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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

after meeting all the requirements to meet a cpl., i'm tripped by last hurdle.. I'm not a heavy boozer.. lots of hurdles to get over just to meet ffs lol.. do most single lads here have same trouble?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't understand, they wouldn't meet you because you aren't a heavy drinker?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

yup! lol.. it's their preference apparently.. possibly an excuse to let me down gently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yup! lol.. it's their preference apparently.. possibly an excuse to let me down gently. "

Maybe you just had a lucky escape. Booze and swinging don't mix well.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

yea.. it ain't for me, was fed up as there' lots of criteria for us to meet anyway beforehand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be very glad about it because you really don't want to fit that criteria just to have fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Be very glad about it because you really don't want to fit that criteria just to have fun "

too right x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So what requirements should a couple have when they are looking to meet? Should there be a limit?

crystal

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

no. because it' what they want and entitled to say like anyone else.. it's frustrating personally wh)n u think all is well then hit you with something like that. if they said it on their profile fair enough but they didn't. it was a 'by the way'

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Id be glad they turned me down for not being a heavy drinker, screams pissed-up meet to me which Id hate.

But also don't forget some people come up with reasons why youre not suitable because sometimes thats easier for them than saying to someone that theyve changed their mind/dont fancy you/whatever the real reason is why they dont want to take if any further...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Id

be glad they turned me down for not being a heavy drinker, screams

pissed-up meet to me which Id hate.

But also don't forget some people come up with reasons why youre not

suitable because sometimes thats easier for them than saying to someone

that theyve changed their mind/dont fancy you/whatever the real reason

is why they dont want to take if any further..."

thanks. i'm only disappointed they need to get sozzled. either way they dont want to meet and i accpt it! didnt argue with them. bit bad though if they relly do need to get plastered and its not for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes, drink and swinging are not the gratest of bedmates.

howver, i dont really get these 'hoops' single guys feel they need to jump through.

we only had 1 requirement, dont bother messaging until we were looking, and loads couldnt even do this, so no wonder people have a whole list

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"yes,

drink and swinging are not the gratest of bedmates.

howver, i dont really get these 'hoops' single guys feel they need to

jump through.

we only had 1 requirement, dont bother messaging until we were looking,

and loads couldnt even do this, so no wonder people have a whole

list"

well hoops exist.. nowt i can do about it... lol yes thats cos they don't read properly or just daft lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"no. because it' what they want and entitled to say like anyone else.. it's frustrating personally wh)n u think all is well then hit you with something like that. if they said it on their profile fair enough but they didn't. it was a 'by the way' "

I agree with you completely about the drinking as that's down to individual preference. It was an earlier post where you said you were getting fed up with all their requirements which made me question you. If you're getting fed up with someone when arranging to meet them then why would you carry on?!

Not everyone is going to be able to include everything on their profiles and preferences/requirements will differ day to day and meet to meet.

Maybe you should include that you aren't a heavy drinker on your profile to avoid similar situations in the future?

crystal

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire


"Maybe you should include that you aren't a heavy drinker on your profile to avoid similar situations in the future?

crystal"

I can't imagine he will meet a similar situation. Seems a crazy request to me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe you should include that you aren't a heavy drinker on your profile to avoid similar situations in the future?

crystal

I can't imagine he will meet a similar situation. Seems a crazy request to me."

thanks, my thoughts exacty

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

re crystal wheels: dont think i said that... said after meeting all the criteria they add something like that, they are (as everyone else) can amend criteria.. I accept their decision.. just fed up they add what i think's unreasonable.. I'm allowed to moan about it am I?

lol.. i could give in to their conditions but why should i?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just mark it down to a new experience even if it is really annoying. No one should have to pretend to be something there not just to get a meet. It will happen for you just persist and be yourself and someone will be more than willing to accept you for that reason.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just

mark it down to a new experience even if it is really annoying. No one

should have to pretend to be something there not just to get a meet. It

will happen for you just persist and be yourself and someone will be

more than willing to accept you for that reason. "

cheers mate will do.

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