.

I've even been told that girls have told my meets that unless they stop seeing me they will block them- hence remove their veri

Some seriously warped people on here

It's a well known medical condition called 'Bonkers In The Nut.'

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Sounds more like marking territory to me.

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By *agxteamMan
over a year ago

norwich

I find I only post a few. And some of my meets I ask not to give sny feed back. Since useing viaga when I have no need of it. It gives you 4 or 5 hours. Of shaging all night in stead of one or two shags a night. I am now geting meet from other sites and phone calls from femails. Who have been given my number. The 26 year old I had last week orgasmed 6 times and I am old. I feal I wood love a reg femail in norwich I could have fealings about. Live lifeto the full cliff

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By *orny69pussyCouple
over a year ago

Tonbridge

"Personally I wouldn't meet a man of here if he been with the fab bike. Someone who has lots of veris "

Surely on a swinger site.. nobody should be labelled a 'fab bike'!?

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By *plfromfifeCouple
over a year ago

levenmouth

Have fun and fuck as many people as you want. It's swinging after all. As for how many is too many, when you start to go bandy legged and can't walk straight, you have probably hit a limit.

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Lollypopply you do have a hard time with other people don't you? Particularly women. I remember your other thread from the other day.

I have no idea why someone who take the time to message someone the message you received. It is very odd indeed. Too much time on her hands.

I like sex and I like lots of it. Unfortunately I do not have a regular partner, so have seen quite a few guys. Probably too much in some people's eyes. But do I really care what a stranger thinks of me? NO

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally I wouldn't meet a man of here if he been with the fab bike. Someone who has lots of veris

Surely on a swinger site.. nobody should be labelled a 'fab bike'!?

Absolutely , but some will always judge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's your business , not hers , it's a swinging site. Not quite sure what her motive is. Crack on

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Very odd that people are on here making judgements such as 'bike' or inferring that women who have taken control of their sexuality are slappers/slags/tarts or whatever. Are they so virtuous themselves being on here? Or are they struggling to reconcile that part of their lives with the feeling that 'good' women should be virtuous? Seems to me that these are the type to loudly protest at how 'fussy' they are as if the rest of us are somehow failing as women and are not fussy; we'll just shag anything.

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By *arnaclebillMan
over a year ago

Robin Hood County

Just block her and you won't hear from her again. She's probably jealous

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By *orny69pussyCouple
over a year ago

Tonbridge

"Personally I wouldn't meet a man of here if he been with the fab bike. Someone who has lots of veris

Surely on a swinger site.. nobody should be labelled a 'fab bike'!?

Absolutely , but some will always judge

Yea

Ignore them, they're jealous that they aint having as much fun as you!!

Think I am too lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Lollypopply you do have a hard time with other people don't you? Particularly women. I remember your other thread from the other day.

I have no idea why someone who take the time to message someone the message you received. It is very odd indeed. Too much time on her hands.keep doing it.

I seem to have made one avid enemy for what reason i dont know but suspect its that green eyed monster and im taking full advice on that one and ignoring anything she does coz she is insane as they come and i have found out its not just me she aims in towards.

As for having to many meets, well i also love sex, and dont want a regular partner and get a kick from meeting new people and having sex with different people, slaggy, slutty or a bike? well who knows but i enjoy it so i'm gonna keep doing it.

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

lolly block or report her if shes being abusive

you seem very similar to me lol so on yer bike jealous women lol

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"Personally I wouldn't meet a man of here if he been with the fab bike. Someone who has lots of veris

Surely on a swinger site.. nobody should be labelled a 'fab bike'!?

No woman should be referred to as a bike anyway. What are we? Adolescents?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Some women are just pure crazy, but fuck them, i'm gonna carry on oiling up and not let this bike get rusty!!!!

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By *ill.willMan
over a year ago

It's your vagina do what you want with it I say!

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

"Personally I wouldn't meet a man of here if he been with the fab bike. Someone who has lots of veris

Surely on a swinger site.. nobody should be labelled a 'fab bike'!?

No woman should be referred to as a bike anyway. What are we? Adolescents? "

bikes are the best mode of transport lol

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By *orny69pussyCouple
over a year ago

Tonbridge

Keep that bike well oiled honey :D xx

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"Lollypopply you do have a hard time with other people don't you? Particularly women. I remember your other thread from the other day.

I have no idea why someone who take the time to message someone the message you received. It is very odd indeed. Too much time on her hands.keep doing it.

I am really sorry but why are you keeping reacting to someone who is clearly causing you problems, last week you had a post and you had an offensive update about her.

people gave feedback suggesting reporting, then ignoring people is the best way forward.Labelling others as insane is only going to get a reaction.

it is like you are thriving on the drama.

sorry if that is harsh

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Lollypopply you do have a hard time with other people don't you? Particularly women. I remember your other thread from the other day.

I have no idea why someone who take the time to message someone the message you received. It is very odd indeed. Too much time on her hands.keep doing it.

I am really sorry but why are you keeping reacting to someone who is clearly causing you problems, last week you had a post and you had an offensive update about her.

people gave feedback suggesting reporting, then ignoring people is the best way forward.Labelling others as insane is only going to get a reaction.

it is like you are thriving on the drama.

sorry if that is harsh"

yes it is harsh i dont thrive on someone sending me abuse or threatening me with social services but i also will NOT bow down to bullies of any kind.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

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"Lollypopply you do have a hard time with other people don't you? Particularly women. I remember your other thread from the other day.

I have no idea why someone who take the time to message someone the message you received. It is very odd indeed. Too much time on her hands.keep doing it.

I am really sorry but why are you keeping reacting to someone who is clearly causing you problems, last week you had a post and you had an offensive update about her.

people gave feedback suggesting reporting, then ignoring people is the best way forward.Labelling others as insane is only going to get a reaction.

it is like you are thriving on the drama.

sorry if that is harsh

yes it is harsh i dont thrive on someone sending me abuse or threatening me with social services but i also will NOT bow down to bullies of any kind. "

as you wish

all the best for the future

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i wud tell her to ---- off and mind her own business!sum cheek!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ignore her had the same, it's not like the men are walking in and out of your house in a gimp mask is it, just ignore block and enjoy yourself x

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over a year ago

You could always hide your verification summary and your published meets. Or just put up your best 10 or somethin. Not that you need to, its none of her business how many people you've met. We hide ours so new potential meets cant contact them as we've heard some horror stories and don't believe it's anyone's business who we've met previously!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You could always hide your verification summary and your published meets. Or just put up your best 10 or somethin. Not that you need to, its none of her business how many people you've met. We hide ours so new potential meets cant contact them as we've heard some horror stories and don't believe it's anyone's business who we've met previously!"

Dont have summary on as she would really go to town, i tend to keep under 30 shown and swap them round sometimes, but i should have to hide or justify anything, its crazy.

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over a year ago

Dont have summary on as she would really go to town, i tend to keep under 30 shown and swap them round sometimes, but i should have to hide or justify anything, its crazy.

So then don't hide or try to justify...do what you want to do and just block her so there can be no veri checking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh dear I'm happy to share or recommend any hot tot ties with my Fab girlfriends. I would wink all her friends and veris x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Oh dear I'm happy to share or recommend any hot tot ties with my Fab girlfriends. I would wink all her friends and veris x"

I did consider that before i blocked her but her friends are men i have said no thanks to so she can keep them..lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

did I miss the point. she wants you to slow down so she can get there first?

block this one and don't waste your time.

meet who you want when you want have fun happy swinging

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Dont have summary on as she would really go to town, i tend to keep under 30 shown and swap them round sometimes, but i should have to hide or justify anything, its crazy.

So then don't hide or try to justify...do what you want to do and just block her so there can be no veri checking"

I would allow no one to make me change my behaviour on here or anywhere else.

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Dont have summary on as she would really go to town, i tend to keep under 30 shown and swap them round sometimes, but i should have to hide or justify anything, its crazy.

So then don't hide or try to justify...do what you want to do and just block her so there can be no veri checking

I would allow no one to make me change my behaviour on here or anywhere else. "

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By *arandjasCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

i love the fact that she was told she is getting a "reputation" on a sex site, me, personally icouldnt care less if someone has 1 meet or a 1000, if we get on with them and they with us, and decide to meet, thats my business, no-one else's, and as for the person who told her, that smacks of jealousy to me, i would just keep enjoying myself and leave her to get on with it

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