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By *ranimallxl5 OP   Man
over a year ago

Winchester

I find that I take too long to cum and i barely cum during sex Any help

When i use my hand i can cum in around 5-10 mins but i very rarely cum .. unless im doing anal which isnt good as hardly anyone does that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find that I take too long to cum and i barely cum during sex Any help

When i use my hand i can cum in around 5-10 mins but i very rarely cum .. unless im doing anal which isnt good as hardly anyone does that "

Do you masturbate often or a couple of times a day? This will cause the symptoms your describing, your body has gotten used to your hand and the familiarity and is not used to the different sensations that proper sex gives you.

You need to retrain your body, lay off any masturbation for at least 2 weeks, this will resensitise your penis and you will find sex much more pleasurable. Also relax and enjoy it, just dont think of not trying to cum and go with the flow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find that I take too long to cum and i barely cum during sex Any help

When i use my hand i can cum in around 5-10 mins but i very rarely cum .. unless im doing anal which isnt good as hardly anyone does that

Do you masturbate often or a couple of times a day? This will cause the symptoms your describing, your body has gotten used to your hand and the familiarity and is not used to the different sensations that proper sex gives you.

You need to retrain your body, lay off any masturbation for at least 2 weeks, this will resensitise your penis and you will find sex much more pleasurable. Also relax and enjoy it, just dont think of not trying to cum and go with the flow."

Ooooooooohhhhhh DOCTOR lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

tighter pussy needed then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can suffer from this especially when playing I often hold back from coming but if I hold back to often it then takes an age to cum, happened last night at chams I never wank though haven't wanked for about a year or so

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By *ranimallxl5 OP   Man
over a year ago

Winchester

you never wank ..wow

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By *ranimallxl5 OP   Man
over a year ago

Winchester

thanks for the advice :P i wank about 5 times aweek .. i shall try to cut down to .. 2 ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"thanks for the advice :P i wank about 5 times aweek .. i shall try to cut down to .. 2 ? "

For the first fortnight none, its essential to reset your bodys rhythms.

Trust me i had exactly the same problem and thats how i cured it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you never wank ..wow "

Just don't feel the need to, can have sex when I feel aroused

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you never wank ..wow "

the advantage of being a couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you never wank ..wow

the advantage of being a couple"

is that you can wank together - and alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks muchky, reading this has answered a few questions, abstain for a fortnight, its going to be rough but well worth a try

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Phil does'nt always cum on a meet in fact its very rare for him to do so, personally i love it and so have most of our meets as it means hours of fun there is the rare occasion when us women think there is something wrong with us if you guys manage to control yourselves but in the long run as long as everyone has fun whats the problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find that I take too long to cum and i barely cum during sex Any help

When i use my hand i can cum in around 5-10 mins but i very rarely cum .. unless im doing anal which isnt good as hardly anyone does that

Do you masturbate often or a couple of times a day? This will cause the symptoms your describing, your body has gotten used to your hand and the familiarity and is not used to the different sensations that proper sex gives you.

Not wank for 2 weeks ! If you'r not able to come something you are doing is not turning you'r brain on !

You need to retrain your body, lay off any masturbation for at least 2 weeks, this will resensitise your penis and you will find sex much more pleasurable. Also relax and enjoy it, just dont think of not trying to cum and go with the flow."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find that I take too long to cum and i barely cum during sex Any help

When i use my hand i can cum in around 5-10 mins but i very rarely cum .. unless im doing anal which isnt good as hardly anyone does that "

Anal is the only sex I do !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can remember a chap (part of a couple) who couldn't or took ages to cum....

I think all women were not keen on a bloke who can't cum, very few can be fuck for ages and ages, cum sort of lets you know you can have a rest...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take a while to cum after being hard for 2 plus hours because my cock gets insensitive, it just feels almost numb sometimes.

I find it helps to lie back and rest and let it go down. Then I get my lady to bring it up and goes for it! I usually come in a few minutes, but then again she is brilliant at BJs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Phew so pleased others have the same issue thought it was just me.

I had same problem as a previous poster where i kept stopping myself at point of cumming to prolong sex but its worked against me now as it takes an age to cum. In reality its almost as bad as premature ejaculation really.

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

I had to go to hospital for treatment for premature ejaculation last week.

I'm alright now, but it was touch and go for a while.

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