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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Okay, so we have a meet on Friday with a lovely couple, and we may well end up swapping. We're all bi, so there's no problems there, but it'll be our first time full swapping. Has anyone any ideas on positions/ ways we could sort of ease into the full swap situation?

Thanks !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

have a drink a giggle and if it happens it happens have fun

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London

In our experience it tends to split at blow job stage

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In our experience it tends to split at blow job stage"

Yes, I can imagine it would. Is that how it happened in your first swap?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" have a drink a giggle and if it happens it happens have fun "

Ha, yeah, we're allowed a drink, we're on a special exercise plan :/

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London


"In our experience it tends to split at blow job stage

Yes, I can imagine it would. Is that how it happened in your first swap? "

Can't remember we just got our kit off and dove in

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In our experience it tends to split at blow job stage

Yes, I can imagine it would. Is that how it happened in your first swap?

Can't remember we just got our kit off and dove in"

Fair play. Excellent profile by the way!

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By *wickers1Couple
over a year ago

Hounslow

Best to just go with flow...works for us..

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

luton

Agree with above .just go with the flow .before you start just mention your dislikes and any rules you would like to keep to wdon't try to pre plan anything .you will all get carried away ..have a good night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Start of with soft swing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can we come along?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can't remember we just got our kit off and dove in"

The 'Pension Porn compiling' on your profile made me laugh - we've been working on the same. Got to get it done before the wrinkles turn up.

re. the original question you can always get the massage oils out. We did that once, although the massage part didn't last more than a few seconds!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Can we come along? "

Hahaha. Maybe another time :P

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Agree with above .just go with the flow .before you start just mention your dislikes and any rules you would like to keep to wdon't try to pre plan anything .you will all get carried away ..have a good night "

True...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Can't remember we just got our kit off and dove in

The 'Pension Porn compiling' on your profile made me laugh - we've been working on the same. Got to get it done before the wrinkles turn up.

re. the original question you can always get the massage oils out. We did that once, although the massage part didn't last more than a few seconds!"

Always the happy ending! It's the best way to go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can we come along?

Hahaha. Maybe another time :P"

We have fallen foul of your age filter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you dont know how to have sex, then best to start reading the karma sutra lol.

honestly, just take it as it comes.

say no if you are uncomfortable.

if you are comfortable then say yes yes yes yes yes lol

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

I think one of the problems that has grown over the years is the explicit profile with almost a menu of technicalities! As with all aspects of life, we have been told that we can all have what we want, when we want it! We both miss the days when we used to meet and just see how it goes..

Our first meets were soft swap! There was interaction, but not too much. When we went full swap, we had played with the couple a few times as soft swap and decided to ask if they wanted to full swap. That is the easy way to do it...

If you are going in "cold" on a first meet with a couple, then breaking the ice can be difficult. Perhaps making sure that each sits with the partner of the other? Nice and close and with some lightweight body contact such as hand on arms and legs during the chat of what each expects from the evening. Have a giggle and it will naturally become more intimate..

Have a great time

(Oh and if it is the very first time you have full swapped, maybe position yourselves so you can each see the first penetration, we found that soooo horny!)

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By *orn_To_PerformCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Hi guys! We found that an all-in foursome works pretty well - fingers, tongues and cocks in all direction and everyone having contact with at least two others... That way even if there's full penetration going on, you are all still involved. There was one particularly good session with Mrs B being fucked doggy style as she licked out another woman, who in turn was sucking Mr B...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all the advice guys. I'm not trying to plan it all out, but from the sounds of things, there will be plenty of ff/ mm fun... How would you go into a swap from there, bearing in mind we like to be involved alltogether?


"Hi guys! We found that an all-in foursome works pretty well - fingers, tongues and cocks in all direction and everyone having contact with at least two others... That way even if there's full penetration going on, you are all still involved. There was one particularly good session with Mrs B being fucked doggy style as she licked out another woman, who in turn was sucking Mr B... "

Hey guys... Hope things are going well for you! :P

That seems a very good idea, and is along the same veins I was thinking. I knew there was a reason we wanted to meet you two! :P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just all stick together.

its very sexy when hands and 'things' are going everywhere and you have no idea what is who's lol.

if you are full swap then you dont even need to worry about it going too far either

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

skype us during the meet, we will direct you when things get a bit awkward....

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas

Just start off playing with ur own partner but make sure ur right beside the other cpl so ur hands can wander over and before u no it u will be kissing and then just go with the flow. Good luck as its sounds its going to be a hot night

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By *r mrs pCouple
over a year ago

taunton


"skype us during the meet, we will direct you when things get a bit awkward....

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Lol, god there are some helpfull people on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We started things off with a naughty game of cards called strip jack naked. It's a bit of a laugh and breaks the ice with forfeits and stuff.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You should have been in the big jacuzzi at Partners last night, everyone ended up playing with everyone else, never seen anything like it lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"skype us during the meet, we will direct you when things get a bit awkward....

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...I'm sure that would have been the perfect way to put everyone at ease....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just start off playing with ur own partner but make sure ur right beside the other cpl so ur hands can wander over and before u no it u will be kissing and then just go with the flow. Good luck as its sounds its going to be a hot night "

That's more or less what happened, only really had bi fun and a bit of a fumble with the other partner, but it was still hot.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We started things off with a naughty game of cards called strip jack naked. It's a bit of a laugh and breaks the ice with forfeits and stuff."

Think I'll set that up for next time

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

its like landing a plane with glow sticks, u stand back and say rite you 2 over there and get it on and when your finished u guide me in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't think we are going to get an invite any time soon ha ha

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