FabSwingers.com forum: first party

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

wer going to our first house party nx wkend and as you can imagin a little nervie!!!! can any one say any thing to reasure us althogh every one says you dont have to get involved we may feel out of the mix if we dont any addvice would be great pls

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i was very nervous before going to my first one, but was put at ease by some of the friendliest people i've ever met.

once the action started, i noticed that while most played, many didn't.

there were lots of people just chatting and socialising without getting involved, and although i did partake, at no point was anybody criticised for not playing.

hope this reassures you in some way. do you know any of the other guests?

By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"wer going to our first house party nx wkend and as you can imagin a little nervie!!!! can any one say any thing to reasure us althogh every one says you dont have to get involved we may feel out of the mix if we dont any addvice would be great pls"

because what those people have said is correct, if it doesn't feel right for you guys then don't feel pressured into playing just for the sake of it.....

if it is your first party it might be worth discussing your limits so you are both happy, also might be worth coming up with a "safe" so just in case if one of you isn't happy then you automatically know to stop....

other than that... relax and I am sure you'll have a blast....

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

awwwwwww don't worry, the worst that can happen is that you don't fancy anybody at the party but they tie you both up and gangbang the two of you, so don't fret just go, relax and enjoy yourself, oh but just in case it might be an idea not to drink Dr Peppers and to take some extra lube ...... just in case

oh dear I am not helping am I