FabSwingers.com forum: graceful decline others at parties

By *andF_fun OP Couple
over a year ago

Philly PA area

some of you saw my other posts. But, just to re-cap.

We are in the lifestyle for just under a year. Been to house and hotel parties, and repeat visits to the same club 3 times.

Been a couple since school days so, been out of the social scene for many years, but never really had to go and flirt / date others since we've been toghter a long long time.

Trying to get the social skills back, many advise that my subtle cues seem to be missed or interpreted wrong by others.

HOW DO YOU GRACEFULLY DECLINE when you're at a party or in a situation where another couple, shows intrest in you, but you're not intrested in them. Not simply because you're tired, being too picky, one half is great and the other half of the couple is just ok...

I mean to decline because they NO WAY intrest you at all.

What do you say to those who show intrest, but you aren't?? But do it nicely so the night isn't ruined.

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By *ombshellWoman
over a year ago

islington

simples.... a straight No Thanks should be suffice. Because in the world of swinging... No means No doesn't it! and that should be acceptable.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"simples.... a straight No Thanks should be suffice. Because in the world of swinging... No means No doesn't it! and that should be acceptable.

This!! As they will be swingers too they should know that this is how it is. If they choose to get pissed about it that's their problem and maybe they shouldn't be there!

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

This is pretty much covering the same ground and comments as the other 2 threads so Im closing this one

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