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one year on here and no meets

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

what the f i'am I doing wrong

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London

You really aren't selling yourself in your profile for starters.

Plus you have WAY too many cock pics. This is actually a turn of for many ladies. Have maybe one only in public and have some other body/torso pics or something.

Oh and work on your profile - sorry, but it tells people nothing about you. If you were a single lady, would you want to meet you just going by this?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Central

Some usual things are users wondering why someone can't accom, if it's not explained. Otherwise, fab's better when it's part of a swinging life-style, rather than the only part of it. If you get to know others socially, as well as get out and about to clubs, then you'll likely enlarge your social an sexual circle.

Otherwise, I'd suggest more pics of your body, so that we can see how physically attracted we are to you. Maybe get someone to take a face pic, so you're as relaxed as possible too.

Keep reading profile tips in the forums, see if you can pick up ways to make yours stand out.

Good luck!

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London

Oh and OH MY WORD - are those pics a fake plastic vagina???

Oh dear lord, lose those immediately.

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By *ohnjones3210Man
over a year ago

Chester

Lol!!!! Man!

Hide all pics asap before people see them. Haha!

Make your profile interesting. Your competition is very fierce! You have to stand out.

Pics should only be positive. Always smile, always have light background, etc... Pics MUST be appealing. Bad pics do more damage than no pics.

Trust me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One year? Your first pic is nearly 3 1/2 years old!

Check the many advice threads for suggestions from others - then (unlike many!) - act on them and you may see your luck change!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have got to ask just how painful was that tattoo?

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

an attention to a little bit of detail may help... remember its your shop window to the word and you are trying to make a good impression.....

it looks like it was rushed.... and if you can't even spell your name right, what else does it say, rightly or wrongly....

and before anyone says anything... he managed to get it right a bit further down!

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"Oh and OH MY WORD - are those pics a fake plastic vagina???

Oh dear lord, lose those immediately."

Haaaa!! I'm gutted I missed them! They sound delightful.

Echo what the others say. Pics- bad, profile - bad = lack if results!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also, you might want to put a dictionary on your Christmas list. Bad grammar and spelling in a profile are an instant turn off for us, regardless of what your pictures are like. Explain more about yourself, what you want to do, what you're good at etc. Be inventive. Say something about yourself that doesn't involve sex.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

the tattoo only a bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what the f i'am I doing wrong"

Speeling (your name and Ladies} as has been said

why cant you accommodate?

Looking for your first 3sum, but you have already had a 4sum?

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

If you can't put enough effort into your profile to even spell your own name right, what would make me think you'd put any effort into pleasing me??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

that's how you spell my name

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London


"that's how you spell my name

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You spell it Richrad?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"that's how you spell my name

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Which way is that as in you name or the text in your profile.!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

better pics try a diferent back drop to your pics make them exciting, profile says nothing more detail, try going to clubs great way to meet peeps ,, also you have listed just about every interest in the list, that makes you look desperate too , chose a few of your faves you can tell others in chat if you need to, good luck

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