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By *olvesguy1970 OP   Man
over a year ago

Telford

I'm struggling to meet anyone of here I know I'm not the best looking or hunky but I joined this site to make new friends and have some fun on the way but lee getting knocked back when I send a face pic so I was thinking of using a escort agency at least I would have some company and fun even if its costing me would love some advice on this please

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester

Some will say get out to socials and clubs, meet people, make new friends and the play will follow

But, in reality, if you look like John (Joseph) Merrick's uglier brother then the chances are still pretty slim

The cost of an escort will probably be equivalent to the money/time spent at socials or clubs where you may be unsuccessful in finding a playmate but with the escort you'll get a guaranteed shag, suck and whatever else you fancy. Plus, she'll probably be much more attractive with a better figure than most you'll meet at the socials/clubs anyway

*The above is my opinion only and in no way reflects the opinion of the site. References to persons living or dead are intentional*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe having more than a 2 line profile would help.

You are one of hundreds of single forty somethings males on here. If you want any chance at all, you have to stand out, let people know what your likes and dislikes are, what you can offer a playmate. Let them know you have a face pic to at least send to them if asked if you cant show one publicly.

As has been said, socials and local clubs are good ways to get noticed but above all patience. Unless you are lucky it can take months before you can get a meet.

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester


" Let them know you have a face pic to at least send to them if asked if you cant show one publicly.

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The OP has stated he keeps getting knocked back AFTER he's sent his face pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With a true Escort you are not guaranteed a shag, suck etc...you are paying for her company, anything other then that is prostitution. There are actually a lot of women that are escorts that don't sleep with all of there clients, I know a number of them. Also they don't all look like Billie Piper from the secret diary of a call girl, most are just normal average looking women in all shapes and sizes, and they spend their time going out for dinner with bored lonely business men and offer nothing more the company.

I do think that this site can be soul destroying with the amount of rejection you get and how people do it, but clubs and socials are a much better idea then paying for a prostitute as that is what you are talking about here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Let them know you have a face pic to at least send to them if asked if you cant show one publicly.

The OP has stated he keeps getting knocked back AFTER he's sent his face pic"

Whoops didnt see that bit, its 4 am

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester


"With a true Escort you are not guaranteed a shag, suck etc...you are paying for her company, anything other then that is prostitution. There are actually a lot of women that are escorts that don't sleep with all of there clients, I know a number of them. Also they don't all look like Billie Piper from the secret diary of a call girl, most are just normal average looking women in all shapes and sizes, and they spend their time going out for dinner with bored lonely business men and offer nothing more the company.

I do think that this site can be soul destroying with the amount of rejection you get and how people do it, but clubs and socials are a much better idea then paying for a prostitute as that is what you are talking about here."

If he does take the escort route he's hardly going to go for one who won't do extras, will he? If he's any sense this would be established upon booking.

Also, with the massive choice he'll have I'm sure he could get someone looking close to Billie Piper if he so desired

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By *olvesguy1970 OP   Man
over a year ago

Telford

Thanks for the advice detailed profile is a good start plus billie piper is not my type was looking at bbw and fuller figure ladies x

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


" There are actually a lot of women that are escorts that don't sleep with all of there clients, I know a number of them."

LMAO, is that what they tell you? I would suggest that if they don't shag their clients they won't last long. Sure, some punters just want company but it's not the norm.

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By *uckcouple-nwCouple
over a year ago

St Helens

I believe you are probably facing the same problem as 99% of ever other single male on here

First Fabs is not a dating site, I am not suggesting relationships haven't been born on here but if that whats your looking for then there are better sites

If you are simply looking for sex you first need to realise its a competitive situation. For every woman on here or visiting a club there is approximately 30 single guys so you need to figure out why any woman would choose you and work to your strengths

If you ain't hung like a porn star sending a pic of you floppy with a online msg "u wanna fuck" is probably going to get you rejected .... in fact it probably will even if you are hung!

Stand out from the crowd and actually spend time writing a introduction and more importantly any replies, if you are not confident in you photos avoid sending them until you have spend some time communicating first

Will guarantee getting you past first base ... no! ..... but then there are no guarantees in life you just have to keep making your own opportunities

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""u wanna fuck" is probably going to get you rejected .... in fact it probably will even if you are hung!"

And so they should be hung, if that's the best they can do!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just tell them youve got a 12" tounge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

....& breath through your ears.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

and you're a bi fem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must admit I have given up trying to get any meets on this site. Just use it for the social side now. Go to a club you may have better luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With a true Escort you are not guaranteed a shag, suck etc...you are paying for her company, anything other then that is prostitution. There are actually a lot of women that are escorts that don't sleep with all of there clients, I know a number of them. Also they don't all look like Billie Piper from the secret diary of a call girl, most are just normal average looking women in all shapes and sizes, and they spend their time going out for dinner with bored lonely business men and offer nothing more the company..with the influx of eastern europeans the girls are very attractive often stunning

I do think that this site can be soul destroying with the amount of rejection you get and how people do it, but clubs and socials are a much better idea then paying for a prostitute as that is what you are talking about here."

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over a year ago

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Give your profile a make over, it would help. Have a think about your pic. Get some variety with pics, face, body, cock and one of you looking well dressed and someone who you wouldn't object to knocking on your door.

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By *iss_BehavingWoman
over a year ago

manchester

Get out and visit the clubs, use humour !!.. it really help a long way even if you don't get to play on the 1st couple of nights. Chat to the bar staff, they know the clients who go to the clubs better than anyone and will do their best to try and introduce you to the other peep's there...

get a few verifications and you'll be surprised how quickly things can change !

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By *exyLancs2Couple
over a year ago

Manchester


"Get out and visit the clubs, use humour !!.. it really help a long way even if you don't get to play on the 1st couple of nights. Chat to the bar staff, they know the clients who go to the clubs better than anyone and will do their best to try and introduce you to the other peep's there...

get a few verifications and you'll be surprised how quickly things can change ! "

The advice just does not get better than this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm struggling to meet anyone of here I know I'm not the best looking or hunky but I joined this site to make new friends and have some fun on the way but lee getting knocked back when I send a face pic so I was thinking of using a escort agency at least I would have some company and fun even if its costing me would love some advice on this please "

as a practically founder member on here all i can say is give yourself time, dont pay an escort agency for gawds sake look after yr money, go to local socials and get yourself known when fems trust you , you will get your meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Remember with an escort you're paying for her company only anything else that happens is between consenting adults.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to agree , as a single woman who gets inundated with messages , your profile wouldn't be looked at twice , doesn't look like you have made an effort.

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By *exiSlutBabeWoman
over a year ago

Stoke

Don't know anything about escorts but I do know what I look for in a man, personality is the key for me, I am more likely to talk to a guy who is "outside" the magazine parameters than a young Adonis, if he has the right personality then his size and looks will fade into the distance as we head to a room to play.

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By *olvesguy1970 OP   Man
over a year ago

Telford

Thanks for the advice guys taken on board no escots I'm going to give my profile a make over just looked at it and I agree it's crap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With a true Escort you are not guaranteed a shag, suck etc...you are paying for her company, anything other then that is prostitution. There are actually a lot of women that are escorts that don't sleep with all of there clients, I know a number of them. Also they don't all look like Billie Piper from the secret diary of a call girl, most are just normal average looking women in all shapes and sizes, and they spend their time going out for dinner with bored lonely business men and offer nothing more the company.

I do think that this site can be soul destroying with the amount of rejection you get and how people do it, but clubs and socials are a much better idea then paying for a prostitute as that is what you are talking about here."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put a face pic on your profile if you can and don't wright loads as people get bored just a little about yourself and what you're looking for here . And don't say ooo not the best looking ... or not the best body as people here all like different things to some you will be just right for some you will not Good LUCK. XX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be confident in yourself... profiles that are empty and have nothing that makes you want to know more are just worthless.

If your caring and like the social side of fab then put that. Everyone is after something different and some girls actually like a guy that makes the effort to chat.

One of the biggest turnoffs I find are the very over cocky and also the ones that put themselves down.

Above all be patient.. you have been verified thats more than allot of single guys on here !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Put a face pic on your profile if you can and don't wright loads as people get bored just a little about yourself and what you're looking for here . And don't say ooo not the best looking ... or not the best body as people here all like different things to some you will be just right for some you will not Good LUCK. XX"

he said that the problem was his face pic!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have thought about going to an escourt to live out everything I really want as ery few women on hear are intrested in playing with a cd. Found a local girl 80 pounds an hour seems ok to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You don't need an escort agency, this site has thousands of women gagging for sex, some real beauties, some mingers and everything in between, if you have 2 arms, 2 legs and a cock you will get women... but after looking at your profile it is very lacking, it is an advert to sell you, a pic, and some words may help. good luck, and save your money for condoms and lube, you have a pulse, that seems to be enough for many women, have fun and happy swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's already been said lots. Sort out your profile at the minute it's worth less than nothing no text worth reading no pictures a blank avatar. Are you sending face pics with first message by any chance ?

Fabs jut like everything else in life you only get what you put in.

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By *olvesguy1970 OP   Man
over a year ago

Telford

Right guys took everything on board profile revamp done a few pics up iv been honest so let me know what you think and please be honest but constructive thanks guys xx

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By *olvesguy1970 OP   Man
over a year ago

Telford


"Right guys took everything on board profile revamp done a few pics up iv been honest so let me know what you think and please be honest but constructive thanks guys xx "

Oh and I'm staying away from escots at mo going to give this site a descent go of it first feel iv got a lot to offer socialbly and in my coffee making skills lol thanks again guys for the advice x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right guys took everything on board profile revamp done a few pics up iv been honest so let me know what you think and please be honest but constructive thanks guys xx "

Didn't see the original so hard to comment - but visible pics would be of benefit to you I'm sure!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for the advice detailed profile is a good start plus billie piper is not my type was looking at bbw and fuller figure ladies x"

I quite like Billie Piper

Wayne

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right guys took everything on board profile revamp done a few pics up iv been honest so let me know what you think and please be honest but constructive thanks guys xx

Didn't see the original so hard to comment - but visible pics would be of benefit to you I'm sure! "

I agree that a nice body shot or pic with face blocked out etc would set off your profile a treat, obi's photo is a good example. I like seeing a face pic with an email when you write too but I know lots dont worry about that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you are going down that route,save a bit of money and go to a brothel/massage parlour,but you will only get what you pay for,not along session unless you pay mega bucks.but to be honest i think a lot of single guy's struggle to see couples or single women on this site

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