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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wont my first meet keep getting let downs starting to think site is rubbish depessed ideas

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

if people continually get let down, they need to re_iew their selection criteria

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Any ideas please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish you all the best in your future endeavours

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"if people continually get let down, they need to re_iew their selection criteria

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Ive done loads but still no meets keep thinking mabe my pics are let down

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I wish you all the best in your future endeavours "

Cheers

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

sell yourself better, what you bring to a meet, what you are seeking.

what make you stand out from the rest, your unique selling point

good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wont my first meet keep getting let downs starting to think site is rubbish depessed ideas "

Plenty of people meet on here... The site isn't rubbish.

Look a little closer to home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

take a look at those that are successful and compare their profiles with your own.

you only get what you put in.

its like a bucket.

put some shit in a bucket and wait a week, see what you get out of it.

will still be shit, just maybe a different colour, and a bit harder, but you get my point

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wish you all the best in your future endeavours

Cheers "

But ... Let me be more constructive.

You don't have anything written in your profile as to what you want, and what you have to offer.

Explain what why you are here, and when messaging try to be conversational and not demanding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

read other profiles and make an effort with yours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wont my first meet keep getting let downs starting to think site is rubbish depessed ideas "

Your profile says absolutely nothing about yourself, what you like sexually, who you find attractive, what you would like to try with females etc...

You need to look at some other (successful) men's profiles to get an ideas...

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Wont my first meet keep getting let downs starting to think site is rubbish depessed ideas "

i think for 6 weeks and coming up with that conclusion your expectations are way too high....

you get out what you put in..... you used more words in that post than you had in your shop window to the world....

time, patience, basic common sense...

I'm sorry, but only giving it 6 weeks and coming to the conclusion you have says to be you haven't given it time, or shown any patience....

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish


"Wont my first meet keep getting let downs starting to think site is rubbish depessed ideas

Plenty of people meet on here... The site isn't rubbish.

Look a little closer to home."
As the couple say it's not rubbish, it's down to the user. Make the effort, sitting behind a keyboard moaning is not going to help you. Your profile is poor though you might want to re think it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP you have only been on the site for six weeks.... That's not a very long time, this site works well if you use the tools that are put in place for you!

Think about your profile.... Are you selling yourself? There are many more single guys on here than there is couples and single females, so you need to make yourself stand out!

Use the forums for banter, get yourself along to a social or even a club!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"take a look at those that are successful and compare their profiles with your own.

you only get what you put in.

its like a bucket.

put some shit in a bucket and wait a week, see what you get out of it.

will still be shit, just maybe a different colour, and a bit harder, but you get my point"

What a moronic example!!!! Shit in a bucket!!!!! So bad it's funny

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By *anatee175Couple
over a year ago

Sunderland

Like everyone has already said it's your profile. It says nothing of who you are. What your looking for slim females or bbw females or anything you'd like to try like mmf or whatever it is that floats your boat. You need patience lots of patience. Have fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"take a look at those that are successful and compare their profiles with your own.

you only get what you put in.

its like a bucket.

put some shit in a bucket and wait a week, see what you get out of it.

will still be shit, just maybe a different colour, and a bit harder, but you get my point

What a moronic example!!!! Shit in a bucket!!!!! So bad it's funny "

well its hardly going to be a serious suggestion is it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wont my first meet keep getting let downs starting to think site is rubbish depessed ideas "
if its rubbish to you

then why are you still here

an moaning about it wont get you any were either

good luck what you decided

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"take a look at those that are successful and compare their profiles with your own.

you only get what you put in.

its like a bucket.

put some shit in a bucket and wait a week, see what you get out of it.

will still be shit, just maybe a different colour, and a bit harder, but you get my point

What a moronic example!!!! Shit in a bucket!!!!! So bad it's funny

well its hardly going to be a serious suggestion is it "

Not from you lol

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By *awkeye and HotlipsCouple
over a year ago

Takeley

The site isn't rubbish, however, the consistent thread that just by being on here guarantees getting your leg over is laughable. If you haven't openly said it, you're thinking about it. Why should being on here be any different to the Vanilla world. People want to meet interesting ( and attractive, and everyone has a different take on what's attractive ) play partners. What ever happened to a little intrigue, humour and persistence! Tailor your profile and pictures to reflect that and perhaps you may have a different _iew. A suggestion....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The site isn't rubbish, however, the consistent thread that just by being on here guarantees getting your leg over is laughable. If you haven't openly said it, you're thinking about it. Why should being on here be any different to the Vanilla world. People want to meet interesting ( and attractive, and everyone has a different take on what's attractive ) play partners. What ever happened to a little intrigue, humour and persistence! Tailor your profile and pictures to reflect that and perhaps you may have a different _iew. A suggestion.... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wont my first meet keep getting let downs starting to think site is rubbish depessed ideas "

I cant believe you posted this with a profile that bad

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you all i may stick at it and need to put more i know thanks

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

A one line profile and two spelling mistakes. You're just not trying fella.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The site isn't rubbish, however, the consistent thread that just by being on here guarantees getting your leg over is laughable. If you haven't openly said it, you're thinking about it. Why should being on here be any different to the Vanilla world. People want to meet interesting ( and attractive, and everyone has a different take on what's attractive ) play partners. What ever happened to a little intrigue, humour and persistence! Tailor your profile and pictures to reflect that and perhaps you may have a different _iew. A suggestion.... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wont my first meet keep getting let downs starting to think site is rubbish depessed ideas "

Come to the gym with me fella n well go on the pull bush bash bosh MMF!!! Job done problem solved and the world is at piece

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some may disagree with us, but your spelling would put us off...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If i was meeting and you messaged me i would reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

l have to agree with some of the others. Your profile needs work. Your spelling needs work. Are you being pro-active? There's a lot of women who like younger men on here. Be polite. I am in a similar area to you and have meets, but it takes time. This may be a sex site, but like everything you get out, what you put in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im getting so sick of these profile threads! Have you ever thought its not your profile an just you as a person? You could have the best looking profile in the world but if when it comes to speaking to another person you cant string 2 sentences together then that could be your problem, i have an average profile, little about myself as a person and what id like to get out of this aswell as what i have to offer, a few simple pics,send half decemt messages and i habe no problem at all, yeah i get knocked back just as Much as any other guy but i dont pester them after or give abuse back, just move on and find someone who thinks on your wavelength, youve been on here a few weeks and calling the site shit when its been around since you thought swinging meant at the playground

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im a right stud just copy mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im a right stud just copy mine "

This made me chuckle!! in all seriousness, yours is a pretty good profile, aside from the fact that you seem to live in a bathroom!!

lighthearted, informative and a big plus for me is humour. OP you could glean a lot from reading profiles such as this. Best of luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im a right stud just copy mine

This made me chuckle!! in all seriousness, yours is a pretty good profile, aside from the fact that you seem to live in a bathroom!!

lighthearted, informative and a big plus for me is humour. OP you could glean a lot from reading profiles such as this. Best of luck "
They did actually let me out the bathroom.for a full 20 mins on tuesday

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish


"Im getting so sick of these profile threads! Have you ever thought its not your profile an just you as a person? You could have the best looking profile in the world but if when it comes to speaking to another person you cant string 2 sentences together then that could be your problem, i have an average profile, little about myself as a person and what id like to get out of this aswell as what i have to offer, a few simple pics,send half decemt messages and i habe no problem at all, yeah i get knocked back just as Much as any other guy but i dont pester them after or give abuse back, just move on and find someone who thinks on your wavelength, youve been on here a few weeks and calling the site shit when its been around since you thought swinging meant at the playground"
Totally agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"take a look at those that are successful and compare their profiles with your own.

you only get what you put in.

its like a bucket.

put some shit in a bucket and wait a week, see what you get out of it.

will still be shit, just maybe a different colour, and a bit harder, but you get my point"

ohhh its a scat forum , ok mine are hard at the moment xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im a right stud just copy mine

This made me chuckle!! in all seriousness, yours is a pretty good profile, aside from the fact that you seem to live in a bathroom!!

lighthearted, informative and a big plus for me is humour. OP you could glean a lot from reading profiles such as this. Best of luck They did actually let me out the bathroom.for a full 20 mins on tuesday "

bet they didn't let you take off that fetching white coat you wear though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im a right stud just copy mine

This made me chuckle!! in all seriousness, yours is a pretty good profile, aside from the fact that you seem to live in a bathroom!!

lighthearted, informative and a big plus for me is humour. OP you could glean a lot from reading profiles such as this. Best of luck They did actually let me out the bathroom.for a full 20 mins on tuesday

bet they didn't let you take off that fetching white coat you wear though! "
No true . Said it was cold on the landing and i should leave it on and tied up at the back . Bless em they do look after me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok, I'll start by saying I'm by no means a sex god, but I have had meets, and some awesome ones at that. Your profile is what is letting you down. Your pictures are average at best, you can not accommodate You are not verified and you have no text on your profile. You are up against it as it is with the amount of single guys on here. Get yourself verified even if it's on a webcam, get to a club speak to people and be proactive in your search. Don't send generic "fancy a fuck messages", show interest in peoples profiles and tailor your messages towards it, this will show you've read it. Make your pics interesting and change them regularly, this will catch eyes. This is your shop window so dress it accordingly! You need to stand out from the thousands of bland profiles, which I'm affraid at the minute is the category you are falling in to. Also run your text through spell checker, Havant is where you live. You haven't had a meet! All the best grasshopper!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im a right stud just copy mine

This made me chuckle!! in all seriousness, yours is a pretty good profile, aside from the fact that you seem to live in a bathroom!!

lighthearted, informative and a big plus for me is humour. OP you could glean a lot from reading profiles such as this. Best of luck They did actually let me out the bathroom.for a full 20 mins on tuesday

bet they didn't let you take off that fetching white coat you wear though! No true . Said it was cold on the landing and i should leave it on and tied up at the back . Bless em they do look after me

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no wonder you're a 'right stud' - there you go OP, a bit of forum banter goes a long way! Here endeth the lesson

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Wont my first meet keep getting let downs starting to think site is rubbish depessed ideas

Come to the gym with me fella n well go on the pull bush bash bosh MMF!!! Job done problem solved and the world is at piece "

Lol defo bish bash bosh a real good nosh

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Jedi Mind Tricks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any ideas please"

I know a few guys bring a selection of toys along to meets and discuss this with the ladies. Things like vibrators, anal beads and cuffs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Been doing little work on profile so hope ok also need to know if pics are bad as I don't won't bad pics lol like they are all in bathroom after had a hot steamy shower for some reason they are all in bathroom don't know why tho cheers for the observation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cut down on the pics, have one torso one face and maybe a bum pic. Definitely ditch the tongue one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definition of madness is to keep doing the same things and expect different results. Switch it up a bit - different pics, different words, different areas?

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Run a spell check over your profile text and consider the virtue of the full stop.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the way his address is built into his complaint .

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