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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Help please a girlfriend of mine is having problems in bed with her boyfriend, when she gets on top he goes soft why would this be?

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

"Asking for a friend..." Okaaaay

Anyway, it could be that he isn't as aroused in that position. Some men find other positions like doggy more visually appealing. Sex is as much a mental thing as it is a physical thing.

That or she is cutting off some bloodflow to his penis by being on top of him, lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


""Asking for a friend..." Okaaaay

Anyway, it could be that he isn't as aroused in that position. Some men find other positions like doggy more visually appealing. Sex is as much a mental thing as it is a physical thing.

That or she is cutting off some bloodflow to his penis by being on top of him, lol."

Yes a friend!

I think you could be right!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Help please a girlfriend of mine is having problems in bed with her boyfriend, when she gets on top he goes soft why would this be? "

She must be a very, very good friend of yours if she's told you all this!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Help please a girlfriend of mine is having problems in bed with her boyfriend, when she gets on top he goes soft why would this be? "

It's really difficult to say because it could be for loads of reasons. It might just be easier if they avoid that position altogether.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How big is she ?

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By *ustanddesireCouple
over a year ago

Chester

I agree , just avoid that position, she could be shutting off blood flow, especially if a little big, and also once it happens once, the brain is kicking in and just worrying about it happen could make it happen again. There are plenty of other positions, have fun trying them out.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe tell 'your friend' tosuse different positions that don't have this effect. Apparently there's lots lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does the same happen if your friend changes girlfriend?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does the same happen if your friend changes girlfriend? "

That made me laugh!

I love it when people ask for a "friend".

Simple solution OP tell your "friend" to not do it in that position

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Help please a girlfriend of mine is having problems in bed with her boyfriend, when she gets on top he goes soft why would this be? "

She needs a new boyfriend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

has she asked him, rather than asking you, why it happens?

he may have had a bad experience in that position before (like bending his cock in half when a rather vigorous partner is bouncing like tigger)

saying that, i have found loads of problems in relationships are easier to work out by asking a 3rd party, rather than the one involved.

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