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lost mojo amd stress

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi everyone. As usual look forward to genuine replies, funny replies, whatever really from the great members on this site.......

The problem...been under a lot and I mean a lot of stress lately from work and family. .....and yes I have lost my mojo...but..now I dont feel stressed any longer and I have been waiting weeks for my mojo to come back....still getting hard...never any problems there but just dont feel like doing anything with it lol.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could lay on the floor and use it as a draught excluder now its cold

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Serious question OP - does your happiness depend on having a shag?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You could lay on the floor and use it as a draught excluder now its cold "

Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Serious question OP - does your happiness depend on having a shag?"

No, not at all. I enjoy lots of non sexual things as much as the next person..hols, cars, bikes, exercise etc

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Serious question OP - does your happiness depend on having a shag?

No, not at all. I enjoy lots of non sexual things as much as the next person..hols, cars, bikes, exercise etc"

Just take a break then, and come back when the mojo is restored. I do that all the time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Serious question OP - does your happiness depend on having a shag?

No, not at all. I enjoy lots of non sexual things as much as the next person..hols, cars, bikes, exercise etc

Just take a break then, and come back when the mojo is restored. I do that all the time. "

Thanks for the advice..I might just do that...been getting stressed when telling my regular fb that I need some time out..she is married and im her release so there is pressure from her..I might end up losing her but so be it I think..gotta think about myself for a while

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"gotta think about myself for a while "

You do. There's a common misconception that men are horny bastards 24/7 but I know from experience they aren't. I sympathise with her but you have to put yourself first.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"gotta think about myself for a while

You do. There's a common misconception that men are horny bastards 24/7 but I know from experience they aren't. I sympathise with her but you have to put yourself first."

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Stress takes its toll, and it can take a long time to recover. It affects us physically and psychologically. The sexual bits from impacts to both. The last thing you need is any more pressure from anyone- others or yourself, whilst you regain your health and strength. Take it easy and do all the things you love, including rest,exercise and keeping a good diet. If you can minimise any additional stress loads, all the better. Sex isn't the most important thing, as swinging isn't, but you'll regain what drive you need in your own time. Maybe just focus on social meets, if you want to keep some connections going or meet new potential partners for future points. Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Serious question OP - does your happiness depend on having a shag?

No, not at all. I enjoy lots of non sexual things as much as the next person..hols, cars, bikes, exercise etc

Just take a break then, and come back when the mojo is restored. I do that all the time.

Thanks for the advice..I might just do that...been getting stressed when telling my regular fb that I need some time out..she is married and im her release so there is pressure from her..I might end up losing her but so be it I think..gotta think about myself for a while "

You come first, you've already said you were stressed and your better now your trying to get your mojo back, I agree a little break might be in order added pressure from your regular isn't going to help the situation. Obviously if she's not cool with your taking a break its her loss

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Stress takes its toll, and it can take a long time to recover. It affects us physically and psychologically. The sexual bits from impacts to both. The last thing you need is any more pressure from anyone- others or yourself, whilst you regain your health and strength. Take it easy and do all the things you love, including rest,exercise and keeping a good diet. If you can minimise any additional stress loads, all the better. Sex isn't the most important thing, as swinging isn't, but you'll regain what drive you need in your own time. Maybe just focus on social meets, if you want to keep some connections going or meet new potential partners for future points. Good luck! "

Great advice...thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Serious question OP - does your happiness depend on having a shag?

No, not at all. I enjoy lots of non sexual things as much as the next person..hols, cars, bikes, exercise etc

Just take a break then, and come back when the mojo is restored. I do that all the time.

Thanks for the advice..I might just do that...been getting stressed when telling my regular fb that I need some time out..she is married and im her release so there is pressure from her..I might end up losing her but so be it I think..gotta think about myself for a while

You come first, you've already said you were stressed and your better now your trying to get your mojo back, I agree a little break might be in order added pressure from your regular isn't going to help the situation. Obviously if she's not cool with your taking a break its her loss "

Brilliant advice..thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey..everyone who has posted advice...thank you so much..great advice and im gonna have some me time and put myself first for a change..get back on form and get back to being me again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well you are getting on a bit, things usually slow down with age, you will be fine, aim for fun once a month

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Don't worry about having lost your mojo - do other non sexual stuff instead and one day you'll wake up with a hard-on and have a wank. Don't sweat it or worry about it. It's a normal physiological contra-indication of stress/anxiety etc. - which in itself is also normal, so ya not crazy. wibble.

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

Did u ever think of getting ur hormone levels checked.age and stress can really affect ur testosterone levels

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"gotta think about myself for a while

You do. There's a common misconception that men are horny bastards 24/7 but I know from experience they aren't. I sympathise with her but you have to put yourself first."

Love empathy

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By *ondonexplorerMan
over a year ago

Ascot

Exercise. It's good for everything.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Exercise. It's good for everything."

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