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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi I need help,y profile is rubbish and I don't know how to improve it as I have been told I come across as desperate which I'm not, please I need help in improving my profile so I can meet a lady for some mutual pleasure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi. Looks alright to me but you could maybe put up a smiling face pic? But that's all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe the fact that you are married is putting people off .... It certainly would us x

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Wouldn't say desperate but it does read like a billion other same old same old profiles on here.

If you were a lady and you received a message from you what in your profile would make you think 'yeah he sounds decent/interesting etc ill reply' ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First of all remove your phone number. It looks like you don't care about who calls you.

Remove that you want someone to spend time with during the day.

Take a look through the mens profiles and take a few tips from those that have been well verified if you are that stuck.

Other than that it's just patience. There's probably over a hundred men to each woman on here so if you show the slightest sign of being clingy, needy, desperate etc then I'm afraid you'll more than likely drop straight to the bottom of the pile.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

You have a good interesting and exciting name that suggests good times ahead...and veris

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't take this the wrong way but who you are messaging may have something to do with it too.

A lot of older blokes come on here and start messaging 20 odd year old women thinking that they are in with a chance because it's a sex site. Would you think you'd be "in with a fighting chance" if you met them on the street or out at a bar? Reason I ask is that due to the high volume of men on here it, how do I word this? Well it elevates a womans status some lol.

I'm probably going to get a load of hate messages and whatever now but it's true. Woman can afford to be more picky than they would in reality because they have more to choose from.

Don't get me wrong the are the small minority that aren't like this and no doubt they will pipe up very shortly to say i'm wrong but i'd put a lot of money on it that i'm not

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By *istress-MazikeenWoman
over a year ago

bolton

Your married which goes against you, most people want single males, with no attachments.

Says you can accommodate, so does that mean your wife is out during the day?

Think about it, why would a woman want to come to your house, know that your wife could walk in???

And what the others have said, look at the profile and think would I want to meet that person.

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"Hi I need help,y profile is rubbish and I don't know how to improve it as I have been told I come across as desperate which I'm not, please I need help in improving my profile so I can meet a lady for some mutual pleasure "

It's the phone number which makes you look desperate. As if anybody will do...Not a good hook at all

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford


"You have a good interesting and exciting name that suggests good times ahead...and veris "
lol u could be brothers.

it seems to work i'm off to change my name to chelmsford steve form a que ladies

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"You have a good interesting and exciting name that suggests good times ahead...and veris lol u could be brothers.

it seems to work i'm off to change my name to chelmsford steve form a que ladies "

You do alright as Yam!

Derby no Internet signal steve? Lose the phone number! There was a thread before about a guy who gave out his mobile number and it ended up on adult sites all over the Internet.

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By *ungle VIPMan
over a year ago

Weedon

Apologies for jumping on this guys forum.

Just wondered what people thought of mine??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't take this the wrong way but who you are messaging may have something to do with it too.

A lot of older blokes come on here and start messaging 20 odd year old women thinking that they are in with a chance because it's a sex site. Would you think you'd be "in with a fighting chance" if you met them on the street or out at a bar? Reason I ask is that due to the high volume of men on here it, how do I word this? Well it elevates a womans status some lol.

I'm probably going to get a load of hate messages and whatever now but it's true. Woman can afford to be more picky than they would in reality because they have more to choose from.

Don't get me wrong the are the small minority that aren't like this and no doubt they will pipe up very shortly to say i'm wrong but i'd put a lot of money on it that i'm not "

I guess this is the polite version of another thread declaring women are up themselves even if ropey .

Some of us are as fussy in real life .

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