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By *otwifeguy OP   Man
over a year ago

Exeter

I had a few drinks so please take this post into account . I've been on here months now and not had a single email , other than that I have initiated. Am I that bad ? Need some straight talking feedback from genuine people .

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

You had a meet ... start going to clubs maybe .Dont know what to suggest but d*unk posting is never a good idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a few drinks so please take this post into account . I've been on here months now and not had a single email , other than that I have initiated. Am I that bad ? Need some straight talking feedback from genuine people . "

Am I missing something?? Your verified

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

What were your expectations when you joined.

Are the meets you have had not enough or did you expect more.

You have asked for feedback on pics etc, what changes have you made.

Do you expect proactive mail from females?

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

6 months and one meet is pretty good going for a single guy.

Patience, patience and more patience!

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By *otwifeguy OP   Man
over a year ago

Exeter


"6 months and one meet is pretty good going for a single guy.

Patience, patience and more patience!

"

I am patient , believe me , the meet happened really quickly on here , I consider to be to be a big flukey !!! But thats life sometimes l it's the lack of email and interest that's hard . I know the competition is huge on here , so is that all it is , sheer numbers , or is it me ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Woman dont always look for men,i have never winked or messaged anyone unless a recommendation through someone ive. Met m/f never needed to

There is someone for everyone,alot of men,alot of competion x your just have to Do the emailing and stop sulking lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a few drinks so please take this post into account . I've been on here months now and not had a single email , other than that I have initiated. Am I that bad ? Need some straight talking feedback from genuine people . "

Change months for years and you may have a case then. Otherwise don't be hard on yourself

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By *otwifeguy OP   Man
over a year ago

Exeter


"Woman dont always look for men,i have never winked or messaged anyone unless a recommendation through someone ive. Met m/f never needed to

There is someone for everyone,alot of men,alot of competion x your just have to Do the emailing and stop sulking lol"

I'm not sulking , just trying to figure out if I need to do something different .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Woman dont always look for men,i have never winked or messaged anyone unless a recommendation through someone ive met

There is someone for everyone,alot of men,alot of competion x your just have to Do the emailing and stop sulking lol"

This. I have never approached a guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Woman dont always look for men,i have never winked or messaged anyone unless a recommendation through someone ive met

There is someone for everyone,alot of men,alot of competion x your just have to Do the emailing and stop sulking lol

This. I have never approached a guy "

You should try it might understand the OP's plight a bit more. He is not sulking anyone would be annoyed after plugging away for months with no joy.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

He was preparing for a meet 5 days ago, so he is doing some thing to get meets.

Keep doing what you are doing... It works

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a few drinks so please take this post into account . I've been on here months now and not had a single email , other than that I have initiated. Am I that bad ? Need some straight talking feedback from genuine people . "

Don't worry we think we scare some people off, I'm considering putting on 2 stone. As some say the competition is great but just be yourself

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

I never approach any one either and personally feel displaying all your wares on the main page is detrimental.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do understand the ops plight i have met alot people that just had flags x I have explained anough they have to Do the hunting and it hard but perservere x I dont see the point in looking meself when im messaged by lots and they like what they see already, i could be a minger to some,not that i dont like rejection people have preferences,Rather go to a club meet real people,maybe the op should try sometime

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By *otwifeguy OP   Man
over a year ago

Exeter


"I do understand the ops plight i have met alot people that just had flags x I have explained anough they have to Do the hunting and it hard but perservere x I dont see the point in looking meself when im messaged by lots and they like what they see already, i could be a minger to some,not that i dont like rejection people have preferences,Rather go to a club meet real people,maybe the op should try sometime"

I think your right , I live near, Reading , which would be the best one to go to ? Anyone fancy accompanying me ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are a few in southeast have a peek through the clubs list, give it a try and good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You had a meet ... start going to clubs maybe .Dont know what to suggest but d*unk posting is never a good idea "

especially on here, late at night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP you need to be realistic single men on here out number the women. Why should they be bothered to contact the single guys when they loads of messages every day. You get out of this site what you put in. There is loads of advice in previous posts in the forums. So go and do your research. But please do it sober along with any messaging.

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Kestrels.. google kestrelhydro..

25 miles from Reading. easy drive.

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By *illonuk2000Man
over a year ago

Stafford

everything in life is about connections and relationships. if you're struggling on here i'd suggest going to clubs and meeting up face to face with people.

build up rapport and trust and go from there

good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok I have read your profile, you come across by what you say as perfect, every womans dream.

Therein lies the problem

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As Judge Judy says.

" if it sounds too good to be true " it isn't true.

so maybe a little bit more modesty would help.

Good luck and have fun x

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By *ucy and CarlCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

We only meet single guys but we never initiate an email but we do respond to everyone that emails us. Most couples we have spoken to do the same. As someone said try the clubs. But to answer your question are you minging is very subjective. Because what's minging to one as you put it is drop dead gorgeous to someone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm confused OP!

You say you've only had one meet a long time ago - yet a quick hit of the little green arrow finds recent posts from yourself mentioning regular fun with your FB and a role play meet last week!

Seems a bit inconsistent to me?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I'm confused OP!

You say you've only had one meet a long time ago - yet a quick hit of the little green arrow finds recent posts from yourself mentioning regular fun with your FB and a role play meet last week!

Seems a bit inconsistent to me? !-

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Go, Poirot!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm confused OP!

You say you've only had one meet a long time ago - yet a quick hit of the little green arrow finds recent posts from yourself mentioning regular fun with your FB and a role play meet last week!

Seems a bit inconsistent to me? "

yep i get the feeling he is a liar no woman likes lying men who are just out to get sex we are not toys to be used for your own selfish gain

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By *otwifeguy OP   Man
over a year ago

Exeter


"I'm confused OP!

You say you've only had one meet a long time ago - yet a quick hit of the little green arrow finds recent posts from yourself mentioning regular fun with your FB and a role play meet last week!

Seems a bit inconsistent to me? "

Where did I say " I've only had one meet a long time ago " ???? I've said I haven't had a single email I didn't initiate , which is correct .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"6 months and one meet is pretty good going for a single guy.

Patience, patience and more patience!

I am patient , believe me , the meet happened really quickly on here , I consider to be to be a big flukey !!! But thats life sometimes l it's the lack of email and interest that's hard . I know the competition is huge on here , so is that all it is , sheer numbers , or is it me ? "

Look up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"6 months and one meet is pretty good going for a single guy.

Patience, patience and more patience!

I am patient , believe me , the meet happened really quickly on here , I consider to be to be a big flukey !!! But thats life sometimes l it's the lack of email and interest that's hard . I know the competition is huge on here , so is that all it is , sheer numbers , or is it me ?

Look up! "

check mate

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By *otwifeguy OP   Man
over a year ago

Exeter


"6 months and one meet is pretty good going for a single guy.

Patience, patience and more patience!

I am patient , believe me , the meet happened really quickly on here , I consider to be to be a big flukey !!! But thats life sometimes l it's the lack of email and interest that's hard . I know the competition is huge on here , so is that all it is , sheer numbers , or is it me ?

Look up! "

Oh , I see what this is all about mate . I wondered why your so interested in my post . You obviously took umbridge to me pointing out that your comments to a guy with pics of an object next there cock were a big hypocritical , especially as you had pics on your profile of kids illuminous bracelets around yours , and a can of Red Bull .

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By *ucy and CarlCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

Now now play nicely

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By *ayandess1Couple
over a year ago

bridgwater

I think a massive part of the problem for single guys is that the dinamics of swinging is designed for couples/relationships.

Most people get into swinging as a couple and are normally looking for another couple/couples.

Lets face it, if a couple want a single guy we can go to the pub for that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Now now play nicely"

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By *1KandiCouple
over a year ago

Jacksonville

I will never email a guy. I will respond to some emails from guys

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

you also say in your profile your cock is the size of two argos pens it clearly isn't that big so mayb a bit less exaggerating

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