FabSwingers.com forum: forbidden love:-(

By *ot-tottie OP Woman
over a year ago

derbyshire

I had a best friend that was happy for me when I met my bf..but for some reason the spark that has grown between me and my best friend is crazy I have these feelings so strong but cant because it so hard and I'm so scared that if I jump and thing dont work I'll be left with nothing at all???

Does anyone have any kind advise please

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Why would you be left with nothing?

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By *ot-tottie OP Woman
over a year ago

derbyshire

Id have to move away and give my house up and job

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

It's a battle between your head and your heart. These are the lyrics to a song called 'Time will show the wiser' by Fairport Convention. Apt....but not much help. Good luck with it all.

"My mind keeps on telling me that this is no good

And my heart is aching, that tells me I should

But only time will show the wiser

I've fallen in love with a girl that's not mine

If I take her it will hurt him, a very best friend of mine

But I know that I need someone, to hold, to love

And my mind says I shouldn't but my heart says I should

And I don't know which to go by, my mind or my heart

And this is so confusing, it's tearing me apart

Time, it will show the wiser

Well, I wish someone would help me, this decision is mine

And my morals and emotions are hard to combine

And there is no easy way out to limit the time

That it takes till she finds out for the love that I hide

And I don't know which to go by, my mind or my heart

And this is so confusing, it's tearing me apart

Time, it will show the wiser, time, it will show the wiser"

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By *hris148Man
over a year ago

I live by the rule of regretting things I have done rather than things I have not done.

If you feel so strongly you should go for it

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By *ot-tottie OP Woman
over a year ago

derbyshire

It's sooooo.hard x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This the same boyfriend that you thought was seeing his ex again a few weeks back.

Hmm call me cynical but your life is like an eastenders episode

Good luck whatever you do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you talked to your best friend? Do they feel the same way?

If not, you need to talk and clear the air at least. Then you know where you stand. I'm not saying it will make the decision easier but it will let you know what is going on in your best friends head.

Good luck.

LadyIce x

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

go for it, your last bf was cheating with an ex.

if you have feelings for your best friend, tell them and see what they feel. No need to move if they dont feel the same

good luck

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By *ot-tottie OP Woman
over a year ago

derbyshire

Hey yea he knows.and feels exactly the same...and yea it dint help.lol..

Yea bf was texting.his ex but I've sorted that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Id have to move away and give my house up and job"

Why???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had a best friend that was happy for me when I met my bf..but for some reason the spark that has grown between me and my best friend is crazy I have these feelings so strong but cant because it so hard and I'm so scared that if I jump and thing dont work I'll be left with nothing at all???

Does anyone have any kind advise please "

Kindly see Mr Kyle!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does anyone have any kind advise please

Kindly see Mr Kyle!

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By *aith boyMan
over a year ago

Worthing

i have to agree with Chris.. you could have the best sex ever...but if you dont.. you'll never find out...and it may just work out long term as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really dont see why people post there private lives on here for all to read. Its a swinging site not agony aunt page.

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By *aith boyMan
over a year ago

Worthing

eerrmm i think you'll find the title of this particular part is... advice and support.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes swinging advice and support!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"eerrmm i think you'll find the title of this particular part is... advice and support....."

I hate to be pedantic , but it's swinging support and advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"eerrmm i think you'll find the title of this particular part is... advice and support.....

I hate to be pedantic , but it's swinging support and advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"eerrmm i think you'll find the title of this particular part is... advice and support.....

I hate to be pedantic , but it's swinging support and advice

You beat me to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"eerrmm i think you'll find the title of this particular part is... advice and support.....

I hate to be pedantic , but it's swinging support and advice

You beat me to it

Lol.

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By *ot-tottie OP Woman
over a year ago

derbyshire

because he lives far away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"because he lives far away"

Should this be in the stories and fantasies section

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh the suspicious profile again if youvcheckbout ops veri lol

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas

Go with ur heart and go for it , thats what i done and its the best decission i ever made, as regards the distance if ye both want it to work it will work caus ye will make it work , we no all about this.mr crazy here.

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By * n zCouple
over a year ago

leamington spa

"because he lives far away"

Distance won't make any difference if its meant to be, I've been in an LDR for over 2 years with 112 miles between us and we see each other every other week. But think carefully as it can be hard at times.

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By *ot-tottie OP Woman
over a year ago

derbyshire

My Veri is a friend so not suspicious at all..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does anyone have any kind advise please "

So couple weeks ago accuse bf of cheating because his ex texted, now you want to cheat.

Sounds like another fantasy thread to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh the suspicious profile again if youvcheckbout ops veri lol"

Here here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"eerrmm i think you'll find the title of this particular part is... advice and support.....

I hate to be pedantic , but it's swinging support and advice

You beat me to it

Lol.

Ignore these members tottie... You use the forum how you wish.

You are in a pickle emotionally lately though. My suggestion is that you have a break from anything that is causing roller coaster episodes and get to know you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My Veri is a friend so not suspicious at all.."

both profiles are written the same way

get photo verified or verified hy cam

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I really dont see why people post there private lives on here for all to read. Its a swinging site not agony aunt page."

Especially when they post in the wrong section. Talk about Armchair Theatre!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought that this sort of stuff was what facebook was for?

And I can see the suspicion as the ops profile openly asks the same sortdof question.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"because he lives far away

Should this be in the stories and fantasies section

Not just me then!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I really dont see why people post there private lives on here for all to read. Its a swinging site not agony aunt page.

Especially when they post in the wrong section. Talk about Armchair Theatre! "

Exactly. I dont want to read about peopled private lives.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"I really dont see why people post there private lives on here for all to read. Its a swinging site not agony aunt page.

Especially when they post in the wrong section. Talk about Armchair Theatre!

Exactly. I dont want to read about peopled private lives."

So don't. Just pass the thread by! There's loads posted on these forums that bore the pants off me but I don't see the point of moaning about it. OP has started a thread within forum rules which everyone is entitled to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I really dont see why people post there private lives on here for all to read. Its a swinging site not agony aunt page.

Especially when they post in the wrong section. Talk about Armchair Theatre!

Exactly. I dont want to read about peopled private lives."

I don't know of it's true or not I just don't feel this is the appropriate site to air this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I really dont see why people post there private lives on here for all to read. Its a swinging site not agony aunt page."

Totally agree plus am not convinced this is genuine but could well be wrong.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"My Veri is a friend so not suspicious at all..

both profiles are written the same way

get photo verified or verified hy cam"

Remarkably similar writing style, small letters instead of big ones, missing spaces, lots of .......just one paragraph. Both look as though they might possibly have been written by the same person.

Maybe....maybe not but who ever wants to meet one or the other might find this post and make their own mind up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh dear oh dear

I can see why members question your validity:

Four weeks ago you moan about messages sent to you. Other members bring in the fact you're looking for good looking guys and like gifts bought for you, and that you're attached.

Two weeks ago you moan about your boyfriend getting text from ex. Members question your duplicity and you state you're only on here to meet girls.

Now you want fling with best friend?

I see two distinct messages you're sending out:

Either you're a fake or you're a drama queen. Either way forumites will give you a wide berth in the real world.

If you're not a fake then (a) get photo verified, (b) get a real meet verification, (c) lose the drama.

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