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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Between joining fab and having your first meet?

Now I've seen sooo many forum posts asking' for opinions on profiles and I'm not aasking that (although constructive criticism and hints are always welcome).

Just curious how soon after joining did you get your first meet?

If you were not having much luck what did you do to improve?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mines was within four hours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About half an hour

.. was as a couple though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About a week. Can't remember exactly it was a few years ago!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When we first joined about 5 yrs ago it was a couple of months,never been one to rush into anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think it was about a week or so

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Mine was a month or so, though I did cancel my profile after a week, as was very intimidated!

Now, I'm more thick skinned and know what I want and look for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Around 3 weeks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same day I joined. Was just out of a long term relationship and went a bit wild

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What kind of meets are these? Single men/single female/couples?

From the sounds of it we're slacking lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Long waits Jeeze

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

within hours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few days I think xx

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By *RYBBWCouple
over a year ago

Leeds.

About five weeks.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

About an hour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few weeks, that's why don't trust people who been on a year and no verifications!!

Heard all the bullshit, the people we have met don't give out verifications etc etc.

It was quite easy to meet on here when first joined and don't think that has changed much.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wouldn't go near anyone who had Beebe o longer than a mobrh and isn't verified one way or another, I mean it's not hard to go onto webcam and prove your genuine!

We''ve met socially, been on webcam, been to the local swingers club and had a lot of single male attention but yet to have a single fem or couples meet.

I'm not the most patient of girls, I'm seeing soo many gorgeous people on here and I'm getting eager to play lol

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By *utmegsMan
over a year ago

Closer than you think

Within a few days, although I often go for long periods without meeting anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ages and ages. Not really into clubs but done webcams etc. Asked for public meets but not yet been successful. Originally joined with a cyber friend who has done well but they de-friended me a little while ago. But I make the most. Have some good chats on here.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

First 7 days = 7 meets for me

And yes I work

(and yes, I'm bragging about it)

And yes, I've done it several times since

(and yes, I'm bragging about that too)

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4 days..

3 were spent doing research, reading forums, reading profiles, looking how the site operated and crafting a good and honest profile.

i was lucky in timing too because i was a week away from a local social meet and by attending that and a few judicious uses of tactical emails, i was known to quite a few when i arrived and then just worked the room, introducing myself and chatting.

met socially, with a young lady, who recommended me to her friend who chaperoned me to a party at Chunkymuffins and it snowballed from there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll be honest. We've still met anyone off here & we've been here a long time HOWEVER we don't do clubs & are only wanting to meet up with a single fem. (we've met women from other sites, but of course we can't prove that here)

It all depends one what you're looking for. Single women are always going to have more chance than the guys, & other couples looking for a full swing are always going to have more chance than those of us looking for a threesome.

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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago

Rockford

13 days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Next day...had a social with a guy whose profile said he was Fifty but looked at least 65. he was a nice guy to chat to though

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

I joined in September, arranged to meet a guy within a couple of weeks. Got him the send me a face pic.. His profile pics were about 10 years old!! Lol. I didn't know about filters etc and got a bit pissed off. Deleted, started again with my head more screwed on and had my first meet within a month x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mine was a month or so, though I did cancel my profile after a week, as was very intimidated!

Now, I'm more thick skinned and know what I want and look for "

Me too. Too many messages and I ran for cover

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm still looking. I do have a verification from the couple who introduced me to the scene. We both joined here after our meet and i only recently think i got my profile into a reasonable state. So fingers crossed someone takes an interest or i might have to go a little while longer heh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

about 3 months, and then i was pimped out in the chat room, lol.

still loved the meet though.

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By *obbyCock36Man
over a year ago

Bournemouth


"First 7 days = 7 meets for me

And yes I work

(and yes, I'm bragging about it)

And yes, I've done it several times since

(and yes, I'm bragging about that too)

Lol

"

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Was wanking within minutes....

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London

This wasn't thie first site I joined. On the other site I think it took me about a month I think. Was about 5 or 6 years ago so can't really remember.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a meet from the other fab site and he told me about fab swingers, and started meeting week I joined, but I am rather special

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Same day I joined. Was just out of a long term relationship and went a bit wild "

Yea, same day - someone had messed me about, and that always gets my blood up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About a week. What can I say, I'm fussy!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't exactly remember - was on another swinging site also at time - it's all a merged haze now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I started doing the clubs way before joining fabs lol does anyone remember the dating channel lol used to get meets of there lol and a guy off there introduced me to the clubs and we are still great friends x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was on the train when I joined and missed my ferry as I sorted a meet before got off the train lol work was not pleased

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By *ixmaMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

I got lucky mine was within a week. Got luckier even more as it was meant to be with a couple but the wife had also invited a single woman to so it ended up as a horny foursome. It's been downhill all the way after that, lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ours was about a week n worst meet to date pmsl

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By *irtyDee33Woman
over a year ago

South Yorkshire

A few days

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands

I heard about this site in a club, so when I first joined, I barely had time to put in profile text before I was heading out for a meet with someone I'd chatted to in the club, he was on here, so I guess in answer to the op, a few hours.

Then when I had finally begun to sift through the pm's, I met with another gentleman 2 days later. (that was before I discovered filters)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couple of days for me

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By *icechap50Man
over a year ago

Dudley

I was in no rush had a bedding in period

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"4 days..

3 were spent doing research, reading forums, reading profiles, looking how the site operated and crafting a good and honest profile.

i was lucky in timing too because i was a week away from a local social meet and by attending that and a few judicious uses of tactical emails, i was known to quite a few when i arrived and then just worked the room, introducing myself and chatting.

met socially, with a young lady, who recommended me to her friend who chaperoned me to a party at Chunkymuffins and it snowballed from there."
Single men take note. This is how you should do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mines was within four hours "

Mine too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ours was within a week. And many more since. :D xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Less than a week- that was some mm fun for G then a week til mmf 3some lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Joined but didn't use the site for about 3 weeks, started browsing and had my first meet within 48 hours.

Not had many meets as I am picky and the bar has been set quite high

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

7 weeks but I was not in a great rush and I am still not now a year later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I joined in April and didn't have my first fab meet until January. That was my choice though because wasn't ready x

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

met the same day I joined. And met a few others within a few weeks.

Not meeting much just now though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Took me about two months to find a lady who wanted to meet up. Found a good friend, had a great afternoon out, and finally got verified. Am still looking for a playmate though. Rod.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I came off due to time wasters but came back on last month and met my first in a couple of days but not had anything since I must be doing something wrong

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

Ten days...

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By *nnodKramCouple
over a year ago

Dover

This is very true. Been on here about a month now, looking for a certain sort of girl that seems to be as rare as hens teeth.

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By *.nottsbloke..Man
over a year ago

the vale

I had a meet once it was nice

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"met the same day I joined. And met a few others within a few weeks.

Not meeting much just now though."

But I'm hopeful you'll get a chance to meet me for this coffee soon though

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

Mine was on the same day I joined the site with a couple..and it was their first meet too.

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