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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What would you do?

I got chatting to a guy with the thought of meeting in mind before I decided I wasnt gonna meet anymore people from here, I passed on my number to exchange a few texts/pics and he got my personal snapchat through my mobile number, hes now messaging my 15yo little sister on snapchat cause you can see the top 3people you snapchat and hes clearly gone mad and added a family member which I would NEVER DO! I've messaged him asking him nicely to stop but would any of you do what he has? Or am I being too nosey in asking him to stop messaging my sister? Hes early 30s and shes only 15 and not on fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What would you do?

I got chatting to a guy with the thought of meeting in mind before I decided I wasnt gonna meet anymore people from here, I passed on my number to exchange a few texts/pics and he got my personal snapchat through my mobile number, hes now messaging my 15yo little sister on snapchat cause you can see the top 3people you snapchat and hes clearly gone mad and added a family member which I would NEVER DO! I've messaged him asking him nicely to stop but would any of you do what he has? Or am I being too nosey in asking him to stop messaging my sister? Hes early 30s and shes only 15 and not on fab."
can you block his number at all? I dont use snapchat so i cant help there. I would message him not so politely and tell him she is 15 and if he doesnt want to be reported a paedo to stop all contact immediately

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

What he's doing is hugely inappropriate not to mention very cheeky. Since you can't control what he does you should try and do what you can from your end, get your sister to stop contact and block him if snapchat slows that, same for the other family member and don't give out these sort of contact details again.

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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago

Rockford

Wow Thanks for the warning. .. dagerous stuff.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's awful... I'd give him a firm warning... I don't use snapchat but my daughter does and I am always having to check it.. it's an awful thing.

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By *allen angelzWoman
over a year ago

oxon

I no this isn't the same but I meet a guy from here who became a family friend. I went to stay with friends for a night he ended up sexually grooming my youngest daughter who's under 16, did involve the police lesson for everyone to learn by xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never heard of Snapchat but what this guy is doing is wrong. Tell him you're going to report him and Snapchat to the police.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh my fucking god!

He is beyond out of order!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

social media is good for some things , but innapropriate for sex meets and swinging sites,

always always have a separate account

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire


"social media is good for some things , but innapropriate for sex meets and swinging sites,

always always have a separate account"

Damn good advice that...

Keep the two divided.... Always

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I amazed anyone would even give out their number. We have a separate phone number which we use for meets.

Keep your privacy at all times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What would you do?

I got chatting to a guy with the thought of meeting in mind before I decided I wasnt gonna meet anymore people from here, I passed on my number to exchange a few texts/pics and he got my personal snapchat through my mobile number, hes now messaging my 15yo little sister on snapchat cause you can see the top 3people you snapchat and hes clearly gone mad and added a family member which I would NEVER DO! I've messaged him asking him nicely to stop but would any of you do what he has? Or am I being too nosey in asking him to stop messaging my sister? Hes early 30s and shes only 15 and not on fab."

He sounds like he's grooming an underage girl...what do you think you should do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Although the guy is totally out of order you must take some responsibility for what has happened.

You may of exchanged mails for some time but the guy is a total stranger.

What is wrong with keeping all your contact with him on here or on skpe if you want more privacy. Why on earth provide details that gives him a route into your private life.

People give out far too much info on here to complete strangers. Lesson for us all.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"social media is good for some things , but innapropriate for sex meets and swinging sites,

always always have a separate account

Damn good advice that...

Keep the two divided.... Always "

I sent him an email explaining my thoughts and il ask my sister if hes still messaging her. If I had enough money to have 2 phones that can send pictures and that id have 2 but sadly I dont have that kind of funds. I didnt think snapchat would use my mobile number as its a nickname you use and an email address :/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In view of your sister's age I would have thought speaking to your parents and the police are the only appropriate steps.

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