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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

if i mail someone in reply to meets they advertise and they just delete my mail, could I reply to future meets they advertise or should i NEVER contact again cos theyre just not interested full stop? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you already know the answer.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ah ok. i don't mind rejections, just that with no reply i wasnt sure if it meant reject for that 1 meet they arranged, or it meant that 1 meet and all others in future... ooo gawd ok lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if they were interested and just already booked for that meet they would reply and tell you

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"if i mail someone in reply to meets they advertise and they just delete my mail, could I reply to future meets they advertise or should i NEVER contact again cos theyre just not interested full stop? lol"

I personally would try again if you feel you meet their criteria.

Maybe they had already found someone last time or received too many replies.

If your message gets deleted again with no reply then I would assume they have no interest at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe try once more then if no reply don't contact again

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks for the replies chaps. i thought that but just checking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah beat them into submission. They'll shag you just to keep you away lol.

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By *erendipity99Woman
over a year ago

Runcorn


"ah ok. i don't mind rejections, just that with no reply i wasnt sure if it meant reject for that 1 meet they arranged, or it meant that 1 meet and all others in future... ooo gawd ok lol. "

It means not thank you. It also means I or we are not going to change our mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not try sending them a message in general, if they reply, there may be an interest, if they don't, then assume not interested and don't message again.

When I post meets, if I get a reasonable amount of messages but already selected a meet, I normally message another guy I'm interested in to say all ready sorted, maybe net time, though, if I have had loads replies, I just delete as far to many to reply to sometimes.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"if i mail someone in reply to meets they advertise and they just delete my mail, could I reply to future meets they advertise or should i NEVER contact again cos theyre just not interested full stop? lol"

You could try again in a few months time as their meet needs might have changed. Or find someone who DOES want to meet you, rather than those who appear not to want to.

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