FabSwingers.com forum: a serious question

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

although i am sure it will be abused.

At the moment i cannot travel easily, no car and not a lot of spare cash for socials and public transport.

Of course i understand that it will be hard to get meets arranged, but surely people here are not that shallow.

Would you meet me at mine, or am i just wasting my time, and please sensible answers please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many couples profiles seem to insist, that you accommodate the meet...

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Meeting at yours would be ok wouldn't it? Why wouldn't they? Your red sofa isn't that bad.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

that sofa is dead, lol.

got a black fake leather on now, and a tiny flat, old place was so much bigger.

4 people is a crowd in here.

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By *umpleteazerWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

I would never go to someone's house if I had never met them before. After a social meet in public to check them out I would though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"although i am sure it will be abused.

At the moment i cannot travel easily, no car and not a lot of spare cash for socials and public transport.

Of course i understand that it will be hard to get meets arranged, but surely people here are not that shallow.

Would you meet me at mine, or am i just wasting my time, and please sensible answers please."

Not sure why you accuse people of being shallow?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"that sofa is dead, lol.

got a black fake leather on now, and a tiny flat, old place was so much bigger.

4 people is a crowd in here."

That's good news surely! Have a social someplace then next time invite them back.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

ok maybe shallow was wrong word, will give you that.

Its just a lot of people say must accommodate, which i can do, but the meets very rarely happen.

i can understand the safety factor, and could meet at a local pub first and i would never presume fun is on the cards, even if they where in my flat. and i defo do not have the body to force myself on anyone.

But

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"that sofa is dead, lol.

got a black fake leather on now, and a tiny flat, old place was so much bigger.

4 people is a crowd in here.

That's good news surely! Have a social someplace then next time invite them back. "

cannot afford socials, am really financially challenged at the moment, my own fault, but paying for it at the moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ok maybe shallow was wrong word, will give you that.

Its just a lot of people say must accommodate, which i can do, but the meets very rarely happen.

But "

So you can accommodate and are happy to meet in a pub (socially) with no expectations. Cant see any problems there.

Ever considered that the problem simply may be interest/attraction?

You could be loaded, living in a big house and able to travel anywhere with no issues - but that still offers no guarantees of meets!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

thats what i was expecting, i am ugly and repulsive.

oh well, time to start saving up for the surgery.

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