FabSwingers.com forum: First Message

By *indingDeemo OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Hey all you lovely people how you all doing?

Not been been very successful with when it comes first messages. I mean I try to base a conversation out of some points of the profile and/or status? Think their is anything else I could try? Or even what type of first message catches your naughty little eye?

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ummm don't base your reply solely on sex - well for us this works we don't just want to hear what you will/wont do, we like a little chat too

As to meet someone we like a connection, not some bloke just looking for a shag, we like a brain in there too!!

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey all you lovely people how you all doing?

Like you I pick out soms points from their profile to make a conversation, more often than not it works as. It shows that you've had the decency to read through. To be honest though, it's about perseverance, keep doing what you're doing and you'll be fine!

By *indingDeemo OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Agh thank you both, will take on board and learn

By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

And never send a message along the lines of - 'This is a shagging site!

I'm not a fecking ride at the fair!

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just send a cock pic. They love it.