FabSwingers.com forum: Still Neva met anyone of here

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Must not be having much luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chin up...Rome was'nt built in a day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here we go again ....

You've been here four weeks and have photos of yourself . ..

How is anyone to notice you from the hundreds of other profiles ?

Sarcasm aside ....

You've got to stand out from the crowd ..

Grab their attention ...

Do something positive ....

And keep at it

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Have you thought about adjusting your approach? Maybe your going about things the wrong way x

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

sell yourself more on your profile, what you bring to the swinging world/any meet and what you are looking for.

welcome and good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dude , man ,, dude yuor profile is too bare and uninviting , now im not saying be all flash etc , but be yourself and shoe people through your profile

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Usual advice,

clubs,

socials,

any of the ladies on your friends list,?

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By *ucy and CarlCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

Not surprised really. Your profile tells absolutely nothing about you. No pics no information.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

NEVA

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Must not be having much luck

Ha"

really? and you sound like a bit of a catch too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Must not be having much luck

really? and you sound like a bit of a catch too

gosh jackandkate, it don't take much to persuade you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

8 words and no pictures. I suspect that that total lack of effort may have something to do with your total lack of results.

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By *aveandkate35Couple
over a year ago

telford

"8 words and no pictures. I suspect that that total lack of effort may have something to do with your total lack of results."

Thank you for making me smile, on what was looking to be a rather uneventful day.

Joking aside, that pretty much sums it up much more eloquently than I could have put it.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

You live in Blackpool mate, get yourself into one of the clubs, and you'll be sorted. Don't waste any more of your youth in here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Must not be having much luck

Ha"

What's luck got to do with it? Make an effort with your profile in the first instance...photos, a few paragraphs of info, spell check, and really, "Master"!!!???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here we go again

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

"Must not be having much luck

Ha"

You make your own luck...

but I recommend you listen to the advice, act on it and maybe it will work. Otherwise buy a magic lamp with a genie inside

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Otherwise buy a magic lamp with a genie inside

I want one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been on seven days, had four meets.

Is that good on here then ?.

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"8 words and no pictures. I suspect that that total lack of effort may have something to do with your total lack of results."

This is the right answer.

Plus you're 26

Plus you're only looking for FF couples or females

Plus you have only been on here 4 weeks

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By *tirling DarkCouple
over a year ago

Stirling

Did you even try? One line profile and you expect people to start the process to a meet?

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Go to a social then you will meet lots.. moaning really doesnt help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Chin up...Rome was'nt built in a day

Dont know? I wasn't on that particular job

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Although there is a very strong temptation to be harsh.... here are a couple of observations.

'Neva' may be intended as ironic, but runs a high risk of being interpreted as being illiterate.

If you take the effort to post seeking advice, allow others to spend their time giving it, why is it that you appear to have ignored EVERY suggestion?

High risk of being interpreted as lazy or, worse still, arrogant.

If you don't like what you're getting out, change what you're putting in!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Although there is a very strong temptation to be harsh.... here are a couple of observations.

'Neva' may be intended as ironic, but runs a high risk of being interpreted as being illiterate.

If you take the effort to post seeking advice, allow others to spend their time giving it, why is it that you appear to have ignored EVERY suggestion?

High risk of being interpreted as lazy or, worse still, arrogant.

If you don't like what you're getting out, change what you're putting in!"

To be fair, he hasn't logged in since his OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Here we go again

why bother posting, just pass by if this is all you have to say, people are allowed to post threads even if they have been done before.

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By *anicCouple
over a year ago

Isle of Purbeck, nr beach

Lot of useful advice on here. Single guys shouldn't assume there are a lot of desperate women available.

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By *anicCouple
over a year ago

Isle of Purbeck, nr beach

Lot of useful advice on here. Single guys shouldn't assume there are a lot of desperate women available.

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over a year ago

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

" Otherwise buy a magic lamp with a genie inside

I want one

I got one,,, it had a female genie inside, I rubbed the lamp and a cloud of smoke appeared and she stood before me,,,

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she said " you have One wish,,, anything your heart desires choose wisely,,!!"

I thought for a moment then said " I d like my co*k to touch the floor,,!",,,

A puff of smoke and the genie disappeared,, and the next moment,

my legs fell off,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You live in Blackpool mate, get yourself into one of the clubs, and you'll be sorted. Don't waste any more of your youth in here

I have to agree. Studied and lived on Blackpool for 5 years.. done and seen more than many folks dream of.. your in theSin capital of the Northwest..

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By *wingerdelightCouple
over a year ago

eastliegh

Popcorn anyone?

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

Calling good looking healthy lad from Blackpool - the OP wants you to message him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To the op...

You do not look very bright by the way you gave witten the the thread title....

take advice from the guys on here who have made an effort...

There are a lot more men than women... Jog on...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've also had no meets yet been let down 3 times . What are we doin wrong . Any advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We've also had no meets yet been let down 3 times . What are we doin wrong . Any advice "

not a thing , your profile if hot out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We've also had no meets yet been let down 3 times . What are we doin wrong . Any advice "

The profile is honest but probably doing you no favours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We've also had no meets yet been let down 3 times . What are we doin wrong . Any advice

The profile is honest but probably doing you no favours. "

Im interested to know your reasons?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We've also had no meets yet been let down 3 times . What are we doin wrong . Any advice

The profile is honest but probably doing you no favours.

Im interested to know your reasons?"

Reads that they are more interested in the fantasy than the reality. Would we risk meeting a couple who mention being interested in picture swap and cam before they talk about swinging and state that they don't know how far they'd go? Not a chance. Like I said I admire the honesty but anyone that is just looking for a cheap thrill on cam or pictures to wank over.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"To the op...

You do not look very bright by the way you gave witten the the thread title...."

The irony....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Here we go again ....

You've been here four weeks and have photos of yourself . ..

How is anyone to notice you from the hundreds of other profiles ?

Sarcasm aside ....

You've got to stand out from the crowd ..

Grab their attention ...

Do something positive ....

And keep at it

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"We've also had no meets yet been let down 3 times . What are we doin wrong . Any advice "

As others have wisely said your profile does read very much as a bunch of fantasists.

There will be people into this but there wont be many of them honestly we really get bored of camming and picture swapping its just not a pale on the real thing.

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

" Otherwise buy a magic lamp with a genie inside

I want one

I got one,,, it had a female genie inside, I rubbed the lamp and a cloud of smoke appeared and she stood before me,,,

,,,,,,,,,,,,

she said " you have One wish,,, anything your heart desires choose wisely,,!!"

I thought for a moment then said " I d like my co*k to touch the floor,,!",,,

A puff of smoke and the genie disappeared,, and the next moment,

my legs fell off,,

If you can do a Dervish dance on it...there's your act for the next social

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Here we go again

why bother posting, just pass by if this is all you have to say, people are allowed to post threads even if they have been done before."

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"We've also had no meets yet been let down 3 times . What are we doin wrong . Any advice "

Personally can't see who would meet you. That's not meant in a nasty way but you're into soft swap, claim to be bi curious but don't know how far you want to go, you don't accommodate so I'd be hesitant in booking a hotel as doubt you'd turn up.

Your profile is honest: paradoxically, you're honesty is probably what's putting people off!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks for all the replies. Not sure how to re-word it really.

We are genuinely not sure how we would feel on the night, and don't want repercussions on our relationship. We are really more miffed about the folks who arrange to meet us and then fizzle away into the ether, as that impacts on our weekends and childcare arrangements.I would rather we got no response at all.

It seems we either go the whole hog and agree to let them fuck us both or sit watching cams lol!

(oh, and we are the TARGET of pic collectors , nbot the other way around!).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OK re-worded, hopefully much better? And to the OP, sorry for hijacking your thread xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OK re-worded, hopefully much better? And to the OP, sorry for hijacking your thread xx"

Much better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for all the replies. Not sure how to re-word it really.

It seems we either go the whole hog and agree to let them fuck us both or sit watching cams lol!

(oh, and we are the TARGET of pic collectors , nbot the other way around!). "

I think your profile is great, not everyone on here expects you to jump into this with both feet. Stick to your guns and you will find the right couple who you can relax with and explore at your own pace. Really shit that people have stood you up, their loss x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"OK re-worded, hopefully much better? And to the OP, sorry for hijacking your thread xx"

I didn't see your previous worded profile but this one looks fine to me. Exciting times eh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I just commented on your new profile - not the old one! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been on here for over 11 months and havent had a meet.

Had meets years ago on different site but not for me to be honest.

Am not bothered about meeting. Not saying i wouldnt but am not chasing after a meet. I have regular sex. Am here for the forum an fabing the gorgeous photo's. Am a Voyeur.

And am very happy with my life.

Dont chase to hard my friend. Just enjoy the site or maybe visit a club or social.

Good luck

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over a year ago

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By *othingButCocoChanelWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Lot of useful advice on here. Single guys shouldn't assume there are a lot of desperate women available. "

So true..been asked to meet hundreds of people have said no to everyone except one girl..as a lot of guys just assume its a done deal in the first mesage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for all the replies. Not sure how to re-word it really.

It seems we either go the whole hog and agree to let them fuck us both or sit watching cams lol!

(oh, and we are the TARGET of pic collectors , nbot the other way around!). "

I've had a quick look & the main thing that sticks out to me with your profile is the lack of pics of the fella? There are 16 pics of Mrs & one of Mr? Yes, there are more pics of me (Mrs) on ours than of my fella but there are still several varied pics of him which show you pretty much exactly what we both look like from every angle, I think it's important to have varied pics of both of the couple.

Also the fact that you don't know what you want from a meet will put a lot of people off. Set an initial boundary for your first meet ie soft swap. If it goes well & you both want to do more next time then great, if not you'll know where to draw your line. Can't understand why people keep flaking on you, but there will always be time wasters. Good luck x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for all the replies. Not sure how to re-word it really.

It seems we either go the whole hog and agree to let them fuck us both or sit watching cams lol!

(oh, and we are the TARGET of pic collectors , nbot the other way around!).

Thanks. The pics of Mr have his face showing, so we have them available privately. We are gonna stop trying at all and see what crops up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks. The pics of Mr have his face showing, so we have them available privately. We are gonna stop trying at all and see what crops up

xx"

Maybe worth thinking about cropping his face or blurring it (this can be done easily with windows paint) so you can have some more of him public? The lack of his pics might put people off, so they never get as far as seeing your friend only pics? It's only a suggestion & ofcourse it is your profile & you should have it the way you feel more comfortable. We've certainly had a lot more 'luck' and interest since we added more varied pics to ours.

Not actively looking for meets for a little while seems a good idea to me - sometimes it can become stressful & you can feel frustrated to the point you lose sight of why you were originally looking - to have some fun!! Enjoy guys Xxx

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