FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to Swinging Support and Advice

Convincing Others

Jump to newest
 

By *s103 OP   Man
over a year ago

London

So I have met a girl out of here and I have now told her I use this site, she doesn't like it. I am kinda torn between both cos met some fun people here and I really enjoy it, but obviously like her too. What would you do?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

take time out and see how it goes with her, it is early days.

just hide your profile

good luck, be happy

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"take time out and see how it goes with her, it is early days.

just hide your profile

good luck, be happy"

+1

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm reading that that you want to carry on meeting, and if that's the case then If the girl was that special I doubt you'd even be asking this question.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

your choice... how did you meet?

I'd say close your profile and give it a go, but also believe in holding out for the one that gets how you work entirely x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you think shes worth getting to know a little better then take a step back from here and spend more time with her

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See how it goes, fab will still be here if it doesn't work out

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

Is this part of who you are tho? If so the danger is resentment or a constant hankering to be swinging again. Hard to answer without being you frankly! Good luck mate

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take a break mate she may be worth it

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I have met a girl out of here and I have now told her I use this site, she doesn't like it. I am kinda torn between both cos met some fun people here and I really enjoy it, but obviously like her too. What would you do? "

get a new girl

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't expect to change who I am, yet time can make you change what you want..

Cali

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you like her then take a step back from this and see what happens.

If things work out between you then you can always revisit the idea later on. You never know she might be open to playing as a couple once she feels secure with you!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are a gorgeous 21 yo - too young to be dictated to ! Sod the girl and enjoy the site ! X

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire


"So I have met a girl out of here and I have now told her I use this site, she doesn't like it. I am kinda torn between both cos met some fun people here and I really enjoy it, but obviously like her too. What would you do? "

I met someone on a different site .. he left but I couldn't and it destroyed us

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

take a time out. hang out with her if you feel you need fab to complete your life in a few months tell her about your needs and see how you go

what ever you choose be true to your self.. good luck

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"So I have met a girl out of here and I have now told her I use this site, she doesn't like it. I am kinda torn between both cos met some fun people here and I really enjoy it, but obviously like her too. What would you do? "

Put up with this now and you'll be pussy whipped till you dump her.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I have met a girl out of here and I have now told her I use this site, she doesn't like it. I am kinda torn between both cos met some fun people here and I really enjoy it, but obviously like her too. What would you do? "

what would i do, stay but don't tell her

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know you or this girl... but her not being happy about you being on FAB does not make her a dictator, nor does you taking a break make you pussy whipped.

As everyone keeps saying, swingers are in the minority. So the majority of single girls out there will see you sleeping with other girls whilst being with them as cheating. Things wouldn't develop as she would probably feel insecure and threatened all the time as you don't have an existing relationship.

Her not being okay with it doesn't make her unworthy of your time. She just has a different _iewpoint.

If you can't live without Fabs and can only see yourself in a relationship with someone who is in the lifestyle then yes, you should probably stop seeing her.

But if you like her then make the decision to take a break and give things a chance.

Don't stay on here behind her back!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh


"I don't know you or this girl... but her not being happy about you being on FAB does not make her a dictator, nor does you taking a break make you pussy whipped.

As everyone keeps saying, swingers are in the minority. So the majority of single girls out there will see you sleeping with other girls whilst being with them as cheating. Things wouldn't develop as she would probably feel insecure and threatened all the time as you don't have an existing relationship.

Her not being okay with it doesn't make her unworthy of your time. She just has a different _iewpoint.

If you can't live without Fabs and can only see yourself in a relationship with someone who is in the lifestyle then yes, you should probably stop seeing her.

But if you like her then make the decision to take a break and give things a chance.

Don't stay on here behind her back!"

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only you can know the real answer to this. As you are the only person that knows your true needs and desires.

Best to just take a break for a while then see how you feel.

Also be careful about thinking you can bring her round to this again with out knowing the lady in question and her reaction to all this when you brought it up its impossible to even guess if she would. While your on a break if you take one have a good think about if your willing to completely give up this lifestyle for her if not it will probably lead to some very negative feelings between you

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm reading that that you want to carry on meeting, and if that's the case then If the girl was that special I doubt you'd even be asking this question.

"

this.

if you like her so much you wouldnt even be asking the question.

is no strings sex with others REALLY worth risking a potential relationship for?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top