FabSwingers.com forum: manners

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have been here for some time now and I do think myself that manners go a long way.

say if your at a bus stop and a guy or girl said.

morning lovely day I bet you would reply back.

why would you because your face to face with the person.

so why is it that when yr internet to internet peoples manners go straight out the door.

maybe I am wrong and manners are not needed on a sex site.

So am I right or wrong please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you referring to people who delete your messages with no reply?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wrong....if I reply to a good morning how are you greeting in the real world the next question won't be when can we meet for sex?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes and those who say hi and then never return your 2nd message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its not just on sites like this, it is prevalent through out the internet.

When i looked for work years ago i got letters back saying no.

When i was looking a few years ago, via email mostly i get nothing at all, not even a thank you for applying. in this day and age setting up an email proforma is easy and just a couple of clicks sends a message.

it is rude, and makes you feel be-littled and unwanted.

rant over, lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I understand the next question wont be when are we having sex but don't label every one the same as we are not

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

The forum rules are quite clear about messages. Basically, no reply means no thank you. Some women get a lot of messages a day and struggle to respond. If you read a profile, you may see reference to no response to a message. I certainly have one. So it isn't being rude or unmannerly at all. Just one of those things. And in response to saying Good morning in the outside world, I work in a supermarket and say Morning, afternoon, hi regularly to customers and a great deal of them don't respond or just grunt at you. Now that's what I call rude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes and those who say hi and then never return your 2nd message "

Change your sex to single female or couple and see what happens to your inbox hun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"its not just on sites like this, it is prevalent through out the internet.

When i looked for work years ago i got letters back saying no.

it is rude, and makes you feel be-littled and unwanted.

rant over, lol"

so you just want a load of no thanks messages then rather than none?

how does that make you feel wanted?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are spot on manners are lovely don't ever lose them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I understand the next question wont be when are we having sex but don't label every one the same as we are not "

Every single man that ive ever replied to on this site in 5 yrs has wanted to meet......its the nature of site

If you think I have bad manners for not replying to a how are you message then I can live with that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well kermit , it's like this .

Unsolicited messages , no matter hiw nicely written can sometimes overwhelm the in box .

Answering every message can take so much time and then theres no time for meets !

On quiet days we will answer every message even if it's no thanks .

If you are waiting for a bus it takes no time at all to say hi .... typing etc .... much longer !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The internet isn't real ,its a fantasy world, where peoples egos grow,

The internet is safe sex, knee tremblers,

Manners are important in real life, without them no one would get far.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

manners on this site are apparently a one way stret whilst us poor single guys are expected to be perfect many many women wont even reply to messages that some of us have gone to the effort of writing a simple no ty would suffice shit u could even cut and paste it if its not too much effort ladies lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes and those who say hi and then never return your 2nd message

Change your sex to single female or couple and see what happens to your inbox hun x "

I agree it can be frustrating, but if you get to many messages block a men and message those yiu want, then you will see it from our perspective

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

I have good manners. I don't have to reply to unwanted messages because Fab says that it is NOT rude to ignore and because I can't be mithered with the but why brigade or the well your a fat ugly slag anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The internet isn't real ,its a fantasy world, where peoples egos grow,

The internet is safe sex, knee tremblers,

Manners are important in real life, without them no one would get far."

I totally agree, although people's true colours will show through, if your polite outside fab you tend to be polite in fan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A simple no ty is all very well but how long before the single guy wsnts to know why he keeps being rejected ?

Why should we put him through that ?

No reply = no thanks .... simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have good manners. I don't have to reply to unwanted messages because Fab says that it is NOT rude to ignore and because I can't be mithered with the but why brigade or the well your a fat ugly slag anyway."

This IS the exact reason why many dont respond.. dont blame people for not having "manners" when those rejected become much ruder by being abusive.

If they are interested in you - they WILL respond.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

I rarely reply to messages I'm not interested in. Mainly because its tedious saying no thanks to people who, had they read your profile in the first place, would of saved themselves the bother in messaging in the first place!

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

This is the second one of these running today ( could be more but I have not read all the forum yet)

Some people reply some don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yay! Knew before I looked that this was going to be a whinge about getting no replies

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