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By *othingButCocoChanel OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Is it possible to stop people from a certain distance contacting you?

Im fed up of randoms popping up who i have never spoke to, who live 100+ miles away and add me as a friend or wink:| arghhhhh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why let them bother you , don't delete the wink they can't do it again, if you don't actually click add a friend they won't become your friend. Leave the invite there they can't do it again. Put something in your profile along the lines of , if you are 100's miles away then sorry but I won't answer messages as it's too far and then hit delete if you get a message like that.

Sit back and relax

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Why let them bother you , don't delete the wink they can't do it again, if you don't actually click add a friend they won't become your friend. Leave the invite there they can't do it again. Put something in your profile along the lines of , if you are 100's miles away then sorry but I won't answer messages as it's too far and then hit delete if you get a message like that.

Sit back and relax "

They obviously havent even bothered to read my profile as i already have it saying dont try add me or wink..it just annoys me its constant every day from clowns that dont bother to even read my profile

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

Why even bother looking at your winks or friends invites. I have over 200 winks and friend invites, I don't even bother looking unless someone I'm chatting to says they've sent me a friends invite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why let them bother you , don't delete the wink they can't do it again, if you don't actually click add a friend they won't become your friend. Leave the invite there they can't do it again. Put something in your profile along the lines of , if you are 100's miles away then sorry but I won't answer messages as it's too far and then hit delete if you get a message like that.

Sit back and relax

They obviously havent even bothered to read my profile as i already have it saying dont try add me or wink..it just annoys me its constant every day from clowns that dont bother to even read my profile "

I know, I get that all the time as well, guys perving my profile, sending me winks and messages ...very annoying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why let them bother you , don't delete the wink they can't do it again, if you don't actually click add a friend they won't become your friend. Leave the invite there they can't do it again. Put something in your profile along the lines of , if you are 100's miles away then sorry but I won't answer messages as it's too far and then hit delete if you get a message like that.

Sit back and relax

They obviously havent even bothered to read my profile as i already have it saying dont try add me or wink..it just annoys me its constant every day from clowns that dont bother to even read my profile "

Honestly it's not worth getting wound up about , think of it this way. Would you really want to meet someone who has gone against what you have asked? If not then ignore or block. They have done you a favour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why even bother looking at your winks or friends invites. I have over 200 winks and friend invites, I don't even bother looking unless someone I'm chatting to says they've sent me a friends invite. "

I must have a count of mine when I'm bored

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Why even bother looking at your winks or friends invites. I have over 200 winks and friend invites, I don't even bother looking unless someone I'm chatting to says they've sent me a friends invite. "

Dont know a just get annoyed seein them sittin there i need to go in and delete lol i have ocd haha

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By *abyblu31Couple
over a year ago

paisley


"Why let them bother you , don't delete the wink they can't do it again, if you don't actually click add a friend they won't become your friend. Leave the invite there they can't do it again. Put something in your profile along the lines of , if you are 100's miles away then sorry but I won't answer messages as it's too far and then hit delete if you get a message like that.

Sit back and relax "

yeah that's what I do also !! Just leave it there easy!!

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Use your fliters its what they are there for,why not block all single guys and do your own searches ?

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Use your fliters its what they are there for,why not block all single guys and do your own searches ?"

What about the women and couples that also do it lol

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Use your fliters its what they are there for,why not block all single guys and do your own searches ?

What about the women and couples that also do it lol"

well block them all and do your own searches lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Use your fliters its what they are there for,why not block all single guys and do your own searches ?

What about the women and couples that also do it lolwell block them all and do your own searches lol"

I dont search people and i dont appreciate being told who to block and who not to block, i simply asked can u filter people from a certain distance not specific sexes....and the simple answer is no thats all i wanted to know

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Excuse me for daring to suggest a solution to your problem

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Excuse me for daring to suggest a solution to your problem "

I wasnt wantin a snide solution or being told what to do, i asked a simple yes or no question, i know i could filter and block all sexes already and have chosen not to do that

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

I think you have have a little attitude problem here ,no one was giving snide comments but merely suggesting how using your filters might help.

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I think you have have a little attitude problem here ,no one was giving snide comments but merely suggesting how using your filters might help. "

True, but it seemed snide to me, i know about filters and dont see why i should block everyone due to idiots 100+ miles away, ad i said i asked a simple yes or no question not any other solutions beyond this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OMG so surprised anyone would want to contact you with the attitude you have.

Perhaps after potential meets read this post your next post may be

"wondering why no-one is contacting me anymore"

Take a chill pill & use the filter system.

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"OMG so surprised anyone would want to contact you with the attitude you have.

Perhaps after potential meets read this post your next post may be

"wondering why no-one is contacting me anymore"

Take a chill pill & use the filter system."

Im pretty sure i will always have people contacting me, and please refrain from telling me what to do as thats not what i asked for as i have just said your sayin the same stuff that she said........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often wonder why men from Glasgow,Ireland,US message or wink at me. I assume they want dirty chat so I delete

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By *othingButCocoChanel OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I often wonder why men from Glasgow,Ireland,US message or wink at me. I assume they want dirty chat so I delete "

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