FabSwingers.com forum: Gettin laid

By *ury guy1 OP Man
over a year ago

Bury

How can some one who is not great lookin get help to get laid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's easy if you have a personality that can capture a womans interest almost immediately.

Because looks aren't everything at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Read forums, take advice from other threads, make profile stand out, let personality shine through

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get laid and I am only a plain Jane but I've a fantastic personality

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish

"Read forums, take advice from other threads, make profile stand out, let personality shine through"
This

And you are doing well with three meets, so it's not all bad?

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By *unkyhunkMan
over a year ago

"I get laid and I am only a plain Jane but I've a fantastic personality

You are certainly not a plain jane!!x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How can some one who is not great lookin get help to get laid"

Plastic surgery?

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By *tirling DarkCouple
over a year ago

Stirling

Don't use text speak in your profile.

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By *lit KingMan
over a year ago

south lakes

"I get laid and I am only a plain Jane but I've a fantastic personality

Respect but do you not think its easier for a lady than a guy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't use text speak in your profile.

And punctuate! It makes your profile easier to read.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get laid and I am only a plain Jane but I've a fantastic personality

Respect but do you not think its easier for a lady than a guy?

No! I get plenty of messages but the quality is rubbish so no it isn't easier for a woman to get laid.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"How can some one who is not great lookin get help to get laid"

You're assuming your looks are the reason: nothing to do with your profile then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get laid and I am only a plain Jane but I've a fantastic personality

Respect but do you not think its easier for a lady than a guy?

No! I get plenty of messages but the quality is rubbish so no it isn't easier for a woman to get laid."
totally agree with this....x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Alcohol?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turn Gay?

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"How can some one who is not great lookin get help to get laid"

sometimes you have to show that you can help yourself "help yourself"

if I was to ask myself the question of you "am i doing all I can to help myself" I would say the answer is no.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I consider myself to be average at best and have managed to meet two lovely women from this site in the short time I've been here, a couple of times. The key is don't get downbeat about rejection. Be yourself, don't take it too seriously and let your personality stand out. There are a lot of genuine, intelligent, lovely and sexy people on this site, who find a personality and sense of humour very sexy. So look for those profiles. Many of those people are on the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get laid and I am only a plain Jane but I've a fantastic personality

Respect but do you not think its easier for a lady than a guy?

No! I get plenty of messages but the quality is rubbish so no it isn't easier for a woman to get laid."

But you could have any of those men if you so wish, right? Therefore, yes, it is easier for a woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get laid and I am only a plain Jane but I've a fantastic personality

Respect but do you not think its easier for a lady than a guy?

No! I get plenty of messages but the quality is rubbish so no it isn't easier for a woman to get laid.

But you could have any of those men if you so wish, right? Therefore, yes, it is easier for a woman."

No because I don't want those men and finding one that meets my standards means it is probably harder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How can some one who is not great lookin get help to get laid"

Just ask her if to sniff your hanky and tell you if it smells of rohypnol. Works every time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get laid and I am only a plain Jane but I've a fantastic personality

Respect but do you not think its easier for a lady than a guy?

No! I get plenty of messages but the quality is rubbish so no it isn't easier for a woman to get laid.

But you could have any of those men if you so wish, right? Therefore, yes, it is easier for a woman.

No because I don't want those men and finding one that meets my standards means it is probably harder

Fair.

However, it sounds as though the gentleman is more concerned with the act, and not the person. So perhaps standards dont come into the equation. (Please correct me if i'm wrong, OP).

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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago

Rockford

"Read forums, take advice from other threads, make profile stand out, let personality shine through"

yep this p

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By *i015Man
over a year ago

Millbrook, Southampton

If you just want to get laid then I suggest you go to the red light district, if you want to meet and have fun I suggest you take your time and make an effort

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If i can do it with a face like mine. Anyone can hehehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you just want to get laid then I suggest you go to the red light district, if you want to meet and have fun I suggest you take your time and make an effort"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you just want to get laid then I suggest you go to the red light district, if you want to meet and have fun I suggest you take your time and make an effort

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you tell em babe xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Glory hole?

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

"I get laid and I am only a plain Jane but I've a fantastic personality

Respect but do you not think its easier for a lady than a guy?

Simples,,,, you have to think outside the box,, what makes it easier for women to get laid,, its a box, so ignore thinking outside the box, get a box,, ,,

Have a sex change,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get laid and I am only a plain Jane but I've a fantastic personality

Respect but do you not think its easier for a lady than a guy?

No as far too many then cancel meets so realistically its as hard for us women as it is for males and those we do end up meeting often look nothing like their photos

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester

"I get laid and I am only a plain Jane but I've a fantastic personality

Oh please. A woman can look like Quasimodo's ugly fat sister and will get plenty of offers off here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How can some one who is not great lookin get help to get laid

Just ask her if to sniff your hanky and tell you if it smells of rohypnol. Works every time!"
hahahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get laid and I am only a plain Jane but I've a fantastic personality

Oh please. A woman can look like Quasimodo's ugly fat sister and will get plenty of offers off here. "

You said you wouldn't tell anyone

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By *lleyCat1969Man
over a year ago

Folkestone

"How can some one who is not great lookin get help to get laid"

Cash & an ad from the back of the local paper?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well lots of so called ugly men get laid. Usually old ugly ones. In simple terms women like cars and money. You may not get the love of your life that way but you sure as hell get a lot of chicks. Keep it real and know they are just golddiggers and you have it made. Remember, no romance without finance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get laid and I am only a plain Jane but I've a fantastic personality

Oh please. A woman can look like Quasimodo's ugly fat sister and will get plenty of offers off here. "

Gee you really know how to boost a girls confidence don't you

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester

"I get laid and I am only a plain Jane but I've a fantastic personality

Oh please. A woman can look like Quasimodo's ugly fat sister and will get plenty of offers off here.

You said you wouldn't tell anyone

Lol sorry, it just slipped out

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester

"I get laid and I am only a plain Jane but I've a fantastic personality

Oh please. A woman can look like Quasimodo's ugly fat sister and will get plenty of offers off here.

Gee you really know how to boost a girls confidence don't you

Just trying to bring a little reality into some single females' Fab world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I found that being honest, open, genuine, a nice guy and humorous has worked fine for me.

I would also add respectful, courteous and non pushy.

And if you arrange a meet, you show up for it and dont waste peoples time.

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands

"I get laid and I am only a plain Jane but I've a fantastic personality

Oh please. A woman can look like Quasimodo's ugly fat sister and will get plenty of offers off here.

Gee you really know how to boost a girls confidence don't you

Just trying to bring a little reality into some single females' Fab world

Do many 'Quasimodo's ugly fat sisters' post forum threads asking how they can 'get laid'? wow how long was I away?

Would 'I'm looking for mutual adult fun or nsa' not have been a touch better than 'how do I get laid?'

As others said, personality is just as important on here.

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester

"I get laid and I am only a plain Jane but I've a fantastic personality

Oh please. A woman can look like Quasimodo's ugly fat sister and will get plenty of offers off here.

Gee you really know how to boost a girls confidence don't you

Just trying to bring a little reality into some single females' Fab world

Do many 'Quasimodo's ugly fat sisters' post forum threads asking how they can 'get laid'? wow how long was I away?

Would 'I'm looking for mutual adult fun or nsa' not have been a touch better than 'how do I get laid?'

As others said, personality is just as important on here. "

No, you don't get the equivalent of Quasimodo's ugly fat sister posting threads about how they can't get laid. That's the point I was making. It doesn't matter what a woman looks like in here she will have a queue of men willing to service her, it's only her preferences that will then limit her.

It is not the same for the majority of single men.

As for your second paragraph, I made no comment on what the OP said or how he said it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How can some one who is not great lookin get help to get laid"

Not referring to having meets as getting 'laid' might help

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands

"I get laid and I am only a plain Jane but I've a fantastic personality

Oh please. A woman can look like Quasimodo's ugly fat sister and will get plenty of offers off here.

Gee you really know how to boost a girls confidence don't you

Just trying to bring a little reality into some single females' Fab world

Do many 'Quasimodo's ugly fat sisters' post forum threads asking how they can 'get laid'? wow how long was I away?

Would 'I'm looking for mutual adult fun or nsa' not have been a touch better than 'how do I get laid?'

As others said, personality is just as important on here.

It is not the same for the majority of single men.

As for your second paragraph, I made no comment on what the OP said or how he said it."

I know you didn't comment on what the op said but it was my post, I quoted yours for the Quasimodo's ugly fat sister thing, (and mostly for the spelling).

It's not a term I've come across on here hence why I asked if it had happened whilst I was away, the

should have been a clue.

I went on to give my thoughts on the 'getting laid' bit, I know it's just terminology but the day someone walks up to me and says 'hey fancy getting laid?' Well they risk getting laid, but laid flat out

ps I'd chat with Quasis sister, as long as she had a good personality, could make me laugh & got me an autograph

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester

"I get laid and I am only a plain Jane but I've a fantastic personality

Oh please. A woman can look like Quasimodo's ugly fat sister and will get plenty of offers off here.

Gee you really know how to boost a girls confidence don't you

Just trying to bring a little reality into some single females' Fab world

Do many 'Quasimodo's ugly fat sisters' post forum threads asking how they can 'get laid'? wow how long was I away?

Would 'I'm looking for mutual adult fun or nsa' not have been a touch better than 'how do I get laid?'

As others said, personality is just as important on here.

It is not the same for the majority of single men.

As for your second paragraph, I made no comment on what the OP said or how he said it.

I know you didn't comment on what the op said but it was my post, I quoted yours for the Quasimodo's ugly fat sister thing, (and mostly for the spelling).

It's not a term I've come across on here hence why I asked if it had happened whilst I was away, the

should have been a clue.

ps I'd chat with Quasis sister, as long as she had a good personality, could make me laugh & got me an autograph

I've re-read what you initially posted and now realise I misinterpreted it. Sorry

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I get laid and I am only a plain Jane but I've a fantastic personality

Oh please. A woman can look like Quasimodo's ugly fat sister and will get plenty of offers off here. "

Quasimodo in a dress and lippy would get a good pounding, let alone his sister!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get laid and I am only a plain Jane but I've a fantastic personality

your pics don't look plain jane wow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get laid and I am only a plain Jane but I've a fantastic personality

Oh please. A woman can look like Quasimodo's ugly fat sister and will get plenty of offers off here.

Quasimodo in a dress and lippy would get a good pounding, let alone his sister! "

nice one

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands

"I get laid and I am only a plain Jane but I've a fantastic personality

Oh please. A woman can look like Quasimodo's ugly fat sister and will get plenty of offers off here.

Quasimodo in a dress and lippy would get a good pounding, let alone his sister!

nice one"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's easy if you have a personality that can capture a womans interest almost immediately.

Because looks aren't everything at all. "
looks are first impressions , course they mater .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its easier for women ... "'ass, pout and tits out'' men come flocking

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By *ury guy1 OP Man
over a year ago

Bury

Thank you all for ur help somw of which made me piss laughing thank you all

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

get out to your nearest big town or city and find a horny girl wearing beer goggles, treat her nice, buy her drinks and you just never know your luck

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By *beautifulpainCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

I'm no looker, but I still get laid I guess it's all about how you present your personality,

I know for a fact that's how I could end up with someone as smart and attractive as Julia.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm no looker, but I still get laid I guess it's all about how you present your personality,

I know for a fact that's how I could end up with someone as smart and attractive as Julia. "

Julia - you really shouldn't sneak in and post when he's away from the keyboard!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I knew that. I probably wouldn't be on here

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Whatever you do don't post a thread that show's you don't 'get' what swinging is about.

Ooops, too late.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Confidence mate. It helps feel good about yourself and be positive in the things you do

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