FabSwingers.com forum: What's a social exactly?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've heard the term bounded about but don't really know what it means. Can guess it's a gathering of sorts, just not what it entails.

Have been to clubs before - love Chams - but guessing it's not this?

If it helps my chances, would love to attend one...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just people socialising, laughing, chatting, drinking, dancing, friending each other on Fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just people socialising, laughing, chatting, drinking, dancing, friending each other on Fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having a Drink with someone to see if any attraction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

or. Lots of people meeting in a pub for Drinks and a Laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've heard the term bounded about but don't really know what it means. Can guess it's a gathering of sorts, just not what it entails.

Have been to clubs before - love Chams - but guessing it's not this?

If it helps my chances, would love to attend one..."

A social is pretty much a vanilla type of meeting and can take the form of a date (drink, meal etc), it can involve one other person, a couple or be an organised event.

It doesn't start off sexual but if you're lucky it can end up as such

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A social is pretty much a vanilla type of meeting and can take the form of a date (drink, meal etc), it can involve one other person, a couple or be an organised event.

It doesn't start off sexual but if you're lucky it can end up as such

The aim is to see if their is attraction there when a social is one to one..

Sometimes there is an attraction and I just can't wait

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"I've heard the term bounded about but don't really know what it means. Can guess it's a gathering of sorts, just not what it entails.

Have been to clubs before - love Chams - but guessing it's not this?

If it helps my chances, would love to attend one..."

I think that a lot of people think the word "social" is some sort of code word for "orgy".... which has begun to worry me, especially in regards to socials in clubs which has been a topic we have gone thru at times...

for me... social... meeting and chatting with people in a non-play enviroment...

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By *ts artMan
over a year ago

Londonderry

"I've heard the term bounded about but don't really know what it means. Can guess it's a gathering of sorts, just not what it entails.

Have been to clubs before - love Chams - but guessing it's not this?

If it helps my chances, would love to attend one...

for me... social... meeting and chatting with people in a non-play enviroment..."

THIS ^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've heard the term bounded about but don't really know what it means. Can guess it's a gathering of sorts, just not what it entails.

Have been to clubs before - love Chams - but guessing it's not this?

If it helps my chances, would love to attend one...

for me... social... meeting and chatting with people in a non-play enviroment..."

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Makes sense to me! Well hopefully I can get some of these too haha

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By *anttotryanythingMan
over a year ago

havant

Expect them mate , as not many ladies or couples will just invite you for a shag , you have to expect a social first and thats just a drink or a coffee and a chat and see if a connection between you , if so things can go ahead to the next stage where we all want to be lol

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By *ondonpride69Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

We call it networking !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We call it networking !"

Yep! I take on board Fabio's comment about socials in clubs - however to me a social doesn't exclude fun - its just a 'group gathering' of people (the last two I've attended being organised via the forums and another date set for early next year!) where you can meet, chat, drink, have a laugh - and yes - if the mood takes you - play! Think of it as one of those 'pub events' that match do for daters - a mixer, a chance to get to know people and maybe arrange future meets - be that in 5 minutes or 5 weeks!

A social to me is simply a networking opportunity to get as many fabsters in one place at one time. Not for any pre-determined reason.

Clubs give the added opportunity for play - but also the opportunity to have more open conversations away from 'vanilla ears' that may take offence to certain subjects.

They also offer the added protection of staff used to a certain clientele - rather than your run of the mill bar/door staff.

So i for one much prefer socials in clubs - but as always its each to their own!

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