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"I think its an interesting topic, just on the wrong page. " seriously????. | |||
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"Why would this topic offend anyone? Fat/thin/in between is a lifestyle choice, it's not like skin colour that you are born with. If you are not happy about being labelled in any if the size groups you can either do something about it, ignore the OP and carry on being happy as you are (and good on you if thst's the case). Bleating on about how fat people shouldn't be called fat because they are fat smacks of childishness" I am not offended in the slightest, I think adapting sexual positions due to the size of both/one participant is valid and worthy of discussion. It is more often than not the wording of said discussion, the one is better than the other position large v's slim, or disengenuous comments made that leads to offence. and some just love being outraged. | |||
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"Why would this topic offend anyone? Fat/thin/in between is a lifestyle choice, it's not like skin colour that you are born with. If you are not happy about being labelled in any if the size groups you can either do something about it, ignore the OP and carry on being happy as you are (and good on you if thst's the case). Bleating on about how fat people shouldn't be called fat because they are fat smacks of childishness I am not offended in the slightest, I think adapting sexual positions due to the size of both/one participant is valid and worthy of discussion. It is more often than not the wording of said discussion, the one is better than the other position large v's slim, or disengenuous comments made that leads to offence. and some just love being outraged." It could be a great discussion. It won't be though. Outraged people.
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"When ever ive read these type of postings not once have i seen it referring to Men...obviously all the men out there are just perfect!!! still to find one! haha.." My ex was very large. We could only have sex with me riding him. His legs and stomach made it difficult to get to his cock. I can't ride skinny guys if they are laying down because it makes their cock too low down. They need a pillow under their arse. Other positions work better. | |||
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"Yes, though I understand its a sensative subject. Firstly just cos you dont like a topic what gives you the right to deny others the chance to debate it. Secondly I fined large and stick thin women unattractive and have wondered how some of them manage sexually. Note, I mean no offence. " Define large please? I am a 16-18 and weigh just under 16 stone, so I consider myself large | |||
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"Yes, though I understand its a sensative subject. Firstly just cos you dont like a topic what gives you the right to deny others the chance to debate it. Secondly I fined large and stick thin women unattractive and have wondered how some of them manage sexually. Note, I mean no offence. " If you don't wanted fuck them why wonder how to do it? OP where there's a will there's a way. If you want to fuck someone that's 30 stone you'll find a way to do it same as if you wanted to fuck someone less than 6 stone but are afraid of hurting them then you would adapt your style to make it pleasurable fir all involved. As with everything it's about personal preference. | |||
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"Its a very offensive subject, that shouldnt be discussed on a light hearted fun forum." You seriously think that description describes fab? | |||
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"I`ve often wondered, at what point, women were too fat or thin to fuck. I`m on a quest to try to find out. The thinnest has been a 6 and a half stone, ex anorexic. She stuggled to take my full length. Once it was in, she liked to be carried around the room, impailed on it. Can`t imagine anyone lighter taking it....unless you know different. The biggest was a lady who said she was a size 28. Missionary position was out because her thighs blocked the entrance to her pussy. Just managed doggy, by pulling her arse cheeks apart. Reckon these are the limits. Am I right?" Oh dear lord i'd hate to be part of some research project to find out the answer! Clearly you are happy to screw anyone, but extremely insensitive to the bigger ladies who last week had to put up with some bloke claiming they were all bitter!!!! Can you blame them? | |||
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"Why would this topic offend anyone? Fat/thin/in between is a lifestyle choice, it's not like skin colour that you are born with. If you are not happy about being labelled in any if the size groups you can either do something about it, ignore the OP and carry on being happy as you are (and good on you if thst's the case). Bleating on about how fat people shouldn't be called fat because they are fat smacks of childishness I am not offended in the slightest, I think adapting sexual positions due to the size of both/one participant is valid and worthy of discussion. It is more often than not the wording of said discussion, the one is better than the other position large v's slim, or disengenuous comments made that leads to offence. and some just love being outraged." And don't forget the white knights leaping to tge defence of the offended.
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"Im just reminded of childhood fatty and skinny rhymes when I read this thread Immature I know but then so it the original content of the thread"is that the one about being in the bath? | |||
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"Why would this topic offend anyone? Fat/thin/in between is a lifestyle choice, it's not like skin colour that you are born with. If you are not happy about being labelled in any if the size groups you can either do something about it, ignore the OP and carry on being happy as you are (and good on you if thst's the case). Bleating on about how fat people shouldn't be called fat because they are fat smacks of childishness" how ignorant can you be in 1 post, to many overweight people it is not a lifestyle choice and in fact a result of a condition or illness, and people of any shape and size should be able to have sex without someone telling them your too fat/skinny. | |||
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" And don't forget the white knights leaping to tge defence of the offended.
I don't see anything wrong with the OP's post. "I see this comment quite a lot and never understand it. Is it now wrong to stick up for someone? If it's obvious, it is purely being used to try and gain access to their knickers, then maybe. As a general rule though, why should someone be put down for trying to help somebody? | |||
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"Its a very offensive subject, that shouldnt be discussed on a light hearted fun forum. You seriously think that description describes fab?" no personally i dont, but it doesnt change the fact that light hearted and fun is what its meant to be. | |||
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" And don't forget the white knights leaping to tge defence of the offended.
I don't see anything wrong with the OP's post.
I see this comment quite a lot and never understand it. Is it now wrong to stick up for someone?
If it's obvious, it is purely being used to try and gain access to their knickers, then maybe. As a general rule though, why should someone be put down for trying to help somebody?"I don't have enough thumbs to thumbs up this post | |||
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"Why would this topic offend anyone? Fat/thin/in between is a lifestyle choice, it's not like skin colour that you are born with. If you are not happy about being labelled in any if the size groups you can either do something about it, ignore the OP and carry on being happy as you are (and good on you if thst's the case). Bleating on about how fat people shouldn't be called fat because they are fat smacks of childishness how ignorant can you be in 1 post, to many overweight people it is not a lifestyle choice and in fact a result of a condition or illness, and people of any shape and size should be able to have sex without someone telling them your too fat/skinny." Being FAT is NOT a result of an illness or condition.... Its as a result of putting too much food in your mouth and too little exercise... You can make all the pathetic excuses you like! But that is simply what it comes down too! Cant abide this politically correct bullshit we all have to pander too! People are fat because they EAT TOO MUCH!! Deal with it! | |||
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"Why would this topic offend anyone? Fat/thin/in between is a lifestyle choice, it's not like skin colour that you are born with. If you are not happy about being labelled in any if the size groups you can either do something about it, ignore the OP and carry on being happy as you are (and good on you if thst's the case). Bleating on about how fat people shouldn't be called fat because they are fat smacks of childishness how ignorant can you be in 1 post, to many overweight people it is not a lifestyle choice and in fact a result of a condition or illness, and people of any shape and size should be able to have sex without someone telling them your too fat/skinny. Being FAT is NOT a result of an illness or condition.... Its as a result of putting too much food in your mouth and too little exercise... You can make all the pathetic excuses you like! But that is simply what it comes down too! Cant abide this politically correct bullshit we all have to pander too! People are fat because they EAT TOO MUCH!! Deal with it!" Rubbish. Some people are fat because they are greedy and eat too much- that's me. Some people put on weight due to illness, immobility, medication. I agree politically correct bullshit is... bullshit!! However your comment about why people are fat was incorrect. | |||
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"Why would this topic offend anyone? Fat/thin/in between is a lifestyle choice, it's not like skin colour that you are born with. If you are not happy about being labelled in any if the size groups you can either do something about it, ignore the OP and carry on being happy as you are (and good on you if thst's the case). Bleating on about how fat people shouldn't be called fat because they are fat smacks of childishness how ignorant can you be in 1 post, to many overweight people it is not a lifestyle choice and in fact a result of a condition or illness, and people of any shape and size should be able to have sex without someone telling them your too fat/skinny. Being FAT is NOT a result of an illness or condition.... Its as a result of putting too much food in your mouth and too little exercise... You can make all the pathetic excuses you like! But that is simply what it comes down too! Cant abide this politically correct bullshit we all have to pander too! People are fat because they EAT TOO MUCH!! Deal with it!" You do realise how utterly up yourself your comments are.. as someone with a weight problem that is f all to do with being lazy or eating to much I find your comment utterly offensive.. yes I'm fat.. I actually don't really care about that but it's still possible to use the word offensively. Same as with colour, or anything.. It's when posts are deliberately offensive... Cali | |||
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I don't see anything wrong with the OP's post.
I see this comment quite a lot and never understand it. Is it now wrong to stick up for someone?
If it's obvious, it is purely being used to try and gain access to their knickers, then maybe. As a general rule though, why should someone be put down for trying to help somebody?"If someone puts another person down for defending someone else I think they are an arsehole. If someone defends someone purely in the hope of getting into their knickers... I think they are an arsehole. | |||
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"I looked up 'how fat people have sex' because of another discussion and out of genuine curiosity. I've never had sex with somebody obese and even though I've seen in clubs I've never studied the logistics. So I was genuinely curious and then interested to read an honest detailed account of problems, positions, maneuvering excess fat during sex etc. If fat people find my morbid curiosity offensive, seems to me the problem is theirs, and maybe some thought should be given to why you're not comfortable having it discussed on a sex site." | |||
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"Why would this topic offend anyone? Fat/thin/in between is a lifestyle choice, it's not like skin colour that you are born with. If you are not happy about being labelled in any if the size groups you can either do something about it, ignore the OP and carry on being happy as you are (and good on you if thst's the case). Bleating on about how fat people shouldn't be called fat because they are fat smacks of childishness how ignorant can you be in 1 post, to many overweight people it is not a lifestyle choice and in fact a result of a condition or illness, and people of any shape and size should be able to have sex without someone telling them your too fat/skinny. Being FAT is NOT a result of an illness or condition.... Its as a result of putting too much food in your mouth and too little exercise... You can make all the pathetic excuses you like! But that is simply what it comes down too! Cant abide this politically correct bullshit we all have to pander too! People are fat because they EAT TOO MUCH!! Deal with it!" Disagree to an extent. Fir the most part you are right. It is about eating too much or eating the wrong things however there are some conditions that will cause weight gain but then it's up to that individual to educate themselves as to what works for them. I am type 2 diabetic with insulin resistance. I have done a lot of online research to find out what will help me lose weight. The NHS promote a balanced diet high in carbohydrates which doesn't work for me and makes me put in weight. I eat very low amounts of carbohydrates and for the first time in my whole life I am losing weight. Some people are unable to exercise in the traditional sense but again, where there's a will there's a way. Adapted exercise can be done along with healthy eating. Other conditions and medication CAN cause weight gain but it means that you have to work extra hard at minimising their effect. | |||
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"I looked up 'how fat people have sex' because of another discussion and out of genuine curiosity. I've never had sex with somebody obese and even though I've seen in clubs I've never studied the logistics. So I was genuinely curious and then interested to read an honest detailed account of problems, positions, maneuvering excess fat during sex etc. If fat people find my morbid curiosity offensive, seems to me the problem is theirs, and maybe some thought should be given to why you're not comfortable having it discussed on a sex site." 
i was the original poster that said your thread was disgraceful and i am not fat, or overweight, but what i find offensive is that you assume that there is a line where it becomes to fat/skinny to have sex, whereas maybe in your opinion or to your preference you have a line, doesnt mean theres one for everyone, and people should be able to have sex without seeing posts like this telling them there to fat/skinny. | |||
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"I`ve often wondered, at what point, women were too fat or thin to fuck. I`m on a quest to try to find out. The thinnest has been a 6 and a half stone, ex anorexic. She stuggled to take my full length. Once it was in, she liked to be carried around the room, impailed on it. Can`t imagine anyone lighter taking it....unless you know different. The biggest was a lady who said she was a size 28. Missionary position was out because her thighs blocked the entrance to her pussy. Just managed doggy, by pulling her arse cheeks apart. Reckon these are the limits. Am I right?" You sound an absolute delight!  | |||
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"Why would this topic offend anyone? Fat/thin/in between is a lifestyle choice, it's not like skin colour that you are born with. If you are not happy about being labelled in any if the size groups you can either do something about it, ignore the OP and carry on being happy as you are (and good on you if thst's the case). Bleating on about how fat people shouldn't be called fat because they are fat smacks of childishness how ignorant can you be in 1 post, to many overweight people it is not a lifestyle choice and in fact a result of a condition or illness, and people of any shape and size should be able to have sex without someone telling them your too fat/skinny. Being FAT is NOT a result of an illness or condition.... Its as a result of putting too much food in your mouth and too little exercise... You can make all the pathetic excuses you like! But that is simply what it comes down too! Cant abide this politically correct bullshit we all have to pander too! People are fat because they EAT TOO MUCH!! Deal with it!" what absolute uneducated ignorant rubbish. | |||
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"I looked up 'how fat people have sex' because of another discussion and out of genuine curiosity. I've never had sex with somebody obese and even though I've seen in clubs I've never studied the logistics. So I was genuinely curious and then interested to read an honest detailed account of problems, positions, maneuvering excess fat during sex etc. If fat people find my morbid curiosity offensive, seems to me the problem is theirs, and maybe some thought should be given to why you're not comfortable having it discussed on a sex site.
i was the original poster that said your thread was disgraceful and i am not fat, or overweight, but what i find offensive is that you assume that there is a line where it becomes to fat/skinny to have sex, whereas maybe in your opinion or to your preference you have a line, doesnt mean theres one for everyone, and people should be able to have sex without seeing posts like this telling them there to fat/skinny."Doubt it - that was my first comment! re. the diabetes comment I'm confused. I thought type 2 was largely caused by being fat and that losing weight was important after diagnosis. I'm confused that it can prevent weight loss? | |||
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"I'm fat because I enjoy food and eat too much of it. I can lose my weight and have done many times before, but I'm happy as I am for the time being. But there are a lot of overweight men on here too, but everything seems to be focused on fat women? I'm sure it would be a lot harder to fuck a fat man " | |||
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"Why would this topic offend anyone? Fat/thin/in between is a lifestyle choice, it's not like skin colour that you are born with. If you are not happy about being labelled in any if the size groups you can either do something about it, ignore the OP and carry on being happy as you are (and good on you if thst's the case). Bleating on about how fat people shouldn't be called fat because they are fat smacks of childishness how ignorant can you be in 1 post, to many overweight people it is not a lifestyle choice and in fact a result of a condition or illness, and people of any shape and size should be able to have sex without someone telling them your too fat/skinny." Not every person that is fat/ overweight has an illness or condition that causes it. I think you would probably find that most are lazy and have bad eating habits or don't exercise in the right way. Even if people do have a condition or illness that will cause them to be overweight some use that as an excuse not to exercise or have a healthy diet. | |||
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"Why would this topic offend anyone? Fat/thin/in between is a lifestyle choice, it's not like skin colour that you are born with. If you are not happy about being labelled in any if the size groups you can either do something about it, ignore the OP and carry on being happy as you are (and good on you if thst's the case). Bleating on about how fat people shouldn't be called fat because they are fat smacks of childishness how ignorant can you be in 1 post, to many overweight people it is not a lifestyle choice and in fact a result of a condition or illness, and people of any shape and size should be able to have sex without someone telling them your too fat/skinny. Not every person that is fat/ overweight has an illness or condition that causes it. I think you would probably find that most are lazy and have bad eating habits or don't exercise in the right way. Even if people do have a condition or illness that will cause them to be overweight some use that as an excuse not to exercise or have a healthy diet. " this is not what the threads about and no one has said that anyway. | |||
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"Why would this topic offend anyone? Fat/thin/in between is a lifestyle choice, it's not like skin colour that you are born with. If you are not happy about being labelled in any if the size groups you can either do something about it, ignore the OP and carry on being happy as you are (and good on you if thst's the case). Bleating on about how fat people shouldn't be called fat because they are fat smacks of childishness how ignorant can you be in 1 post, to many overweight people it is not a lifestyle choice and in fact a result of a condition or illness, and people of any shape and size should be able to have sex without someone telling them your too fat/skinny. Being FAT is NOT a result of an illness or condition.... Its as a result of putting too much food in your mouth and too little exercise... You can make all the pathetic excuses you like! But that is simply what it comes down too! Cant abide this politically correct bullshit we all have to pander too! People are fat because they EAT TOO MUCH!! Deal with it!" I actually agree, tho there are some conditions that cause people to be over weight its a very very small minority, the vast majority of people are over weight because of their own doing, some just find it hard to accept so blame medication and ill health for their weight when in actual fact there's nothing wrong with them at all, just a lack of will power I work with a lot of obese people who have many health problem due to their weight but in their mind they are fat because they are ill when in actual fact its the other way round and if they lost weigh their problems would get better but you cant get that though to a lot of people That's no disrespect to people who do have genuine health problems controlling their weight, be that over or under weight, its just most people with weight problems do not have a medical reason for being obese | |||
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"Do you read before you reply, i no you started this thread, but im saying i was the 1st to tell you how disgraceful it is, and in reply to your if fat people are offended its there problem comment, im neither fat or overweight and i find it offensive to talk like that." What are you reading? He didn't start the thread!  | |||
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"Why would this topic offend anyone? Fat/thin/in between is a lifestyle choice, it's not like skin colour that you are born with. If you are not happy about being labelled in any if the size groups you can either do something about it, ignore the OP and carry on being happy as you are (and good on you if thst's the case). Bleating on about how fat people shouldn't be called fat because they are fat smacks of childishness how ignorant can you be in 1 post, to many overweight people it is not a lifestyle choice and in fact a result of a condition or illness, and people of any shape and size should be able to have sex without someone telling them your too fat/skinny. Being FAT is NOT a result of an illness or condition.... Its as a result of putting too much food in your mouth and too little exercise... You can make all the pathetic excuses you like! But that is simply what it comes down too! Cant abide this politically correct bullshit we all have to pander too! People are fat because they EAT TOO MUCH!! Deal with it! I actually agree, tho there are some conditions that cause people to be over weight its a very very small minority, the vast majority of people are over weight because of their own doing, some just find it hard to accept so blame medication and ill health for their weight when in actual fact there's nothing wrong with them at all, just a lack of will power I work with a lot of obese people who have many health problem due to their weight but in their mind they are fat because they are ill when in actual fact its the other way round and if they lost weigh their problems would get better but you cant get that though to a lot of people That's no disrespect to people who do have genuine health problems controlling their weight, be that over or under weight, its just most people with weight problems do not have a medical reason for being obese "
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"Do you read before you reply, i no you started this thread, but im saying i was the 1st to tell you how disgraceful it is, and in reply to your if fat people are offended its there problem comment, im neither fat or overweight and i find it offensive to talk like that. What are you reading? He didn't start the thread! "i got mixed up, mixed 2 people with each other as they sounded similar  | |||
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"I looked up 'how fat people have sex' because of another discussion and out of genuine curiosity. I've never had sex with somebody obese and even though I've seen in clubs I've never studied the logistics. So I was genuinely curious and then interested to read an honest detailed account of problems, positions, maneuvering excess fat during sex etc. If fat people find my morbid curiosity offensive, seems to me the problem is theirs, and maybe some thought should be given to why you're not comfortable having it discussed on a sex site.
i was the original poster that said your thread was disgraceful and i am not fat, or overweight, but what i find offensive is that you assume that there is a line where it becomes to fat/skinny to have sex, whereas maybe in your opinion or to your preference you have a line, doesnt mean theres one for everyone, and people should be able to have sex without seeing posts like this telling them there to fat/skinny.
Doubt it - that was my first comment!
re. the diabetes comment I'm confused. I thought type 2 was largely caused by being fat and that losing weight was important after diagnosis. I'm confused that it can prevent weight loss?"It can be ONE of the causes but so can genetics. There are plenty of skinny/slim type2's aaround as well. It's caused by your pancreas' Beta cells no longer being able to produce enough insulin or you body's cells not being able to accept the insulin in your bloodstream which is what causes people to gain weight hence them needing to learn what foods don't require a lot of insulin to break them down. | |||
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"Why would this topic offend anyone? Fat/thin/in between is a lifestyle choice, it's not like skin colour that you are born with. If you are not happy about being labelled in any if the size groups you can either do something about it, ignore the OP and carry on being happy as you are (and good on you if thst's the case). Bleating on about how fat people shouldn't be called fat because they are fat smacks of childishness how ignorant can you be in 1 post, to many overweight people it is not a lifestyle choice and in fact a result of a condition or illness, and people of any shape and size should be able to have sex without someone telling them your too fat/skinny. Not every person that is fat/ overweight has an illness or condition that causes it. I think you would probably find that most are lazy and have bad eating habits or don't exercise in the right way. Even if people do have a condition or illness that will cause them to be overweight some use that as an excuse not to exercise or have a healthy diet. this is not what the threads about and no one has said that anyway." Who are you the forum police?? I was responding to what has been qouted. All posts move on the same as any discussion. | |||
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"Fat people know they are fat, they don't need reminding of it constantly by skinny Minnie's lol. I agree that the problem with 99.99% of obese people is lack of exercise and too much KFC, myself included. And although there is an 'ism' towards fat people, comparing it to racism is the most stupid thing I've ever read in my life. People can choose their figure, but they can't choose the colour of their skin for god sake. I get all sorts of messages on here from 'BBW? There's nothing beautiful about fat people!' ... To ... 'Your pictures are vile? Have you seen them? Cover yourself up you fat mess'. Uncalled for definitely, but I just block them and let it go over my head. The moral of the thread is if you're easily offended by something then don't read it "why should we come on an open, fun, lighthearted (supposedly) forum and see utter rubbish like this thread, the site encourages to report innappropriate content, or offensive posts, whats the point in that if you just ignore them, it all helps to make the site a better place for everyone by getting rid of moronic rubbish like this thread. | |||
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"Fat people know they are fat, they don't need reminding of it constantly by skinny Minnie's lol. I agree that the problem with 99.99% of obese people is lack of exercise and too much KFC, myself included. And although there is an 'ism' towards fat people, comparing it to racism is the most stupid thing I've ever read in my life. People can choose their figure, but they can't choose the colour of their skin for god sake. I get all sorts of messages on here from 'BBW? There's nothing beautiful about fat people!' ... To ... 'Your pictures are vile? Have you seen them? Cover yourself up you fat mess'. Uncalled for definitely, but I just block them and let it go over my head. The moral of the thread is if you're easily offended by something then don't read it
why should we come on an open, fun, lighthearted (supposedly) forum and see utter rubbish like this thread, the site encourages to report innappropriate content, or offensive posts, whats the point in that if you just ignore them, it all helps to make the site a better place for everyone by getting rid of moronic rubbish like this thread."But everyone's entitled to express their opinions, just like you're doing. Agreed it could have been done in a better way, and presuming once you get to a certain weight that you can't have sex anymore is ignorant, but it's down to personal preference at the end of the day. What exactly is it that you are finding offensive?? | |||
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"I`ve often wondered, at what point, women were too fat or thin to fuck. I`m on a quest to try to find out. The thinnest has been a 6 and a half stone, ex anorexic. She stuggled to take my full length. Once it was in, she liked to be carried around the room, impailed on it. Can`t imagine anyone lighter taking it....unless you know different. The biggest was a lady who said she was a size 28. Missionary position was out because her thighs blocked the entrance to her pussy. Just managed doggy, by pulling her arse cheeks apart. Reckon these are the limits. Am I right?" Extremely skinny people are more likely to have trouble with sex because they often have frail bones and may struggle with vigorous activity. Also the fact that there is little muscle or fat around the bones to cushion them may make some positions uncomfortable. Not sure about any issues with overweight women... | |||
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"I looked up 'how fat people have sex' because of another discussion and out of genuine curiosity. I've never had sex with somebody obese and even though I've seen in clubs I've never studied the logistics. So I was genuinely curious and then interested to read an honest detailed account of problems, positions, maneuvering excess fat during sex etc. If fat people find my morbid curiosity offensive, seems to me the problem is theirs, and maybe some thought should be given to why you're not comfortable having it discussed on a sex site.
i was the original poster that said your thread was disgraceful and i am not fat, or overweight, but what i find offensive is that you assume that there is a line where it becomes to fat/skinny to have sex, whereas maybe in your opinion or to your preference you have a line, doesnt mean theres one for everyone, and people should be able to have sex without seeing posts like this telling them there to fat/skinny.
Doubt it - that was my first comment!
re. the diabetes comment I'm confused. I thought type 2 was largely caused by being fat and that losing weight was important after diagnosis. I'm confused that it can prevent weight loss?"My ex husband developed type two diabetes in his 40s. He is, and has never been overweight. At 6ft he weighs 12 1/2 stone: goes to the gym five times a week and walks everywhere. I on the other hand...well, lets just say just typing this tired me out! | |||
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"Why would this topic offend anyone? Fat/thin/in between is a lifestyle choice, it's not like skin colour that you are born with. If you are not happy about being labelled in any if the size groups you can either do something about it, ignore the OP and carry on being happy as you are (and good on you if thst's the case). Bleating on about how fat people shouldn't be called fat because they are fat smacks of childishness how ignorant can you be in 1 post, to many overweight people it is not a lifestyle choice and in fact a result of a condition or illness, and people of any shape and size should be able to have sex without someone telling them your too fat/skinny. Not every person that is fat/ overweight has an illness or condition that causes it. I think you would probably find that most are lazy and have bad eating habits or don't exercise in the right way. Even if people do have a condition or illness that will cause them to be overweight some use that as an excuse not to exercise or have a healthy diet. this is not what the threads about and no one has said that anyway. Who are you the forum police?? I was responding to what has been qouted. All posts move on the same as any discussion. again the post you quoted immediatly before did not say that, and you started to sidetrack from the content of the quote. You obviously don't know how a discussion works. Possibly your own insecurities is why you are taking offence over a post about weight!?" oh dear, realise you were mistaken so resort to try and insult, well as i have already stated im neither fat or over weight, its the fact that some thinks its ok to talk about fellow people like this thread has done that offends me. | |||
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"Somebody messaged me to explain that apparently some treatment for type 2 diabetes makes it difficult to lose weight which I wasn't aware of. ... " There is a lot of ignorance around diabetes .. even between the type 1 and type 2 communities; the former don't like to be tarred by the same 'fat and lazy' brush that the latter are brushed with, but this is not always (or usually?) the case. You can be genetically predisposed to it, some research has suggested sleep patterns can have an effect, damage or simple disfunction of the pancreas is another reason and sometimes (perhaps in the majority of cases) we just don't know. I'm type 2, relatively fit, 5'11", 82kg, BMI 25, 32w and I've always been that way. One point with regards to the medication is that I found that the particular statin prescribed caused a great sense of apathy which of course could spiral into weight gain if you are not aware of what's happening. | |||
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"Somebody messaged me to explain that apparently some treatment for type 2 diabetes makes it difficult to lose weight which I wasn't aware of. ... There is a lot of ignorance around diabetes .. even between the type 1 and type 2 communities; the former don't like to be tarred by the same 'fat and lazy' brush that the latter are brushed with, but this is not always (or usually?) the case. You can be genetically predisposed to it, some research has suggested sleep patterns can have an effect, damage or simple disfunction of the pancreas is another reason and sometimes (perhaps in the majority of cases) we just don't know. I'm type 2, relatively fit, 5'11", 82kg, BMI 25, 32w and I've always been that way. One point with regards to the medication is that I found that the particular statin prescribed caused a great sense of apathy which of course could spiral into weight gain if you are not aware of what's happening. " I was put through the tests last year. The doctor said he thought it unlikely as I "looked fit" - so I guess that reflects something of medical opinion. But clearly it's not just a fat thing. Besides that bit of my education I still think it's valid for people to debate how people have sex on a sex site. | |||
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"He isnt expressing personal preference though, he is stating that theres a line somewhere that says when it becomes unaceptable to have sex regarding been to fat/skinny." My reading of the opening post is that he is asking about physical limitations. He does not mention unacceptability, just at what stage it becomes impossible for people to physically be able to have sex. In the case of skinny people he is saying that they perhaps can't physically take a cock inside due to it being too big. In the case of larger people he states it may be impossible due to fat layers preventing penetration... At no stage did me mention preference. | |||
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I know we have gone off the thread, but no wonder larger ladies are offended when they have to put up with utter tossers sending nasty messages about their size, that's just horrible!
Back to the thread, I have had sex with a rather large chap and he squished me , so I went on top but struggled to get my legs over him. But I have seen a very obese couple doing the deed at a club and they were clearly ( by the noises) able to accomplish this feat!
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"Why is it posts like this are mostly written by men about women !!!! We all come in different shapes and sizes that's life . Is it really necessary to post something like this . It really does not do the guys any favours re possible meets in the future !!!! "I think some of the guys on here should take a look in the mirror and stop being insensitive pricks ! Everyone is a different shape and size and harping on about what you have done and what it was like is nothing more than bigheaded , some things just dont need saying as they can offend others and give the less insensitive guys on here a bad rep ! | |||
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"Fat people know they are fat, they don't need reminding of it constantly by skinny Minnie's lol. I agree that the problem with 99.99% of obese people is lack of exercise and too much KFC, myself included. And although there is an 'ism' towards fat people, comparing it to racism is the most stupid thing I've ever read in my life. People can choose their figure, but they can't choose the colour of their skin for god sake. I get all sorts of messages on here from 'BBW? There's nothing beautiful about fat people!' ... To ... 'Your pictures are vile? Have you seen them? Cover yourself up you fat mess'. Uncalled for definitely, but I just block them and let it go over my head. The moral of the thread is if you're easily offended by something then don't read it
why should we come on an open, fun, lighthearted (supposedly) forum and see utter rubbish like this thread, the site encourages to report innappropriate content, or offensive posts, whats the point in that if you just ignore them, it all helps to make the site a better place for everyone by getting rid of moronic rubbish like this thread.
But everyone's entitled to express their opinions, just like you're doing. Agreed it could have been done in a better way, and presuming once you get to a certain weight that you can't have sex anymore is ignorant, but it's down to personal preference at the end of the day.
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"Why would this topic offend anyone? Fat/thin/in between is a lifestyle choice, it's not like skin colour that you are born with. If you are not happy about being labelled in any if the size groups you can either do something about it, ignore the OP and carry on being happy as you are (and good on you if thst's the case). Bleating on about how fat people shouldn't be called fat because they are fat smacks of childishness how ignorant can you be in 1 post, to many overweight people it is not a lifestyle choice and in fact a result of a condition or illness, and people of any shape and size should be able to have sex without someone telling them your too fat/skinny. Being FAT is NOT a result of an illness or condition.... Its as a result of putting too much food in your mouth and too little exercise... You can make all the pathetic excuses you like! But that is simply what it comes down too! Cant abide this politically correct bullshit we all have to pander too! People are fat because they EAT TOO MUCH!! Deal with it!" It would be most interesting to read the medical documentation from which you sourced this information. Could you please post it ? Or then again, it could be just down to the simple fact that you're just ignorant. | |||
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"Where on Earth did the OP get the idea that thin women have smaller pussies than larger women ? Obviously he's completely ignorant of any facts and must be perfect in every way. Perhaps he needs anorexic women to make his cock seem a decent size......" I get told im tight and skinny women are not | |||
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"Am over weight cos am a greedy pie eater and a lazy git!!!!! Couldn't care less what people say about my size gies a pie nom non " ADORE YOU!
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"This thread's like chinese whispers. He didn't say anyrhing about fanny size. He didn't say anything about fat or skinny women. He was basically pondering if women's size makes a difference when having sex. I fucking love this site. The huffing and puffing about sod all. Priceless. :-
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"This thread's like chinese whispers. He didn't say anyrhing about fanny size. He didn't say anything about fat or skinny women. He was basically pondering if women's size makes a difference when having sex. I fucking love this site. The huffing and puffing about sod all. Priceless. "I find most threads go that way to be fair.... they rarely stick to the op but thats ok too. | |||
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"I didn't read most of the posts as didn't think it would be wise, but think about this... A lot of people have a choice about being fat and those underweight have eating disorders. Have you ever stopped to think about the possibility that obesesty can be an eating disorder too? I am a size 16-18, I have struggled with my relationship with food for years as I grew up with an overweight mother who made me feel guilty about eating as a result I would often skip meals or feel guilty about eating therefore I would comfort eat which is a hard cycle to get out of. My mum never educated me about healthy eating either, she would serve up cheap processed shit. I have lost weight and I am doing a lot better but the arguments I have with myself when doing the shopping are horrendous at times, but feel so proud when I don't buy the biscuits that are on offer." Good for you, sounds like you are really winning the battle | |||
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"This thread's like chinese whispers. He didn't say anyrhing about fanny size. He didn't say anything about fat or skinny women. He was basically pondering if women's size makes a difference when having sex. I fucking love this site. The huffing and puffing about sod all. Priceless. "I can't rememeber what the OP was about now! Is it , is Captain Birds Eye to beardy and frozen to fuck??? | |||
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"No one said "he" did,threads go off on a million tangents all the time,someone else mentioned fanny size and i commented on that because it was a ridiculous thing to suggest that a womans size has anything to do with how tight their fanny is Not every response in a thread is aimed towards the original poster" Fair point. I love a good diversion too. | |||
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"Am over weight cos am a greedy pie eater and a lazy git!!!!! Couldn't care less what people say about my size gies a pie nom non ADORE YOU!
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"Why would this topic offend anyone? Fat/thin/in between is a lifestyle choice, it's not like skin colour that you are born with. If you are not happy about being labelled in any if the size groups you can either do something about it, ignore the OP and carry on being happy as you are (and good on you if thst's the case). Bleating on about how fat people shouldn't be called fat because they are fat smacks of childishness how ignorant can you be in 1 post, to many overweight people it is not a lifestyle choice and in fact a result of a condition or illness, and people of any shape and size should be able to have sex without someone telling them your too fat/skinny. Being FAT is NOT a result of an illness or condition.... Its as a result of putting too much food in your mouth and too little exercise... You can make all the pathetic excuses you like! But that is simply what it comes down too! Cant abide this politically correct bullshit we all have to pander too! People are fat because they EAT TOO MUCH!! Deal with it! what absolute uneducated ignorant rubbish." I dont think this is rubbish. I used to weigh 22 stone and yes was far too big to enjoy sex at all. TRUTH - I was greedy and ate too much - although of course I came out with all the excuses under the sun. I eat like a bird now but still have overweight friends and I love them but they eat miles more food ( and the wrong kind ) than they should !! | |||
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"The thread as usual turned into something totally different with people defending the way they look/weigh and what size pussy you have...why does anyone feel the need to do that I don't know. The OP was a simple question that could have been a normal discussion but as usual people took offence when the dreaded subject of weight was seen. If you are offended by the question or feel offended on someone elses behalf than maybe don't open the thread again once you have seen what it is about and let the people who did answer the question continue the debate. " The first part of your comment is correct - as per usual a 'fat/thin' debate has gone way off course. As for the OP posing a 'simple question' ... well yes, it was simple but his accompanying comments were offensively crass i.e having to pull apart the arse cheeks of a large woman in order to fuck her. It's an unkind image and one that could impact on the confidence of bigger woman who find themselves in the doggy position on a meet ("omg is he doing it this way because I'm too fat?") He could have just said he found sex with her difficult because of excess flesh then people could have made their own judgement on the length of his cock Vs the woman's size. | |||
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"If a woman bends over doggystyle and you can't see her pussy, that's too fat in my opinion. It takes away the last inch or two of penetration because her bum stops you getting any closer. I have the pics to prove it lol. I also prefer ti not have to use my hands to pull rolls of fat out of the way when licking a clit. In fact its gopping. All my personal preference, which isn't going to change so no point moaning at me about it. " And that only leaves me an inch to play with lol. | |||
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"The thread as usual turned into something totally different with people defending the way they look/weigh and what size pussy you have...why does anyone feel the need to do that I don't know. The OP was a simple question that could have been a normal discussion but as usual people took offence when the dreaded subject of weight was seen. If you are offended by the question or feel offended on someone elses behalf than maybe don't open the thread again once you have seen what it is about and let the people who did answer the question continue the debate. The first part of your comment is correct - as per usual a 'fat/thin' debate has gone way off course. As for the OP posing a 'simple question' ... well yes, it was simple but his accompanying comments were offensively crass i.e having to pull apart the arse cheeks of a large woman in order to fuck her. It's an unkind image and one that could impact on the confidence of bigger woman who find themselves in the doggy position on a meet ("omg is he doing it this way because I'm too fat?") He could have just said he found sex with her difficult because of excess flesh then people could have made their own judgement on the length of his cock Vs the woman's size." He probably didn't need to mention either that the other lady was an ex anorexic, strange that never got picked up on. Or is it ? | |||
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"The thread as usual turned into something totally different with people defending the way they look/weigh and what size pussy you have...why does anyone feel the need to do that I don't know. The OP was a simple question that could have been a normal discussion but as usual people took offence when the dreaded subject of weight was seen. If you are offended by the question or feel offended on someone elses behalf than maybe don't open the thread again once you have seen what it is about and let the people who did answer the question continue the debate. The first part of your comment is correct - as per usual a 'fat/thin' debate has gone way off course. As for the OP posing a 'simple question' ... well yes, it was simple but his accompanying comments were offensively crass i.e having to pull apart the arse cheeks of a large woman in order to fuck her. It's an unkind image and one that could impact on the confidence of bigger woman who find themselves in the doggy position on a meet ("omg is he doing it this way because I'm too fat?") He could have just said he found sex with her difficult because of excess flesh then people could have made their own judgement on the length of his cock Vs the woman's size." So his comments were crass but it's ok for you to insinuate that he has a small cock? | |||
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" As for the OP posing a 'simple question' ... well yes, it was simple but his accompanying comments were offensively crass i.e having to pull apart the arse cheeks of a large woman in order to fuck her. It's an unkind image and one that could impact on the confidence of bigger woman who find themselves in the doggy position on a meet ("omg is he doing it this way because I'm too fat?") He could have just said he found sex with her difficult because of excess flesh then people could have made their own judgement on the length of his cock Vs the woman's size. "( FGS I will get the quotes right in a minute) If a woman is dependant from others on here for her confidence then maybe she is on the wrong site. I have a fat arse but it didn't make me not want to meet anyone for fear of the mans post being totally true and not just his opinion. | |||
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"The thread as usual turned into something totally different with people defending the way they look/weigh and what size pussy you have...why does anyone feel the need to do that I don't know. The OP was a simple question that could have been a normal discussion but as usual people took offence when the dreaded subject of weight was seen. If you are offended by the question or feel offended on someone elses behalf than maybe don't open the thread again once you have seen what it is about and let the people who did answer the question continue the debate. The first part of your comment is correct - as per usual a 'fat/thin' debate has gone way off course. As for the OP posing a 'simple question' ... well yes, it was simple but his accompanying comments were offensively crass i.e having to pull apart the arse cheeks of a large woman in order to fuck her. It's an unkind image and one that could impact on the confidence of bigger woman who find themselves in the doggy position on a meet ("omg is he doing it this way because I'm too fat?") He could have just said he found sex with her difficult because of excess flesh then people could have made their own judgement on the length of his cock Vs the woman's size. So his comments were crass but it's ok for you to insinuate that he has a small cock? "I didn't insinuate anything - but it's not beyond the realms of possibility that there is a correlation between having difficulty penetrating a very fleshy woman and cock length. A longer cock will probably cope ok - but a guy with a shorter one may well need to find alternative strategies in order to penetrate the woman sufficiently. | |||
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"I`ve often wondered, at what point, women were too fat or thin to fuck. I`m on a quest to try to find out. The thinnest has been a 6 and a half stone, ex anorexic. She stuggled to take my full length. Once it was in, she liked to be carried around the room, impailed on it. Can`t imagine anyone lighter taking it....unless you know different. The biggest was a lady who said she was a size 28. Missionary position was out because her thighs blocked the entrance to her pussy. Just managed doggy, by pulling her arse cheeks apart. Reckon these are the limits. Am I right? You sound an absolute delight! "glad to see your comment. I was being practical and curious, not judgmental. would love to meet you too! | |||
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"Getting back to what the OP actually asked.... im fat but haven't found any positions difficult. The men ive had sex with may say different but you would have to ask them "thanks Danni. | |||
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"He isnt expressing personal preference though, he is stating that theres a line somewhere that says when it becomes unaceptable to have sex regarding been to fat/skinny." your wrong. Not that its unacceptable, just physically not possible. xx | |||
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"He isnt expressing personal preference though, he is stating that theres a line somewhere that says when it becomes unaceptable to have sex regarding been to fat/skinny. My reading of the opening post is that he is asking about physical limitations. He does not mention unacceptability, just at what stage it becomes impossible for people to physically be able to have sex. In the case of skinny people he is saying that they perhaps can't physically take a cock inside due to it being too big. In the case of larger people he states it may be impossible due to fat layers preventing penetration... At no stage did me mention preference." Thanks for the support. you are absolutely right. | |||
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"Why is it posts like this are mostly written by men about women !!!! We all come in different shapes and sizes that's life . Is it really necessary to post something like this . It really does not do the guys any favours re possible meets in the future !!!! "Its because I dont have sex with men so that question has never arisen | |||
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"I just wonder whether any of the offended women who posted were size 6 or less or size 28 and over? If not, why were you getting so upset? The OP was merely wondering at which stage in the extremities of size it becomes difficult/impossible to have 'normal' penetrative sex Gotta love the way some are unable/refuse to read a post properly and automatically go to attack mode" It wasn't the subject matter that was offensive but the crass presentation. Did we REALLY need to know the mechanics of what the OP needed to do in order to penetrate the large lady he had sex with? Or that the thin lady was an ex anorexic who he struggled to impale? Just an excess of information presented in a distasteful way in my humble opinion - others will disagree of course. | |||
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"Why would this topic offend anyone? Fat/thin/in between is a lifestyle choice, it's not like skin colour that you are born with. If you are not happy about being labelled in any if the size groups you can either do something about it, ignore the OP and carry on being happy as you are (and good on you if thst's the case). Bleating on about how fat people shouldn't be called fat because they are fat smacks of childishness how ignorant can you be in 1 post, to many overweight people it is not a lifestyle choice and in fact a result of a condition or illness, and people of any shape and size should be able to have sex without someone telling them your too fat/skinny. Being FAT is NOT a result of an illness or condition.... Its as a result of putting too much food in your mouth and too little exercise... You can make all the pathetic excuses you like! But that is simply what it comes down too! Cant abide this politically correct bullshit we all have to pander too! People are fat because they EAT TOO MUCH!! Deal with it! I actually agree, tho there are some conditions that cause people to be over weight its a very very small minority, the vast majority of people are over weight because of their own doing, some just find it hard to accept so blame medication and ill health for their weight when in actual fact there's nothing wrong with them at all, just a lack of will power I work with a lot of obese people who have many health problem due to their weight but in their mind they are fat because they are ill when in actual fact its the other way round and if they lost weigh their problems would get better but you cant get that though to a lot of people That's no disrespect to people who do have genuine health problems controlling their weight, be that over or under weight, its just most people with weight problems do not have a medical reason for being obese "
As one of us works in a hospital and the other in a gym we've heard every excuse conceivable for being fat.
Bottom line is, calories out must exceed calories in.
If not, unless you have a naturally high metabolism, you'll get fat.
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It could make an interesting topic if debated by people mature enough to discuss it.
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"I'm a size 14/16 with some hideous wobbly bits. I don't get why large/overweight women always get so uppity about these threads. It just makes the posts about "are fat women bitter" ring TRUE in some way. " this is a tough one, any defense of peoples actions in this thread is going to make m sound 'bitter' now isnt it, but i really am not. search these whole forums and show me any threads where slim women are slagged off as much as big women are and i will buy you a cake. yes there are lots of guys on here that say they like big women, some genuine some not so but on EVERY i like BBW thread there has to be someone who pipes up with the 'fat is not sexy' or 'fat people are lazy, ugly, gross etc'. is it really inconceivable that some people get upset by these comments and maybe pre-empt any fat bashing that goes on? Yes, there is some retaliation of 'who wants a bag of bones' which i personally do not agree with. thats just as disrespectful to other peoples preferences. as for the illness and medication bit, i covered that in an early post. there are some conditions, either medical or psychological that cause issues with weight gain or more specifically with losing weight such as insulin resistance but that doesnt mean its impossible, you just have to research what works and work hard at it. same with mobility issues and medication that causes weight gain. debates are always welcome on the forum but unfortunately they never stay friendly for long. | |||
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