FabSwingers.com forum: How do I find 2 bi guys?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

As a single gal, this is something I would love to do (find 2 bi guys), but organising it seems really difficult. 1 to 1 attraction is hard enough to find, but 1 to 2, 2 to one and 2 to 2 is near on impossible! I know you can search for MM couples, but oddly enough they don't seem to be bi, or miles away! Any tips would be much appreciated.

I'm fairly new, so please don't bash me if I'm missing something seemingly obvious.

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By *ames blackMan
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

Move near me lol

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Find one you like, then look for another and get him to help look too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As a single gal, this is something I would love to do (find 2 bi guys), but organising it seems really difficult. 1 to 1 attraction is hard enough to find, but 1 to 2, 2 to one and 2 to 2 is near on impossible! I know you can search for MM couples, but oddly enough they don't seem to be bi, or miles away! Any tips would be much appreciated.

I'm fairly new, so please don't bash me if I'm missing something seemingly obvious."

If you find out how...please tell me!!! I understand exactly what you are saying!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ffs ok look I'll lend you my guy and we'll arrange a friend ladies - but only for an hour and then I want him back

Or I may stop and watch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can see the attraction!

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By *lave4umidsMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Genuine Bi here

Also tamworth Minx

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I'm visiting Coventry on 29th October and I'm bi so that's half sorted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Genuine Bi here

Also tamworth Minx

lol"

There we go sorted

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By *lave4umidsMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol blimey....what about the OP this is her post?!!

Send me your face pics!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Find one you like, then look for another and get him to help look too.

Tried that! And it's so flipping difficult, not to mention hard work. The entire orchestration of 'Hi, fancy me? Fancy him? Fancy us? is a nightmare, let alone trying to get us all in the same room at the same time...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"lol blimey....what about the OP this is her post?!!

Send me your face pics!!

Yes, what about me?!?! You can't search for bi guys on here can you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm fairly new, so please don't bash me if I'm missing something seemingly obvious.

If you find out how...please tell me!!! I understand exactly what you are saying!

It's nigh on impossible to find 2 bi guys where there's a 3 way attraction...and then there's the logistics of meeting!

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

If anyone cracks this conundrum please let me know.

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By *astpoetMan
over a year ago

where the world takes me

It's all about how you advertise it, some men might be more than happy to try out their bi side if they're doing so in a Domme female situation.

It's a huge fantasy of full on submission to a woman

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Stop living far away, I'm a bi guy and I have a few bi guys on my mobile :p

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Stop living far away, I'm a bi guy and I have a few bi guys on my mobile :p"

Grrr...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Stop living far away, I'm a bi guy and I have a few bi guys on my mobile :p"

As do I.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Stop living far away, I'm a bi guy and I have a few bi guys on my mobile :p

As do I.

You're even further away! Stop teasing...

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Stop living far away, I'm a bi guy and I have a few bi guys on my mobile :p

Grrr...

Bloody hell, even with the messers on here I can introduce you to quite a few genuine, intelligent, articulate and horny bi guys if you were in Manchester. This would include me too, (okay I'm biased). However it shouldn't be a problem, I can't believe there's such a shortage in Cambridge and Tamworth?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi there,

We have had the pleasure of playing with two bi guys, and boy what an evening.

Wet (F) loved watching me, Welsh and the two other guys, sharing cocks, and she loved it more when she joined in, and we still have the video for our own pleasure.

We found that by meeting a single bi guy first of all, socially and then play, made it a lot easier when we wanted further bi guys, as we canvassed his opinion, and also could use his little black book of bi guys.

Don't give up your search, as it does happen.

Wet n Welsh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe the easiest thing is to attend a Bi night at a club (JayDee's) is a good choice, they often have Bi or TV nights...

Also, how Bi do you want them?? Sounds strange but there are a great many Bi guys out there who think that merely touching another cock or fucking a guy means they are Bi, but they won't kiss a guy or be a bottom...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Maybe the easiest thing is to attend a Bi night at a club (JayDee's) is a good choice, they often have Bi or TV nights...

I know! The whole lot or nothing at all...

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Because if this topic, I created another topic about bi-ness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just as hard trying to find a nice bi couple to play with I can assure you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because if this topic, I created another topic about bi-ness

I must have missed that one - it's a real soap box issue for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Find one you like, then look for another and get him to help look too.

Steve, sounds like another opportunity to team up again

Question is, how do 2 bi guys find a single girl to play with?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Find one you like, then look for another and get him to help look too.

Steve, sounds like another opportunity to team up again

Question is, how do 2 bi guys find a single girl to play with?"

**waving**

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By *.nottsbloke..Man
over a year ago

the vale

Waves back

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

You could try going dogging, that way you don't have to orchestrate it so much.

It cuts out the: 2nd Friday this month?

No, I've got tickets for Jason Manford. How about that Saturday afternoon?

Sorry, I'm at work. How are you fixed for...

Sometimes, if you are lucky with who is out, you can be playing with 4-5 peeps all at the same time

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

I'm fairly new, so please don't bash me if I'm missing something seemingly obvious."

This thread might have a few lovely bi guys close to you..

http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/swingers/208629

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By *uckoldandWifeCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

We have not managed to find two guys and we aren't even being as specific about sexuality as the OP. Totally agree it's not easy. If you don't want randoms from a club, party or dogging place (we don't do any of those) then the choice is massively limited. Trying to match two guys becomes silly too.

There are MM couples on here but not many and they are rarely well matched for us. We are obviously too damn picky so it's our own fault this particular fantasy hasn't happened yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Search for a well established bisexual MM couples profile or easier still, attend a club on bi nights

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By *obbobeanMan
over a year ago

dagenham

Put it on your status, that you are looking for 2 bi guys, I'm sure you would be inundated with replies xx

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By *uteguy06Man
over a year ago

Swindon

I'm up for it, if anyone requires my services

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

"Search for a well established bisexual MM couples profile or easier still, attend a club on bi nights

I wish it was that simple, mos MM couples on here (not all) are two straight guys

. I have attended bi nights at Chams for a while now and only ever found bi women in couples or straight singles...quite disappointing! But I shall continue the search

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By *.nottsbloke..Man
over a year ago

the vale

i have a few bi male friends would love a woman or mf couple to join us

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By *aulsussex5Man
over a year ago

nr Gatwick

I will throw my hat in the ring if bi guy needed in Surrey or Sussex to make a MMF...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im always game for bi 3somes.

To the op id recommend you to search for guys looking for guys and then they are most likely going to meet a woman aswell.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just to clarify that it is not just a case of "advertising for bi guys" etc, what the OP is saying and I agree with, is there has to be an attraction to both guys and, one would assume, the guys must find each other attractive too? Yes there are lots of bi guys, but it doesn't mean we would meet with them if there is no attraction!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just to clarify that it is not just a case of "advertising for bi guys" etc, what the OP is saying and I agree with, is there has to be an attraction to both guys and, one would assume, the guys must find each other attractive too? Yes there are lots of bi guys, but it doesn't mean we would meet with them if there is no attraction!

Attraction is an absolute must, totally agree

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By *ubberdollieWoman
over a year ago

Stoke

I too have tried to find two bi guys, found one but proving hard to find a second that I fancy, or it seems they really just wants to play with the male half . I'm thinking it will remain just a fantasy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I agree with that completely I can never understand anyone meeting someone they dont find attractive. It must be a thing of desperate times, desperate measures.

All I was thinking was that there is such a large pool of bi guys surely a 3 way attraction isnt too hard to find.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Search for a well established bisexual MM couples profile or easier still, attend a club on bi nights

I wish it was that simple, mos MM couples on here (not all) are two straight guys

. I have attended bi nights at Chams for a while now and only ever found bi women in couples or straight singles...quite disappointing! But I shall continue the search

^This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Easy peasy lemon Squeezy. Have a 5 way meet. Arrange to meet 2 couples where the blokes are Bi or Bi curious but with female partners that like it. Then you've got best of all worlds. " blokes that like a bit of dick" but not too OTT and 2 sexy women as well. Hey there's even someone spare to hold the camera. Maybe a bit shakily Perfick answer.

I'm fairly new, so please don't bash me if I'm missing something seemingly obvious."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I too have tried to find two bi guys, found one but proving hard to find a second that I fancy, or it seems they really just wants to play with the male half . I'm thinking it will remain just a fantasy?"

There are loads of bi guys available who want mmf it is just finding the right ones you feel your attracted too. If your in cheshire/ manchester and want a meet get in touch as can accom and know a lot of good lolling guys to arrange this with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree and nor should you. should always meet someone you find attractive, have found in the past when having bi mmf's the single women have made the choices of the 2 guys and then invited both along to the meet, when with couples normally been myself and them so they are already happy with each other, so just have to be attracted to me, which isnt hard

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By *aughtyladyYummymanCouple
over a year ago

In a place not far from Exeter

Add me to the list if you find any. Would love to cross this fantasy off the top of my list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After reading this thread I find myself feeling very fortunate whereas before I think I took it all a little too much for granted.

I have a bi sub fb who I have been seeing for over 4 years. I love that he is bi and it's a huge turn on to see him fucked by a dominant man.

I feel fortunate that he finds the meets with the understanding that I will join in if I am attracted to the man involved and if I am not they are happy for me to watch and direct ( I am Domme )

I now appreciate that if we didn't have this sort of arrangement I too would be in the same position of satisfying my love of seeing men play together and I would more than likely miss out.

Thank you for making me appreciate what I have. xx

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By *eterpotedMan
over a year ago

Warrington

ill do it if anyone wants to invite me plz

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By *ubberdollieWoman
over a year ago

Stoke

"ill do it if anyone wants to invite me plz

But like sooooo many blokes you put straight! So how do we ever know what you are up for?

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas

Ur so right there tis impossible

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By *.nottsbloke..Man
over a year ago

the vale

also i have notice that some of the fems on this forum that want this have blocked single guys so u cant even say hi im bi and i can meet u with a friend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well if anyone is looking for a sub bi guy in Newcastle who also loves fucking women aswell then give me a shout.

Ive also got a pretty nice sex toy I can bring to the occasion, its brand new and theres a photo of it on my profile.

Im not always free at the drop of a hat but I can always meet if arranged.

Im sorry if this sounds too much like an advert. I just thought id try and promote myself ha

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By *icockwakeyMan
over a year ago

Ossett

It's definitely a logistics thing. I'm bisexual and it's tough to find the right guy for good REAL sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happy to try and address this conundrum for you, OP, and anyone else for that matter.

It's quite tough from the single, bi guy end too!

*awaits offers flooding in*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Happy to try and address this conundrum for you, OP, and anyone else for that matter.

It's quite tough from the single, bi guy end too!

*awaits offers flooding in*"

you will be waiting a long time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single woman its easy to find two guys, just put on your profile your after two bi guys and the offers will flood in, pick two you like and mail them back, ive done this many times and never had problems organising bi MMF

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By *ubberdollieWoman
over a year ago

Stoke

"Happy to try and address this conundrum for you, OP, and anyone else for that matter.

It's quite tough from the single, bi guy end too!

*awaits offers flooding in*

you will be waiting a long time

Well now I know what sexy hot chaps are up for it... well I can't wait to get started lol

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Well now I know what sexy hot chaps are up for it... well I can't wait to get started lol "

Where? send them my way as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd happily join in if there was another bi male involved x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Stop living far away, I'm a bi guy and I have a few bi guys on my mobile :p"

my bi men have bi friends and they recommended me. They have already met and are attracted to each other already

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

It's something I would love to be involved in but the logistics of even a straight mmf can be a nightmare, finding guys who are attracted to each other as you have discovered makes it even harder

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By *ubberdollieWoman
over a year ago

Stoke

Well now I know what sexy hot chaps are up for it... well I can't wait to get started lol

Where? send them my way as well

A guy read my post on here and got intouch... love the forum!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Stop living far away, I'm a bi guy and I have a few bi guys on my mobile :p

my bi men have bi friends and they recommended me. They have already met and are attracted to each other already "

Yeah this is usually the case isnt it. I have a few bi guys I have met already just looking for a gal who likes to play with bi guys in my area.

Im sure they are about.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"As a single woman its easy to find two guys, just put on your profile your after two bi guys and the offers will flood in, pick two you like and mail them back, ive done this many times and never had problems organising bi MMF"

Easy to find, yes. Easy to find all 3 attracted to one another AND all be to be within reach - NO!

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By *allen MadonnaWoman
over a year ago

In my own little world

Gosh I have the same problem. Guys don't seem to be fussy when fucking women, but fuck me they are about another guy!!!

Too difficult to arrange so I've given up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Easy to find, yes. Easy to find all 3 attracted to one another AND all be to be within reach - NO!"

cant be that hard i've had a lot of bi sums, cant see why you finds something I find so easy to find so hard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

in my experience the easiest way to do this is find a single bi male and meet him a few times then looks for a single bi male as a couple to join you, there are hundreds of couples on here meet single guys every week

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By *aptzogMan
over a year ago

Ledbury

I could help if you were near gloucester. My mate and I very happy playing together, so just a question of whether we like lady and she likes us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a few guys I meet regularly for fun we would be happy to add a woman into the equation.

Usually bi guys meet other bi guys so meet one guy and im sure he will know someone who he has met already that would be willing to join the fun.

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By *corcherMan
over a year ago

Loughborough

Don't forget added complication of tops & bottoms. 2 bottoms could lead to less than satisfactory meeting.

It seems hard enough meeting 1 genuine person, never mind 2

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Easy to find, yes. Easy to find all 3 attracted to one another AND all be to be within reach - NO!

cant be that hard i've had a lot of bi sums, cant see why you finds something I find so easy to find so hard

Depends what you want from your bi experience - some are tops/bottoms/givers/takers/non kissers etc. I personally want the whole lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When doing a browse or search check out MM there are a few on here if you look in the right place x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Easy to find, yes. Easy to find all 3 attracted to one another AND all be to be within reach - NO!

cant be that hard i've had a lot of bi sums, cant see why you finds something I find so easy to find so hard

Depends what you want from your bi experience - some are tops/bottoms/givers/takers/non kissers etc. I personally want the whole lot

Yeah I can see that being a problem. Aren't us guys fussy eh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably browse ebay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not easy at all. I've got one guy willing, the other guy doesn't fancy him, another guy who is far too bottom for my liking, another guy who I'm not really into. I'm too far from clubs. I feel your frustration OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone having trouble finding bi guys to play with should just come up to Newcastle because I could set them up with a 4some never mind just a 3some. Theres loads of good looking bi guys who I have met that pretty much most women wouldn't turn down.

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By *icechap50Man
over a year ago

Dudley

pmsl menial task if you were a bloke you try getting a woman

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By *ubberdollieWoman
over a year ago

Stoke

Having put on here that I was looking for MMF with bi chaps, I now have 6 really hot fellas offering their services, and hope to have a right good session with a couple of them next weekend

Someone hit the nail on the head when they said look for one guy and he will have friends , and that's just what I did and got lucky!

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By *ewkinkyladMan
over a year ago

London

it could be quite hard.

I got this strange fetish of being watched by woman while I have sex with a guy. Have done it few times and I really love it.

The easiest way for me was to find a couple MF with bi-M. Since you are looking for 2 M, it would be a challenge.

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By *ungm4funMan
over a year ago

London

Count me in!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Having put on here that I was looking for MMF with bi chaps, I now have 6 really hot fellas offering their services, and hope to have a right good session with a couple of them next weekend

Someone hit the nail on the head when they said look for one guy and he will have friends , and that's just what I did and got lucky!"

That sounds awesome!!

Whyyyyy arent you anywhere near me. Id love to join this little party ha

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By *ubberdollieWoman
over a year ago

Stoke

Well if it goes well I know i'm going to be hooked!

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By *eeflower69Woman
over a year ago

edinburgh

"Find one you like, then look for another and get him to help look too.

What he said

That's what I did

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By *eeflower69Woman
over a year ago

edinburgh

I put on my profile that I was only looking for bi guys and then went from there. I have a bi guy I see regularity and I've introduced some people to him and him to me. Only one time it didn't go well.

I'm bi too and there are now 4 of up who play. 2 bi girls and 2 bi guys

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By *T_LEECouple (MM)
over a year ago

near you

ladies pm us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As we said previously, we love bi guys, and have had the fortune of playing with 2 bi guys.

We put a meet up asking for bi guys, and then had a few in the pipeline, and asked if they minded another bi guy being present.

They didn't and it was an amazing evening, had by all.

We're struggling to find a bi couple, but hopefully the new search criteria will help.

Good luck, and don't give up, boy is it worth it.

Wet n Welsh

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By *himanMan
over a year ago

chichester

Move nearer me

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By *himanMan
over a year ago

chichester

Move nearer me

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