FabSwingers.com forum: Is my profile attractive enough?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No women have been in contact with me, and I rarely get replies to my messages. Can some experienced 'Fab' women look at my profile, and give me some honest feedback? Thanks in advance.

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By *irtyDee33Woman
over a year ago

South Yorkshire

Ok! U have two pics the same, not very clear, u cannot accommodate so some ladies might find that suspicious!

I like to see a cock pic or two, now some women don't and some do!!! Maybe u have them in private!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for the quick reply. I'd best get a new phone, the camera on mine is f*cked!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with the above lady. You don't need the same pic twice.

Be it right or wrong, a lot of people think that unable to accommodate means married or attached. You could explain that in your profile - although many people will also say you don't need to justify your reasons.

Maybe also try and sell yourself a bit more... what's so great about meeting you? You have to make yourself stand out from the rest of the guys on here... and there's a lot of them!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for the advice

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By *D40Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

I really can't advise on your profile, there was nothing there that you had actually had to write, you just ticked a few boxes and left it at that.

I personally like to see what makes a person tick, not bothered about cock pics initially although some girls are...

Show us some personality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah you definitely need to get a clearer face picture. Most women tend to get A LOT of messages on here, so if you messaged me and I couldn't see your face clearly, I wouldn't even reply because there are plenty of other men with plenty more pictures. What are you putting in your messages? If they are the usual 'Mmmm you look fit, fuck me PLEASE' type of thing, then you've got no chance. Something that has been personalised is always worthy of a response. And come up with a better heading ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's impossible to know what's right or wrong, or good or bad. I'm a message people want 1) more than a one liner 2) politeness 3) their profile read in full 4) their 'keyword' in subject box 5) face pics. Etc etc etc. I only message those whose criteria I match and do all the above, and not just because they requested it yet it's just delete delete delete. It's impossible to know. Probably just down to luck in the end

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes I agree about the face pic! Thanks x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"No women have been in contact with me, and I rarely get replies to my messages. Can some experienced 'Fab' women look at my profile, and give me some honest feedback? Thanks in advance."

I was put off by your user name since you're asking. Adonis has connotations you think highly of yourself and I personally avoid anyone with "69" in their username: lacks imagination.

Can't accommodate: I don't care what the reason is I don't invite anyone into my home who can't invite me to theirs. Some people won't believe your excuse and dismiss you as cheating.

Others may have differing reasons. Bottom line, you can't please everyone, don't try to! Let people know you.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Very good points! Thanks for the advice. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's impossible to know what's right or wrong, or good or bad. I'm a message people want 1) more than a one liner 2) politeness 3) their profile read in full 4) their 'keyword' in subject box 5) face pics. Etc etc etc. I only message those whose criteria I match and do all the above, and not just because they requested it yet it's just delete delete delete. It's impossible to know. Probably just down to luck in the end

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Very good points! Thanks for the advice. xx"
adonis ? people dont like delusionary charachters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would appreciate some feedback on my profile as well. Been on here a while and have obtained so few responses.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would appreciate some feedback on my profile as well. Been on here a while and have obtained so few responses."

See all of the above

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP and any other man complaining about no one contacting them you are all missing something - you get out of this what you put in. If you did some searches you will find single men outnumber couples and single women. You expect to put up a profile and you will get messages. Get real its not going to happen. You need to proactive. There is plenty of advice on how in this part of the site. So change your strategy and you might get somewhere.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Cheers

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Would appreciate some feedback on my profile as well. Been on here a while and have obtained so few responses."

At a glance: ladies that aren't bbws will be put off responding/contacting you. Not every woman wants her cervix banged!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No women have been in contact with me, and I rarely get replies to my messages. Can some experienced 'Fab' women look at my profile, and give me some honest feedback? Thanks in advance."

I think the profile is good, written to the point and nicely and its obvious from the comments ive read, that you have taken the advice given and used it constructively to make the relevant changes which is rare so many guys come on the forums asking for advice then don't take it on board so good for you. I do however think you need some better pics as soon as possible as the profile pic is very obscure due to the darkness of the pic and that will put a lot off, if your worried about showing your face properly as many are keep a clear pic in private to send as requested (like cock pics as most women, not all but most aren't keen on seeing them) then use a nice clear torso or bum shot to give people a better representation of yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would appreciate some feedback on my profile as well. Been on here a while and have obtained so few responses.

At a glance: ladies that aren't bbws will be put off responding/contacting you. Not every woman wants her cervix banged!

So are you implying that bigger women are desperate and will contact anyone and everyone? I'm fat but I am absolutely not desperate. The bloody cheek

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need loads of cock pics and just send simple messages like "wanna fuck" and "I'm in your area now slut".

That usually works a treat.................

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By *anyoufeelmeMan
over a year ago

near you

if that ever works, ill show my arse in the street !

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"Would appreciate some feedback on my profile as well. Been on here a while and have obtained so few responses.

At a glance: ladies that aren't bbws will be put off responding/contacting you. Not every woman wants her cervix banged!

So are you implying that bigger women are desperate and will contact anyone and everyone? I'm fat but I am absolutely not desperate. The bloody cheek"

No I don't think that is what Miss_tress was implying. If you read the profile it says BBW LOVER. This would therefore put those who are not BBW off contacting him.

That's my take on it anyway!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would appreciate some feedback on my profile as well. Been on here a while and have obtained so few responses.

At a glance: ladies that aren't bbws will be put off responding/contacting you. Not every woman wants her cervix banged!

So are you implying that bigger women are desperate and will contact anyone and everyone? I'm fat but I am absolutely not desperate. The bloody cheek

No I don't think that is what Miss_tress was implying. If you read the profile it says BBW LOVER. This would therefore put those who are not BBW off contacting him.

That's my take on it anyway!

Ahhh, I thought this night have been the case and I checked the OPs profile before commenting, but now I see it relates to the other guys comment .... Sincere apologies

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Would appreciate some feedback on my profile as well. Been on here a while and have obtained so few responses.

At a glance: ladies that aren't bbws will be put off responding/contacting you. Not every woman wants her cervix banged!

So are you implying that bigger women are desperate and will contact anyone and everyone? I'm fat but I am absolutely not desperate. The bloody cheek"

Were...I'm fat too!

He had "I LOVE BBWS" as his opening sentence: if I saw a profile "I LOVE SLIM WOMEN" it would put me off contacting the person, so wind your neck in!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Would appreciate some feedback on my profile as well. Been on here a while and have obtained so few responses.

At a glance: ladies that aren't bbws will be put off responding/contacting you. Not every woman wants her cervix banged!

So are you implying that bigger women are desperate and will contact anyone and everyone? I'm fat but I am absolutely not desperate. The bloody cheek

No I don't think that is what Miss_tress was implying. If you read the profile it says BBW LOVER. This would therefore put those who are not BBW off contacting him.

That's my take on it anyway!

That's exactly what I meant!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Would appreciate some feedback on my profile as well. Been on here a while and have obtained so few responses.

At a glance: ladies that aren't bbws will be put off responding/contacting you. Not every woman wants her cervix banged!

So are you implying that bigger women are desperate and will contact anyone and everyone? I'm fat but I am absolutely not desperate. The bloody cheek

Were*...I'm fat too!

He had "I LOVE BBWS" as his opening sentence: if I saw a profile "I LOVE SLIM WOMEN" it would put me off contacting the person, so wind your neck in!

*Errr even!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh dear, he has left the building

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its funny how everyone is banging on about his username (or as it was) adonis, being self indulgent, but no one ever says anything about those that have sexycouple/hotchick et al, as a username when they obviously arent.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"its funny how everyone is banging on about his username (or as it was) adonis, being self indulgent, but no one ever says anything about those that have sexycouple/hotchick et al, as a username when they obviously arent."

If such people posted and asked why I'd say the same thing, just like I did when imadirtycumslut4u* started a thread asking why men were disrespectful to her and treated her like a erm dirty cum slut!

*(names have been changed for illustrative purposes).

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