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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I seem to get plenty of views but that's as far as it goes is there something in my profile putting people off or is it something that is not in my profille and before people jump on my back it's not a look at me post (I'm getting lookers) lol

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Moving this to the Advice forum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would maybe consider your user name more carefully. Names like bigdickdangeling etc risk people adding you to the sterotypical single guy provardo list. Dont brag. Lines like heavy cummer, vwe, i can make you come will more than likely intimidate the male in a couple and not impress the female. Be honest. Pictures help. Dont push and be polite. Dont give up. Best I can suggest. Good luck hun x

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By *easing_twoCouple
over a year ago

Bristol, Thornbury

I like the profile to be honest x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a good, solid, profile. Seen much worse ;-P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Given how many single men there around here, get used to being on the receiving end of a lot of window-shopping.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Given how many single men there around here, get used to being on the receiving end of a lot of window-shopping."
I get a lot look, they don't message me, shame really because some quite float my boat. But they probably cant because of my filters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually like the profile too, we're just not meeting single men at the moment, which raises another point. Do you match what the lookers' profiles say they're after?

I'm not encouraging a message saying 'Hey, saw you looked, I'm totally what you're after!', but perhaps that might be a reason why?

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

We get far more views on our profile than we get messages.

Would think that a lot of others do too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like your profile, and I think it's well written. Obviously a great deal of thought has gone into it.

I think the fact that you get more lookers than those who send messages is an all-round thing on the site. I'm guilty of it myself if truth be told!

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

It looks fine. Well written and so on. A few more public pics wouldn't hurt.

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford


"I seem to get plenty of views but that's as far as it goes is there something in my profile putting people off or is it something that is not in my profile and before people jump on my back it's not a look at me post (I'm getting lookers) lol "
profile seems quite good just need more cock pics,sky remotes, and maybe a toilet mirror shot and you my friend will have banging your inbox door down

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"It looks fine. Well written and so on. A few more public pics wouldn't hurt. "

They could....

I think its a good profile too! Put some more pics in....torso, bum, cock, etc use your imagination....

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By *lleyCat1969Man
over a year ago

Folkestone

If I get a look from a couple & I match what they're looking for I'll send a polite 'thanks for looking, hope you liked it, etc.' messsage. A couple of times I've had a meet after that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You'll always get more views than messages! It's simple logic!

How does someone know you match their preferences til they view you?

And don't forget - a vast number won't even show on your 'looked at me' as they hide that via settings .

Concentrate on those that do get in touch and don't worry about those that don't!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We get far more views on our profile than we get messages.

Would think that a lot of others do too.

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