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"Quick question guys and gals, if a profile says safe sex only but there are pics of the contrary would it put you off? Reason I ask is we stipulate safe sex only, however I don't practice this with my husband (been together 10 years, we've both had sexual health check ups). We recently took some pics we want to put on our profile but a couple show sex without a condom. " You could put a similar note on your profile...? | |||
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"Quick question guys and gals, if a profile says safe sex only but there are pics of the contrary would it put you off? Reason I ask is we stipulate safe sex only, however I don't practice this with my husband (been together 10 years, we've both had sexual health check ups). We recently took some pics we want to put on our profile but a couple show sex without a condom. " most would accept those pics show you and partner, safe sex should always be practiced with others surely, health check or not!!! | |||
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"I put what I want and what I like on my profile, if folks don't like it or have issues with any part of it, well...tough! " | |||
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"protect yourself Not quite sure what you mean? " if you see them going BB in pics as long as you use condoms it shouldn't matter ive just seen one where the condom is only on the tip!! | |||
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"What I don't get is why they use condoms, bit still perform oral!!!!! That's not safe sex. STI can still be transmitted orally. I can understand not wanting to get pregnant, if that's what everyone on here is trying to prevent. " Maybe because its extremely hard to catch an STI orally, since you can view the goods before you stick it in yer gob I suppose Then again...the mouth does fight foreign infections on a constant basis, so its over equipped to deal with the little sexual indiscretions we throw at it! | |||
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"What I don't get is why they use condoms, bit still perform oral!!!!! That's not safe sex. STI can still be transmitted orally. I can understand not wanting to get pregnant, if that's what everyone on here is trying to prevent. " Because giving oral over a condom is grim! I assume bb pics on a couples profile are of themselves - unless there are obviously multiple bare cocks | |||
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"What I don't get is why they use condoms, bit still perform oral!!!!! That's not safe sex. STI can still be transmitted orally. I can understand not wanting to get pregnant, if that's what everyone on here is trying to prevent. " The chance of catching an STI orally is tiny compared to full penetrative sex. And I'm not talking about the ones you can see! | |||
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"What I don't get is why they use condoms, bit still perform oral!!!!! That's not safe sex. STI can still be transmitted orally. I can understand not wanting to get pregnant, if that's what everyone on here is trying to prevent. " As a couple of others have said, oral transmission of STIs is less likely...my personal risk assessment is 30 odd years of sexual activity and only one teenage dose of clap back in the pre-condom days, obviously if I were to catch something orally I'd have to reconsider... As for the OP, I'd consider BB pix on a couple profile would likely be them unless it were obvious that there were several unclothed cocks in play...it wouldn't necessarily stop me meeting even if there were BB orgy pics, but I'd make sure that the person/people were aware that I only play safe by restating in messages what my profile says | |||
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"I'm not speaking on couples, I would assume they would not use one. I would think giving oral over a condom would be gross unless they have flavored " It isn't great with a flavoured one either also the teat chokes you. | |||
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"Just because you can't see it doesn't mean it's not there. Herpes is the only visible one. HIV, syphilis, gonorrhea, to name a few. Not bashing anyone, just was curious. I see it a lot on porn sites also. I first thought to keep from getting pregnant. But on a lot of people profiles it says safe sex, so I click on their profile and it's suck this and that. I'm totally for al around safe sex, so I just wandering. " I wondered when I was younger and asked a load of doctors...and they all said its "INCREDABLY" hard to catch anything orally if there's no broken skin or inflammation...maybe others should find out FACTS for themselves instead of listening to gossip, oh and regular check ups at the GUM clinic is kinda useful too, for those that think you can't test for these invisible infections! | |||
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"Quick question guys and gals, if a profile says safe sex only but there are pics of the contrary would it put you off? Reason I ask is we stipulate safe sex only, however I don't practice this with my husband (been together 10 years, we've both had sexual health check ups). We recently took some pics we want to put on our profile but a couple show sex without a condom. " if you spend 15 minutes looking at posted pictures on this site you will see BB pics outweigh condom shots by about 70-30 , despite what people claim . | |||
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"Quick question guys and gals, if a profile says safe sex only but there are pics of the contrary would it put you off? Reason I ask is we stipulate safe sex only, however I don't practice this with my husband (been together 10 years, we've both had sexual health check ups). We recently took some pics we want to put on our profile but a couple show sex without a condom. if you spend 15 minutes looking at posted pictures on this site you will see BB pics outweigh condom shots by about 70-30 , despite what people claim . " from the ministry of absolute facts I do believe......zzzzzz xxx | |||
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"Again,to each it's own!! I was just wandering. I thought you could ask question and get advice here. I work in healthcare and seen some really nasty things on and in people mouths. So I thought I could ask this question on this forum. I keep getting guys msg me talking about oral when my profile clearly states I don't. Started browsing other females profiles and a lot of them don't state safe sex. Of course a lot of guys don't read profiles. They just see boobs,butts, and couch and send a request. Thanks on the feed back " You asked a question and got replies. They didn't agree with your viewpoint. It happens *insert rolling eye smiley* | |||
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"I wouldn't say it puts me off because I always insist on condom use, but I do notice. There really is no point asking as the person will only come out with 'the pics were with a longterm partner' if it's on a single profile. It's ip to you whether you believe that or not. Similarly fb couples rather than married couples, they aren't really couples are they, they are singles who have hooked up and created a couples profile. Since I've been a member here I've seen a few people have several fb couples profiles and the pics are bareback. Ultimately it's best to go with the look after yourself approach and it's not a safe option to solely rely on pics and profile status to weigh up the risk. Couples, singles, fb couples, etc, are all as risky as each other. " Surely don't have to be married to be a proper couple? I've been with my partner for 2 and a bit years but we're a lot more than an fb couple. I'll never get married again lol | |||
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"What I don't get is why they use condoms, bit still perform oral!!!!! That's not safe sex. STI can still be transmitted orally. I can understand not wanting to get pregnant, if that's what everyone on here is trying to prevent. " | |||
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"What I don't get is why they use condoms, bit still perform oral!!!!! That's not safe sex. STI can still be transmitted orally. I can understand not wanting to get pregnant, if that's what everyone on here is trying to prevent. The chance of catching an STI orally is tiny compared to full penetrative sex. And I'm not talking about the ones you can see!" WRONG the chances are the SAME ! only the risk of catching HIV orally is lowered | |||
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"Quick question guys and gals, if a profile says safe sex only but there are pics of the contrary would it put you off? Reason I ask is we stipulate safe sex only, however I don't practice this with my husband (been together 10 years, we've both had sexual health check ups). We recently took some pics we want to put on our profile but a couple show sex without a condom. " If you think some people will get the wrong idea seeing them then maybe you are right. If in doubt put other pictures up instead. | |||
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"What I don't get is why they use condoms, bit still perform oral!!!!! That's not safe sex. STI can still be transmitted orally. I can understand not wanting to get pregnant, if that's what everyone on here is trying to prevent. The chance of catching an STI orally is tiny compared to full penetrative sex. And I'm not talking about the ones you can see! WRONG the chances are the SAME ! only the risk of catching HIV orally is lowered " Im not wrong actually but if saying I am makes you feel better go right ahead. | |||
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"What I don't get is why they use condoms, bit still perform oral!!!!! That's not safe sex. STI can still be transmitted orally. I can understand not wanting to get pregnant, if that's what everyone on here is trying to prevent. The chance of catching an STI orally is tiny compared to full penetrative sex. And I'm not talking about the ones you can see! WRONG the chances are the SAME ! only the risk of catching HIV orally is lowered Im not wrong actually but if saying I am makes you feel better go right ahead. " hmmm interesting I would very much like to see the evidance backing up your statement, as it conflicts with the GUM clinic, FDA, netdoctor advice. | |||
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" WRONG the chances are the SAME ! only the risk of catching HIV orally is lowered " Where did you learn that from. Because its totally wrong. I go to the clinic often, and I always talk to the staff. Because I used to do large gangbangs I asked specifically about it and have had some very in depth chats about it. | |||
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"Quick question guys and gals, if a profile says safe sex only but there are pics of the contrary would it put you off? Reason I ask is we stipulate safe sex only, however I don't practice this with my husband (been together 10 years, we've both had sexual health check ups). We recently took some pics we want to put on our profile but a couple show sex without a condom. " I would expect to see bareback pictures on a couples profile! | |||
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"With couples I don't think it's an issue - unless of course you can see several different cocks involved! Any you'll ever see on mine (or the couples profile) will be me and Fox." Exactly! | |||
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"Why would you want to use safe sex with your own partner unless you dont want to get pregnant weird, don't you think " Not just me then! | |||
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"We just presume everyone is bare backing anyway! Ergo why neither of us ever play without condoms. It makes me laugh that people are that stupid to think that those that "don't" show bareback pictures, must in someway be a safer bet.... Treat everyone as if they do, take responsibility for your own level of safety and have fun! D" This! | |||
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"Why would you want to use safe sex with your own partner unless you dont want to get pregnant weird, don't you think " BBQ has tried so many different pills and the implant and all make her sex drive go away, which kind of defeats the purpose! So condoms it is. | |||
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