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By *eer2717 OP   Man
over a year ago

woodley

We are confused why people post a status saying they are looking for a certain meet, a certain genre etc, however do not amend the filters they have set. Surely if that's what ur looking for u will get more response if u change ur filters so responses aren't block.... Or maybe we are wrong.

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Maybe they only want to meet people on their friends list or who they've mailed before.. the filters don't matter if someone is on your friend list or if you've exchanged messages in the past

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By *eer2717 OP   Man
over a year ago

woodley

Thank u understand a bit better now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are confused why people post a status saying they are looking for a certain meet, a certain genre etc, however do not amend the filters they have set. Surely if that's what ur looking for u will get more response if u change ur filters so responses aren't block.... Or maybe we are wrong. "

We? Are you not a single male?

Or do you refer to yourself as 'we' like the queen?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or sometimes they just don't remember to take them off and start a thread asking why no one wants to meet them

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By *eer2717 OP   Man
over a year ago

woodley

Original signed up as a single , that's changed and now searching as a cpl, we have tried changing the profile but have had no luck. Until we can change that and be verified not sure what else to do. Set up another profile?

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London

You can't change your profile from single to a couple. Your best bet is to set up another profile as a couple. That way you can still keep your single profile for the future

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By *eer2717 OP   Man
over a year ago

woodley

Thank u, that's why we added the post in advice and support for that reason.advice not for sarcastic responses. Thank u for the advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank u, that's why we added the post in advice and support for that reason.advice not for sarcastic responses. Thank u for the advice "

Had you been a little more specific in your OP - you might have got more helpful advice!

Your easiest solution is to set up an additional couples profile. Anyone looking for a couple will see (as I did) you listed as a single male - not a couple - and you will be excluded from searches and blocked via filters.

A couples profile is the simple solution - I have one with my FB and have had no issues or negative feedback from anyone!

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By *eer2717 OP   Man
over a year ago

woodley

Understood however not everyone understands the ins and outs of this site which is why we thought this forum was here. We believed that this was abt mutual feelings towards swinging and not making people outcast. so being maybe a little naive isn't a crime or fake its us trying to make the most of what we thought was a good site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Understood however not everyone understands the ins and outs of this site which is why we thought this forum was here. We believed that this was abt mutual feelings towards swinging and not making people outcast. so being maybe a little naive isn't a crime or fake its us trying to make the most of what we thought was a good site"

so are they looking for a single man and filtering you out? Or looking for couples and your profile doesn't fit?

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By *eer2717 OP   Man
over a year ago

woodley

Status not profile requests men, being a cpl understand now we need to do a separate profile but even as a cpl it was blocked. We are just trying to understand

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