FabSwingers.com forum: Sex Photos on a Single Profile

By *orsetandheels OP Woman
over a year ago

Wimbledon

I've been on here for a while but have recently become very creeped out by seeing sex photos on a guy's profile. For some reason seeing him balls deep in someone else is not very appealing and does not make me want to talk to him, even if he is my type in other ways.

It's especially bad when there are photos of him with multiple women.

I am wondering why people feel the need to share these photos on here. There is also the issue of whether the other person has consented to their photos being on here.

I have no problem seeing these on couples profiles as both parties have obviously (hopefully) consented.

Have I become a prude in my old age?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes lol perhaps its just the way they have been taken that is making you feel this way? There is after all several ways to take a photo of the same thing and not all will be great.

My discomfort is those where the man is holding his ass cheeks apart, yuk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with you OP. I think it's really indiscreet. I want to see pics of the guy not all the people he's met. It's an instant turn off!

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By *ilkchocolate87Man
over a year ago

sw london

I keep my clean

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

the only ones that bother me are the ones where he is clearly bare backing different women, but then again, I know who to block.

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

bedford

If we put pictures up of sexual action .we make sure we have asked guys if it's ok to use them .most have agreed .will not put any on with facial pictures .and the same goes if Ihave any ttaken with other guys wife's .I don't mind my face Beeing shown as long as they ask permission.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

There are no rules about having other people on your pics as long as you have consent from the other parties (although I guess that's hard to check) and you do not show their identity. There is nothing creepy about it - I have pics of me with several men. Who else am I going to have 'action shots with'?

However, when a man shows pics that is nearly all the woman, with maybe the tip of his cock, or the top of his head, then they are not for me.

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By *orsetandheels OP Woman
over a year ago

Wimbledon

"There are no rules about having other people on your pics as long as you have consent from the other parties (although I guess that's hard to check) and you do not show their identity. There is nothing creepy about it - I have pics of me with several men. Who else am I going to have 'action shots with'?

However, when a man shows pics that is nearly all the woman, with maybe the tip of his cock, or the top of his head, then they are not for me. "

I guess I wonder why people feel the need to put "action shots" on their profile at all.

Not judging, just curious!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like couple profiles either, where nearly every pic is of some party with loads of people on it. How do you know who the couple are? Could be any one of them!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

However, when a man shows pics that is nearly all the woman, with maybe the tip of his cock, or the top of his head, then they are not for me.

I guess I wonder why people feel the need to put "action shots" on their profile at all.

Not judging, just curious!

Using the word 'creepy' is a tad judgemental IMO.

People are on here for different reasons, and some people like showing pics of various sexual acts. It's an exhibitionist thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

alot of women have sex shots in there profile so not only men!!!! and its there profile so I suppose they are free to put what they like on them, if it turns ppl off then so be it, each to there own,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

However, when a man shows pics that is nearly all the woman, with maybe the tip of his cock, or the top of his head, then they are not for me.

I guess I wonder why people feel the need to put "action shots" on their profile at all.

Not judging, just curious!

Using the word 'creepy' is a tad judgemental IMO.

People are on here for different reasons, and some people like showing pics of various sexual acts. It's an exhibitionist thing. "

She didn't use the word creepy, she said she gets creeped out. I do too. I'm not judging anyone, it's up to them what they put on their profile if they like it. It just makes me feel icky (it's too early to think of a proper word!).

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By *orsetandheels OP Woman
over a year ago

Wimbledon

However, when a man shows pics that is nearly all the woman, with maybe the tip of his cock, or the top of his head, then they are not for me.

I guess I wonder why people feel the need to put "action shots" on their profile at all.

Not judging, just curious!

Using the word 'creepy' is a tad judgemental IMO.

People are on here for different reasons, and some people like showing pics of various sexual acts. It's an exhibitionist thing. "

In my initial post I said that I felt creeped out by it, I was just describing my feelings towards seeing these types of photos.

Of course I get the exhibitionist thing, I feel like people are starting to put them on because they feel it is expected and everyone else is doing it?

I am noticing way more sex pics on profiles now compared to when I first joined over a year ago.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

However, when a man shows pics that is nearly all the woman, with maybe the tip of his cock, or the top of his head, then they are not for me.

I guess I wonder why people feel the need to put "action shots" on their profile at all.

Not judging, just curious!

Using the word 'creepy' is a tad judgemental IMO.

People are on here for different reasons, and some people like showing pics of various sexual acts. It's an exhibitionist thing.

True, my mistake. And icky is a good word

However, men are inordinately proud of their meets, and I notice the full on sex pics tend to be on profiles of guys who have just started, or who don't have many veris. The more a man meets, the less sex pics he tends to have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

However, when a man shows pics that is nearly all the woman, with maybe the tip of his cock, or the top of his head, then they are not for me.

I guess I wonder why people feel the need to put "action shots" on their profile at all.

Not judging, just curious!

Using the word 'creepy' is a tad judgemental IMO.

People are on here for different reasons, and some people like showing pics of various sexual acts. It's an exhibitionist thing.

True, my mistake. And icky is a good word

Icky is my word of the day then.

Good point about the new guys. It's as though they think they have to prove they're not virgins or something and that they can get a woman somewhere. Arrrgh I feel sorry for them now.

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By *orsetandheels OP Woman
over a year ago

Wimbledon

"Icky is my word of the day then.

Good point about the new guys. It's as though they think they have to prove they're not virgins or something and that they can get a woman somewhere. Arrrgh I feel sorry for them now.

Yes, this is exactly how I feel about it.

I have taken sex pics but I don't feel the need to show them off, they are of intimate moments. Sure, some encounters are less intimate but it's hard to tell the difference in many of the photos that I see.

I guess everyone's a porn star these days!

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By *ivesexy_seCouple
over a year ago

Hitchin

Could it be that you feel that you would not be special to these men.

I know that people feel differently about how open they are when it comes to having lots of different partners.

Personally I like ti get a connection with they guys I play with, and of course my husband has to be comfortable with them to even though he doesn't play with them. I'm not the fuck em and drop em type so if one of my extra guys starts talking about other women or put pics up on his profile I too get the icky feeling.

I just don't feel like I am as much to him as he is to me I guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't like couple profiles either, where nearly every pic is of some party with loads of people on it. How do you know who the couple are? Could be any one of them!

or none of them!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Although I don't have any 'steve in action' pics, I really like seeing other peoples 'action' pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess it's all down to bragging rites...or a need for the guy to show off and say to everyone 'look at me! I'm such a stud!!

that kind of pic creeps me out also as its a turn off...in the same vein as a profile with hundreds of veris on it!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I guess it's all down to bragging rites...or a need for the guy to show off and say to everyone 'look at me! I'm such a stud!!

that kind of pic creeps me out also as its a turn off...in the same vein as a profile with hundreds of veris on it!!"

so when a lady or couple have these type of pics on there profile what are they saying? if you are saying that guys do it to say look at me im a stud and brag?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

However, when a man shows pics that is nearly all the woman, with maybe the tip of his cock, or the top of his head, then they are not for me.

I guess I wonder why people feel the need to put "action shots" on their profile at all.

Not judging, just curious!

Using the word 'creepy' is a tad judgemental IMO.

People are on here for different reasons, and some people like showing pics of various sexual acts. It's an exhibitionist thing. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been on here for a while but have recently become very creeped out by seeing sex photos on a guy's profile. For some reason seeing him balls deep in someone else is not very appealing and does not make me want to talk to him, even if he is my type in other ways.

It's especially bad when there are photos of him with multiple women.

I am wondering why people feel the need to share these photos on here. There is also the issue of whether the other person has consented to their photos being on here.

I have no problem seeing these on couples profiles as both parties have obviously (hopefully) consented.

Have I become a prude in my old age?!"

Mr N here. I am happy for other men and couples to show us playing with them provided they block out our faces. I think it's nice that they are proud enough to do so. I guess it is the exhibitionist in some of us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See I like the action shots, even better if it's group fun. I like seeing people fucking others..

Better than terrible poses.. but we all like different things.

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"See I like the action shots, even better if it's group fun. I like seeing people fucking others..

Better than terrible poses.. but we all like different things.

Cali "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the pictures on a profile often depict the type of person / people you are looking at meeting .

Some are shy , some exhibitionist , some like to show they really do enjoy group sex and others like to leave some to the imagination .

There is no right or wrong and we show both , although it's clear who we are in the pics .

Arty pics and clearly enhanced pics are less realistic and we prefer action and real pics .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think the pictures on a profile often depict the type of person / people you are looking at meeting .

Some are shy , some exhibitionist , some like to show they really do enjoy group sex and others like to leave some to the imagination .

There is no right or wrong and we show both , although it's clear who we are in the pics .

Arty pics and clearly enhanced pics are less realistic and we prefer action and real pics .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"See I like the action shots, even better if it's group fun. I like seeing people fucking others..

Better than terrible poses.. but we all like different things.

Cali "

I agree, I love looking at the action shots and imaging if I would like to be in that scenario.

L x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

imagining*

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Not for us but our pictures aren't everybodies cup of tea either

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

It's especially bad when there are photos of him with multiple women.

I am wondering why people feel the need to share these photos on here. There is also the issue of whether the other person has consented to their photos being on here.

I have no problem seeing these on couples profiles as both parties have obviously (hopefully) consented.

Have I become a prude in my old age?!"

I really don't like them at all either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Could it be that you feel that you would not be special to these men.

I know that people feel differently about how open they are when it comes to having lots of different partners.

I just don't feel like I am as much to him as he is to me I guess.

No that's not it for me. I like to hear what my guy's been up to, and see pics if he has them. It's swinging not dating. I know what he thinks of me. If he meets someone 'better' than me he might well dump me. Ho hum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's especially bad when there are photos of him with multiple women.

I am wondering why people feel the need to share these photos on here. There is also the issue of whether the other person has consented to their photos being on here.

I have no problem seeing these on couples profiles as both parties have obviously (hopefully) consented.

Have I become a prude in my old age?!"

Interesting viewpoint. I'm an active swinger, and love swinging. Over time, I've had lots of meets, many regular meets with singles and couples, and many once-off meets, again with singles and couples. I've found that couples and singles on the site are generally interested in "sex photos" on my profile, and I have a number (taken with ex's, and displayed with their ok), some of which I show. They're not particularly explicit, and are more for showing that I'm particularly slim, and that my partners are generally slim too. Likes tend to attract. I've never had a complaint yet about my profile, but am prepared to accept that they're perhaps too overt for some members. So, I guess I'm "guilty, as charged" ... and will certainly give some thought to your observation. It was well raised, and I'll certainly read other members' responses. And, I may change my profile. Thanks, Mike

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

although activity photos arent that bad, dislike them when they are focused on the woman and you only see a stub of cock, bit of leg, or a finger of the actual member.

almost feel like messaging and asking the username of the woman they are advertising for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"although activity photos arent that bad, dislike them when they are focused on the woman and you only see a stub of cock, bit of leg, or a finger of the actual member.

almost feel like messaging and asking the username of the woman they are advertising for"

You do make me laugh. I feel exactly the same. I see the woman and think mmmm nice tits I wonder if she is bi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"although activity photos arent that bad, dislike them when they are focused on the woman and you only see a stub of cock, bit of leg, or a finger of the actual member.

almost feel like messaging and asking the username of the woman they are advertising for

You do make me laugh. I feel exactly the same. I see the woman and think mmmm nice tits I wonder if she is bi

you talking about our profile? lol.

why would you wonder if thye are bi, you are straight.......?? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's especially bad when there are photos of him with multiple women.

I am wondering why people feel the need to share these photos on here. There is also the issue of whether the other person has consented to their photos being on here.

I have no problem seeing these on couples profiles as both parties have obviously (hopefully) consented.

Have I become a prude in my old age?!"

Your not a prude, its just not for you is all.

Can’t say it bothers us to be honest except when it’s a single guy’s profile and he isn’t wearing a condom, now that really bothers us especially when he states safe sex on his profile, it’s a one way ticket to our block list.

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By *errible_TwoCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

See we don't have any meet pics on our profile cos most of the time we get too carried away to take them but as for large group pics all over the profile I wouldn't bother cos I wouldn't know who was who and if they can't put pics of themselves up then they can't be interested in attracting people for meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting thread!

I enjoy taking pics. Those I meet often do too. Anyone in a pic on my profile is someone I've met, often several times, many I consider friends and all still active on Fab right now. Several have pics from the same meet on their profile.

Why do I have them? Because I enjoy taking photos and for no other eason than that. They're designed to give an insight into me, what I enjoy - and in some cases - a sense of fun and light heartedness.

Do I give a stuff if people have different tastes in pics? Nope. It's my profile and i'll do what I like with it. In the same way I respect everyone else's choice as to what theirs contains!

Diversity keeps the site interesting!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"although activity photos arent that bad, dislike them when they are focused on the woman and you only see a stub of cock, bit of leg, or a finger of the actual member.

almost feel like messaging and asking the username of the woman they are advertising for"

Can take or leave action shots but really don't like profiles where it seems that the pictures are primarily showing previous conquests

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

"Could it be that you feel that you would not be special to these men.

I know that people feel differently about how open they are when it comes to having lots of different partners.

I just don't feel like I am as much to him as he is to me I guess.

This would leave me creeped out if I thought someone I met had the icky feeling cos I'd put pictures up on my profile...not feeling special to men (or women I suppose) on a swinging/NSA site kinda makes my mind boggle, especially from a couple's profile

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By *ubberdollieWoman
over a year ago

Stoke

I like action shots providing I am seeing the man's hot naked back or torso. I don't want to see some gorgeous young wood nymph sucking off the bloke, to me that is just a statement of who he call pull.

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By *ark CharmerMan
over a year ago

Horsham

"Interesting thread!

Do I give a stuff if people have different tastes in pics? Nope. It's my profile and i'll do what I like with it. In the same way I respect everyone else's choice as to what theirs contains!

Diversity keeps the site interesting!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

However, when a man shows pics that is nearly all the woman, with maybe the tip of his cock, or the top of his head, then they are not for me.

I guess I wonder why people feel the need to put "action shots" on their profile at all.

Not judging, just curious!

Using the word 'creepy' is a tad judgemental IMO.

People are on here for different reasons, and some people like showing pics of various sexual acts. It's an exhibitionist thing.

In my initial post I said that I felt creeped out by it, I was just describing my feelings towards seeing these types of photos.

Of course I get the exhibitionist thing, I feel like people are starting to put them on because they feel it is expected and everyone else is doing it?

I am noticing way more sex pics on profiles now compared to when I first joined over a year ago."

Really? I'm noticing far fewer action shots and far more tasteful artistic pics

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

"I like action shots providing I am seeing the man's hot naked back or torso. I don't want to see some gorgeous young wood nymph sucking off the bloke, to me that is just a statement of who he call pull. "

Makes me think that I could not possibly live up to his expectations.

However I do enjoy action shots with normal women. As long as there is plenty of shots of him as well x

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

It's especially bad when there are photos of him with multiple women.

I am wondering why people feel the need to share these photos on here. There is also the issue of whether the other person has consented to their photos being on here.

I have no problem seeing these on couples profiles as both parties have obviously (hopefully) consented.

Have I become a prude in my old age?!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cant even be arsed explaining the scene, or the people that enjoy voyeurism in its many facets, so OP...sorry not being rude...

but check my pics out

some may see things as indiscreet, sometimes I see those people as having jealousy issues.. not a fair judgement either way is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am wondering why people feel the need to share these photos on here. "

Because they're not allowed on Facebook?....... Not sure I could think of a better more suiting place to display them.....

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By *erendipity99Woman
over a year ago

Runcorn

It's especially bad when there are photos of him with multiple women.

I am wondering why people feel the need to share these photos on here. There is also the issue of whether the other person has consented to their photos being on here.

I have no problem seeing these on couples profiles as both parties have obviously (hopefully) consented.

Have I become a prude in my old age?!"

You are not a prude. Like yourself I find it a bit creepy when a single male has pics of himself at play.

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By *erendipity99Woman
over a year ago

Runcorn

"I guess it's all down to you are saying that guys do it to say look at me im a stud and brag? "

Yes I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I cant even be arsed explaining the scene, or the people that enjoy voyeurism in its many facets, so OP...sorry not being rude...

but check my pics out

some may see things as indiscreet, sometimes I see those people as having jealousy issues.. not a fair judgement either way is it? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love how ppl stand on the moral highground on here, too many hypocrites, so what if ppl what action pics,live and let live instead of making statements of it creeps me out or they are just bragging,

remember judge and be judge!! but some many judges cant stand to be judged themselves, no one forces you to look at the pictures

its friday, , weekend is here, be happy instead of nit picking everything on here

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By *assmanMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

It's horses for courses isn't it? If a woman sends me a message saying "love your photos, I'd like to be doing what she's doing to you" then it tends to encourage "action" pics. Some won't like it. That's fine.

I have to say though I think it is massively preferable to:

a) a single bloke gallery only showing cock pics - wouldn't you want to see more of the body frame and face - at least in outline. Like here's one pic of my cock - great! Oh and here's another 6 or 7 and guess what they are all of my cock too from slightly different angles!! Inventive, not.

b) couples profiles where the bloke is camera shy and never appears on any photo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's especially bad when there are photos of him with multiple women.

I am wondering why people feel the need to share these photos on here. There is also the issue of whether the other person has consented to their photos being on here.

I have no problem seeing these on couples profiles as both parties have obviously (hopefully) consented.

Have I become a prude in my old age?!"

Yet you continued to look

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By *orsetandheels OP Woman
over a year ago

Wimbledon

Really interesting responses to this, thanks for your input!

I really wasn't being judgemental towards those who show these types of photos on their profile, I was just trying to get a point of view.

It just goes to show that even within our own little niche community we all have different preferences.

For me though, I think the icky feelings mean that I am "fabbed out" for the time being. Time for a break!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just wonder why its single people being targeted to be honest...

it really makes me feel that the OP and others who share the same view have complexes about who might be better(or worse) than them to their prospective meets

I've had people refuse to meet me on the basis of me having occasional "hot slim" types...therefore judging me on what I'm looking for(which varies and varies)

my last ranting point?

I'm expressive, both artistically and sexually, I dont think I'm that attractive or hot, so that "thinks he's a stud" argument is just pish...

what my pics and profile do say is,I enjoy who I'm with and most of the time those with me enjoy being part of my profile,and as me theirs when it comes to our "graphic" displays

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By *orsetandheels OP Woman
over a year ago

Wimbledon

"I just wonder why its single people being targeted to be honest...

it really makes me feel that the OP and others who share the same view have complexes about who might be better(or worse) than them to their prospective meets

I've had people refuse to meet me on the basis of me having occasional "hot slim" types...therefore judging me on what I'm looking for(which varies and varies)

my last ranting point?

I'm expressive, both artistically and sexually, I dont think I'm that attractive or hot, so that "thinks he's a stud" argument is just pish...

what my pics and profile do say is,I enjoy who I'm with and most of the time those with me enjoy being part of my profile,and as me theirs when it comes to our "graphic" displays

I mentioned single people specifically as I mostly meet single people and don't look at many couples profiles. I imagine I would feel the same about couples profiles with lots of photos of them with other people.

I'm really not saying anyone is better or worse than anyone else, what this thread shows is that we all have different preferences. Some people are exhibitionists and some people are more discreet and both are totally fine.

I also wanted to draw attention to the fact that lots of guys seem to be posting sex pics because they feel like that's what they need to do to get meets, when it doesn't really reflect who they are.

There's also the thing about the more graphic photos we see the more desensitised we become to them and seeing so many on here is kind of taking the fun out of using the site, for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just wonder why its single people being targeted to be honest...

it really makes me feel that the OP and others who share the same view have complexes about who might be better(or worse) than them to their prospective meets

I've had people refuse to meet me on the basis of me having occasional "hot slim" types...therefore judging me on what I'm looking for(which varies and varies)

my last ranting point?

I'm expressive, both artistically and sexually, I dont think I'm that attractive or hot, so that "thinks he's a stud" argument is just pish...

what my pics and profile do say is,I enjoy who I'm with and most of the time those with me enjoy being part of my profile,and as me theirs when it comes to our "graphic" displays

I don't like seeing pics like that on anyone's profile. I is a prood.

Some pics I do like. Darn.

Paddy shurrup. You are attractive AND hot. xx

Get yer cock out.

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over a year ago

"I just wonder why its single people being targeted to be honest...

it really makes me feel that the OP and others who share the same view have complexes about who might be better(or worse) than them to their prospective meets

I've had people refuse to meet me on the basis of me having occasional "hot slim" types...therefore judging me on what I'm looking for(which varies and varies)

my last ranting point?

I'm expressive, both artistically and sexually, I dont think I'm that attractive or hot, so that "thinks he's a stud" argument is just pish...

what my pics and profile do say is,I enjoy who I'm with and most of the time those with me enjoy being part of my profile,and as me theirs when it comes to our "graphic" displays

I don't like seeing pics like that on anyone's profile. I is a prood.

Some pics I do like. Darn.

Paddy shurrup. You are attractive AND hot. xx

Get yer cock out."

awwww u are sweet xxxxxx open ur gub x

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over a year ago

"It's horses for courses isn't it? If a woman sends me a message saying "love your photos, I'd like to be doing what she's doing to you" then it tends to encourage "action" pics. Some won't like it. That's fine.

I have to say though I think it is massively preferable to:

b) couples profiles where the bloke is camera shy and never appears on any photo. "

c) the multiple pictures of women's breasts no full length body shots.

d) the blacked out no photo profile.

e) or my favorite the professional paid for studio shots, and this is as good as i can look when i get fully made up pose, really i look nothing like this and look like a buldog chewing a wasp

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over a year ago

Well...I for one, LOVE guys that are open enough to show the most intimate and pleasurable sexual moments in their lives, and as for bareback pics??

Well...if you don't play bareback, why is it a concern?

All information in my eyes is helpful to determine if there's a connection, whether it be from pics, veri's or chat...its all good!

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over a year ago

Bradford

I have one action shot. Reason it's there is to show that I am fully bi.

I really should get an action shot of me and a lass, only lass I know says no

Any offers? Lol

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over a year ago

I have to say though I think it is massively preferable to:

b) couples profiles where the bloke is camera shy and never appears on any photo.

c) the multiple pictures of women's breasts no full length body shots.

d) the blacked out no photo profile.

e) or my favorite the professional paid for studio shots, and this is as good as i can look when i get fully made up pose, really i look nothing like this and look like a buldog chewing a wasp

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over a year ago

"I guess it's all down to bragging rites...or a need for the guy to show off and say to everyone 'look at me! I'm such a stud!!

that kind of pic creeps me out also as its a turn off...in the same vein as a profile with hundreds of veris on it!!

so when a lady or couple have these type of pics on there profile what are they saying? if you are saying that guys do it to say look at me im a stud and brag? "

I think its different when its a couple as there is always going to be more than 1 person on an action shot, but imo its the same when anyone posts them, men or women

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