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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not the usual 'How is my profile?' thread

I started chatting to a lady a while back who had told me she was on the site with her husband and found out he was cheating so she was joining up by herself. I expressed concern she was just trying to get him back and she made quite clear she had already done that. Therefore eased my concern about a revenge shag.

Anyway, we met up, had fun , arranged to do it again.

She has since told me has been cheating again,he is violent, they are splitting up, etc. In a later message she says they have 'sorted it out', come clean with one another both know about each others profiles etc.

Since then I have noticed their couples profile regularly looking at mine. She tells me she hardly goes on it so it is clearly him. I think quite rightly I am concerned. She has tried to dismiss it as him just wanting to know who she had met.

I have since blocked the profile but know he has a singles profile on here. I don't know what it is.

Are my actions over the top in blocking the couples profile and staying away?

I'm concerned now that she knows where I live and this isn't going to go away.

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

Give them a wide berth!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Give them a wide berth!!!!!!"

Avery wide one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be concerned, too. This kind of scenario won't be new though, and I'd be most interested in what others will suggest.

I hope the situation will remain as is, OP.

Blocking seems a good idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Move!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and people dont mind meeting others that are cheating why again?

you reap what you sow, bud.

you knowingly got involved with a couple that were messing each other around and now you are involved in the aftermath.

lesson learned?

who knows.

for your sake i hope so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" he was cheating so she was joining up by herself.

"

Sounds like a good old revenge fuck and make sure he knows about it

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

You can't do anything other than what you have done. It could also be one giant mind game they're both playing with you.

As a general rule swinging doesn't solve relationship problems but can create a few for anyone involved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

shudda just met me instead as im single with no drama!... or do u like the drama?

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By *ust a TeaseMan
over a year ago

Earth

You dug your grave.... lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not the usual 'How is my profile?' thread

I started chatting to a lady a while back who had told me she was on the site with her husband and found out he was cheating so she was joining up by herself. I expressed concern she was just trying to get him back and she made quite clear she had already done that. Therefore eased my concern about a revenge shag.

Anyway, we met up, had fun , arranged to do it again.

She has since told me has been cheating again,he is violent, they are splitting up, etc. In a later message she says they have 'sorted it out', come clean with one another both know about each others profiles etc.

Since then I have noticed their couples profile regularly looking at mine. She tells me she hardly goes on it so it is clearly him. I think quite rightly I am concerned. She has tried to dismiss it as him just wanting to know who she had met.

I have since blocked the profile but know he has a singles profile on here. I don't know what it is.

Are my actions over the top in blocking the couples profile and staying away?

I'm concerned now that she knows where I live and this isn't going to go away.

"

shame you got caught up in these pathetic couples tit for tat antics. If a single man keeps looking at your profile then it could be him. Personally I like to tackle a problem head on so I would talk to him asking if he would like to discuss anything. I don't like living in fear

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

He gonna find you and punch your lights out..

he knows who you are you dont know who he is..

remove profile and start again..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"He gonna find you and punch your lights out..

he knows who you are you dont know who he is..

remove profile and start again.. "

I dont know whether this suppose to be comical or what.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not the usual 'How is my profile?' thread

I started chatting to a lady a while back who had told me she was on the site with her husband and found out he was cheating so she was joining up by herself. I expressed concern she was just trying to get him back and she made quite clear she had already done that. Therefore eased my concern about a revenge shag.

Anyway, we met up, had fun , arranged to do it again.

She has since told me has been cheating again,he is violent, they are splitting up, etc. In a later message she says they have 'sorted it out', come clean with one another both know about each others profiles etc.

Since then I have noticed their couples profile regularly looking at mine. She tells me she hardly goes on it so it is clearly him. I think quite rightly I am concerned. She has tried to dismiss it as him just wanting to know who she had met.

I have since blocked the profile but know he has a singles profile on here. I don't know what it is.

Are my actions over the top in blocking the couples profile and staying away?

I'm concerned now that she knows where I live and this isn't going to go away.

shame you got caught up in these pathetic couples tit for tat antics. If a single man keeps looking at your profile then it could be him. Personally I like to tackle a problem head on so I would talk to him asking if he would like to discuss anything. I don't like living in fear "

I appreciate the positive response. I may approach the subject with him (or the couples profile) but don't want to inflame the situation.

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By *lassygilf60Woman
over a year ago

MANCHESTER

Shame feel sorry.for you! thats why i put no married or attached men. they still txt tho. gud luck babex

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

I think you are being a little paranoid. They have only looked at you. They haven't nailed a dead cat to your front door. Just put it down to experience and move on.

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