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Am I being taken for a ride?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Been messaging a couple from my area for a day or so now which is great, the thing is when I ask for a face pic I have been sent endless pics of a very sexy lady but no face pics. Then this afternoon I receive nothing but a pic of her boobs then I get this message

"Can you help me set a plan to meet us and hopefully we all get on and end up back at ours fir fun but she must never find out"

The couple in question have no verifications as only joined the sight 4 days ago and are now hassling for a friends request.

Should I go along with this or does it all sound like a time waster with some pics of his 'wife'?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

*site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask them speak to the woman first but if I was you go with your gut reaction goid luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

U won't b the 1st & certainly won't b the last 2 get the ( runaround ).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's a man who's other half knows nothing about this. I would stay away unless you can talk to female first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been messaging a couple from my area for a day or so now which is great, the thing is when I ask for a face pic I have been sent endless pics of a very sexy lady but no face pics. Then this afternoon I receive nothing but a pic of her boobs then I get this message

"Can you help me set a plan to meet us and hopefully we all get on and end up back at ours fir fun but she must never find out"

The couple in question have no verifications as only joined the sight 4 days ago and are now hassling for a friends request.

Should I go along with this or does it all sound like a time waster with some pics of his 'wife'?"

It would seem that you haven't been messaging a couple at all but either a single male or the male half of the couple who seems to think it's ok to set up his female partner with another man without her knowledge...either way, what does your gut instinct tell you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

alarm bells are ringing!

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By *r mrs pCouple
over a year ago

taunton


"Been messaging a couple from my area for a day or so now which is great, the thing is when I ask for a face pic I have been sent endless pics of a very sexy lady but no face pics. Then this afternoon I receive nothing but a pic of her boobs then I get this message

"Can you help me set a plan to meet us and hopefully we all get on and end up back at ours fir fun but she must never find out"

The couple in question have no verifications as only joined the sight 4 days ago and are now hassling for a friends request.

Should I go along with this or does it all sound like a time waster with some pics of his 'wife'?"

Our favourite way of finding out if they are fake is to ask for a pic of the female holding a piece of paper saying ' yes ,

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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Our favourite way of finding out if they are fake is to ask for a pic of the female holding a piece of paper saying ' yes ,"

I have just done this and also asked where 'they' want to meet. But alarm bells are ringing to say the least!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4get it m8 & mov on. Hopefully 2 genuine " fabbers "?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i NEVER meet a couple unless i have a fem to fem phone call first ..If they are genuine they will totally agree on the phone contact

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Suggest they skype.. or cam on site sounds like just a guy to me setting up his wife. be very careful.

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By *eatman2010Man
over a year ago

swindon

i would advice caution..if u dont speak to her on the phone and hear how genuine she is ,,dont bother ,,im sure as u appear very genuine there are plenty of couples that would amire your honesty and consider meeting u ,,

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Right dealt with messages deleted and they are blocked. I received from him saying she doesn't know when I asked for a face pic. So politely have said thanks for the interest and good luck in your search but not for me.

Thanks for the advice all

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

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By *eatman2010Man
over a year ago

swindon

cool ,,how easy was that block button to press and no more concerns lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was chatting to a ''couple;; last week spoke to the guy on the phone and he wanted me to pretend I was a sex theripest to get to know her and then hopefully get her to have a 3 sum!!!!!!!!!

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"alarm bells are ringing!"

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

I had similar experiences in my early days on Fab from sad men who gave me the runaround and who were clearly operating on their own...What baffles me still is their motivation in all this timewasting activity, but I am now versed in their perverted ways and recognise the signals, chief of which is to avoid the confirming phone call to the lady...

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By *ichaelangelaCouple
over a year ago

notts

dont know about a ride... more of a set up imho, sounds like the wife dont know about this to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"but she must never find out""

Surely the clue was in his message!!!

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By *ohn_1983Man
over a year ago

South of Norwich

You're clearly being taken for a ride.

Drop like a stone, block and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been messaging a couple from my area for a day or so now which is great, the thing is when I ask for a face pic I have been sent endless pics of a very sexy lady but no face pics. Then this afternoon I receive nothing but a pic of her boobs then I get this message

"Can you help me set a plan to meet us and hopefully we all get on and end up back at ours fir fun but she must never find out"

The couple in question have no verifications as only joined the sight 4 days ago and are now hassling for a friends request.

Should I go along with this or does it all sound like a time waster with some pics of his 'wife'?"

Seems to me that you have been messaging a single guy on here who has a gf or wife who has no knowledge of fab and he wants to set her up lol run run run

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