FabSwingers.com forum: man dilemma

By *o drama queen OP Woman
over a year ago

Abergele

feel a total fool, came here looking for nsa only (my own rule i only meet and play one time with any person,always worked before ),met a man ,and fell for him. what should i do? advice much app

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

it happens it gets complicated

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By *eepsouthCouple
over a year ago

Bournemouth

Have you told him? Could be the perfect relationship

What have you got to loose?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

What do you want to do? How does he feel? Is he free to reciprocate, are you? So many things we don't know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unless there is a reason that he can't reciprocate or you know 100% he doesn't, then I say tell him. Life is too short x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have been there too....had to knock it on the head

Very hard thing to have to do

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

Oh. Well, you have to make a choice.

Stop seeing him, or, tell him how you feel.

The million dollar question is.......do YOU know how YOU feel about him? If you are sure of your own feelings, then you will have to sit him down over a glass of something (with clothes on) and tell him.

I'm guessing you are unsure how he will react though. But nothing ventured, nothing gained

Good luck

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By *eryBigGirlWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

If a relationship is a possibility then tell him how you feel but if it isn't cut loose and run a mile. Same thing happened between me and a long term buddy and despite us both feeling the same there was no way it could go anywhere which resulted in 6 plus months of heartache before I finally managed to cut all ties.

I still hurt and a little part of my heart will always be locked up because it belongs to him. Hope things work out for you xx

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"feel a total fool, came here looking for nsa only (my own rule i only meet and play one time with any person,always worked before ),met a man ,and fell for him. what should i do? advice much app"

change your name for starters lol

only joking. it does happen but it isnt always complicated. i met my OH on here. neither were loking for it but it happened and we are very happy.

have you spoken to him about ow you feel? maybe he feels the same way?

if not then you have to choose to either continue seeing him and accept he doesnt want the same of stop all contact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Test the waters, dont just come out with it. Suggest doing a social thing together like a movie or something, while on this outing joke that it feels like a date and gauge his reaction.

But whatever you do not tell him you have fallen for him, you may cock everything up.

Man advice, don't forget most of us like a certain freedom and don't like being pushed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"feel a total fool, came here looking for nsa only (my own rule i only meet and play one time with any person,always worked before ),met a man ,and fell for him. what should i do? advice much app"

Did you meet and fall for this guy after one meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Folk can mix up lust for love.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Folk can mix up lust for love."

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

"Folk can mix up lust for love.

+1"

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

"Folk can mix up lust for love."

All too often....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does he know how you feel or will this thread be a revelation ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"feel a total fool, came here looking for nsa only (my own rule i only meet and play one time with any person,always worked before ),met a man ,and fell for him. what should i do? advice much app"

Don't know why you feel a fool. Don't be too hard on yourself. You are human with feelings. Best of luck.

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